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Crying at bake off

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NigellasNeck · 23/09/2026 12:04

I cried when Molly dropped her cake. Just a few tears.

I'm a saddo aren't I?

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DeadSpace3 · 25/09/2026 04:17

I too thought Nigella must have had a stroke, she seemed to have fine motor skills issues, and the way she talked was bloody awful.

Speaking of which... Molly's voice is grating as hell, in fact she reminded me of Moaning Myrtle in Harry Potter 😅 . Danni, Clara and Shannon's voices weren't a great deal better either.

As an ND person myself, yes Danni is on the spectrum and I think Mo is too.

C4 have made sure all the DEI boxes have been ticked but have forgotten about the baking part of the show. Unless something amazing happens, this series is going to be as dull as hell.

Speaking of which 😅 we watched Second Helpings today, the replacement for Extra Slice, and it was some of the most boring drivel I've ever heard. There's absolutely no chemistry between anyone whatsoever, just a constant tedious "meh" interspersed with vaguely awkward moments. Urgh...

chezzabee80 · 25/09/2026 03:30

I was tearing up seeing at Pru, at the cake dropping and just how supportive the contestants are of each other and just how lovely it is to have bake off on, I'm overly sensitive though

Sasha07 · 25/09/2026 01:24

I'm abit late to the thread but I've only just found it! Yeah, usually I find it funny when a disaster happens but the look on her face when the cake fell... 😥

So glad others noticed how Nigella was eating! 🤣 It was like she was mechanical! Said to my partner that I think she's been cloned and it's her first day of trying to act human!
I was gutted when I found out Nigella was joining, thinking she'd be overly sensual... Sensualising(?!) each bite but I think she may grow on me, so far. Probably because, as pp described perfectly, 'Kind of like she was eating in secret in the kitchen in the middle of the night.' 🤣🤣 like a little mouse keeping lookout while it gobbles each bite.

Drag Queen dude can leave next episode afaic 🤷🏻‍♀️ and I agree with EasterPangolin, we said that as we were watching it too. (We'll still watch it though as I've waited all year for it!)

Thisposthasbeendeleted · 25/09/2026 01:09

nomas · 23/09/2026 12:26

I haven’t seen it but I would be more irritated that someone has dropped their cake. They’ve got one job!

Ir is that it was a slithery mess and glooped to on the floor?

I love your verb 'glooped'

LoafofSellotape · 24/09/2026 23:55

Thisusernameisalwaysavailable · 23/09/2026 20:43

I dislike her as judge for her GID AWFUL MANNERS.

taking massive bits of cake and cramming them in... Just fucking eat politely woman.

I'd have been asked to leave the table as a child if I'd shoved the spoon in my mouth like that! It was like she was taking the food with her teeth, very odd.

pineapplecrushed · 24/09/2026 23:54

ohthesuspense · 24/09/2026 11:21

Who shouldn’t have been there?
Do you think of there hadn’t been a drag Queen in a thrupple you’d have been able to cope?

Not attention seekers? people who enjoy baking and don't want to be a star? Contestants who actually represent most people?

pineapplecrushed · 24/09/2026 23:51

TheEasterPangolin · 24/09/2026 11:12

‘You’re perfectly entitled to not watch but doing so because “DEI!!!!” Is just ridiculous. Non- white contestants, gay contestants, disabled contestants, ND contestants have been part of the Bake Off fold since it started. Because it reflects the society we live in. Shock horror, not just middle aged women and young middle class girls bake!’

My gripe is that baking ability should come first, what with it being called ‘Bake Off’. To me it looks like they’re more concerned with putting together a rounded mix of society, before looking at contestants baking skill and experience. The last few years the standard has got steadily lower. I know it’s not just white middle age and young women who bake, but some of the contestants shouldn’t have made it past the auditions.

the contestants do not represent society as most people in society are not those things. They have gone out of their way to get people who are in no way the norm and it's tiresome.

Cartouche · 24/09/2026 23:51

pineapplecrushed · 24/09/2026 23:49

no. There aren't loads of people secretly in throuples. You're being ridiculous.

And you are misreading. The discussion was about ‘normalising’ throuples being a bad thing.

pineapplecrushed · 24/09/2026 23:49

Cartouche · 24/09/2026 10:03

Well, that was the attitude to gay relationships not very long ago. Only a fairly small minority of people are gay, yet thankfully we’ve moved past the stage in institutionalised homophobia as expressed in marriage laws and legislation.

I mean, I imagine very few people are in ‘official’ throuples, though a relationships counsellor friend said she’s had an uptake in them coming to see her over the past few years (and in a small Irish city, not LA or somewhere) but I’m not sure its rarity is problematic in itself, is it?

no. There aren't loads of people secretly in throuples. You're being ridiculous.

pineapplecrushed · 24/09/2026 23:45

User76443998 · 23/09/2026 22:12

The sole reason I’m not watching this series with my pre teen. I don’t want to explain thrupples. Ffs. How is that something that’s “mainstream” enough to be shown on a baking programme.

”Dawn is 37 and lives with her partner Chris. When she’s not working as an accountant, they both enjoy gardening and swinging.”

”Charlie is 59 and from Swindon. They live with their partner Bucky, a retired race horse.”

It’s so not ok for a show at 8pm to have “drag man lives in a thrupple with Percy and Pippin” (or whatever they’re called). How is that appropriate for a pre watershed programme. Who wants to explain THRUPPLES to their children?!

Agree. just disappointing. I just want....to watch baking? Society doesn't need to normalise thrupples ffs. And are drag queens not over yet?

pineapplecrushed · 24/09/2026 23:42

RachelGreep87 · 23/09/2026 22:03

Ah yes, a polygamous relationship has the homophobes frothing.

it's bullshit. Throughout time immemorial there are people who love attention. They will gravitate to whatever trend du jour will give them it. A throuple isn't something any significant amount of people are doing. It doesn't need 'representation'. This latest cohort are the least representative of the population. Like all reality shows, once people cotton on it's a spirigboard for fame, all the usuals come out.

Cartouche · 24/09/2026 23:19

likelysuspect · 24/09/2026 19:49

All the people being so ok with the throuple thing, Im sure you would be as well if it was 'he lives at home with his 2 girlfriends'?

You'd be happy to explain to your daughter that just like some people have 2 daddies, well some men have 2 girlfriends. You might be lucky enough to meet such a man one day dear.

You get that they do come in other configurations, right? Like the guy in GBBO is in an all-male throuple? All-female ones also possible, likewise one woman, two men? And if a guy is in a throuple, regardless of the sex of the others, he doesn’t have any more status than anyone else in it.

LindorDoubleChoc · 24/09/2026 21:37

Mydogisagentleman · 24/09/2026 18:53

I don't think that he is part of a trouble, I think he simply lives in the same house as a couple.
Dd has a friend who shared a house/rented a room from two men who were a couple. I doubt that he would have described himself as part of a thruople though

Oh bless.

FuzzySlippers · 24/09/2026 21:01

I love Nigella she is very intelligent, and she knows so much about food- I just hope she still gets to be herself as a presenter on the show.
I watched it specially to see her on it- don’t normally watch it at all so that’s one extra viewer they have now thanks to her.

I was gutted too for the woman who used the wheelchair. Gutted again how everyone let her say she was going to be positive after this shit thing happened. As if it was just random chance.

Actually, I would have had a massive word with channel 4 and the production company over this, had this been me in her situation.

If an oven door tips down past the horizontal such that burning hot food can just slide out- which she had commented on- and if you are a wheelchair user and can’t quickly move your legs out of the way, then that’s bloody dangerous. So I hope she sues them so that people running shows will think more carefully about putting in equal safety needs for disabled people.

Sbmpp · 24/09/2026 20:52

Sorry, posted on wrong site.

Sbmpp · 24/09/2026 20:50

Here in the US it’s not on yet.

tommyhoundmum · 24/09/2026 20:35

VickyEadie · 23/09/2026 12:34

I do like Nigella as a judge - and how even the young gay fella is flirting with her!

I remember when she was the literary reviewer in the Sunday Times. So sad about John Diamond her husband who died young.

AllIwantForChrismasIsAKitchenAidStandMixer · 24/09/2026 20:23

likelysuspect · 24/09/2026 19:49

All the people being so ok with the throuple thing, Im sure you would be as well if it was 'he lives at home with his 2 girlfriends'?

You'd be happy to explain to your daughter that just like some people have 2 daddies, well some men have 2 girlfriends. You might be lucky enough to meet such a man one day dear.

I don’t care too much if someone wants to be in a throuple although it’s not for me and I don’t understand it. I think it’s odd when two of the people are married and there is then a third “partner” and I find it far less uncomfortable than people being in couples but have multiple other casual partners who aren’t anything to do with their spouse on the side, that’s weird to me.

AllIwantForChrismasIsAKitchenAidStandMixer · 24/09/2026 20:20

Cartouche · 24/09/2026 19:45

But I’m pretty sure the voiceover said he ‘lives with his partners X and Y and their dogs.’

I went back to check yesterday after someone mentioned this at work - definitely in a throuple

likelysuspect · 24/09/2026 19:49

All the people being so ok with the throuple thing, Im sure you would be as well if it was 'he lives at home with his 2 girlfriends'?

You'd be happy to explain to your daughter that just like some people have 2 daddies, well some men have 2 girlfriends. You might be lucky enough to meet such a man one day dear.

Cartouche · 24/09/2026 19:45

Mydogisagentleman · 24/09/2026 18:53

I don't think that he is part of a trouble, I think he simply lives in the same house as a couple.
Dd has a friend who shared a house/rented a room from two men who were a couple. I doubt that he would have described himself as part of a thruople though

But I’m pretty sure the voiceover said he ‘lives with his partners X and Y and their dogs.’

AllIwantForChrismasIsAKitchenAidStandMixer · 24/09/2026 18:55

I enjoyed it but I did feel like they were playing diversity bingo a bit too hard!

Annoys me that every series lately someone who isn’t doing very well becomes “ill” and ends up going through to another week because they don’t send anyone home! A couple of them were absolute crap.

Mydogisagentleman · 24/09/2026 18:53

I don't think that he is part of a trouble, I think he simply lives in the same house as a couple.
Dd has a friend who shared a house/rented a room from two men who were a couple. I doubt that he would have described himself as part of a thruople though

Cartouche · 24/09/2026 18:37

MissCooCooMcgoo · 24/09/2026 12:41

This doesnt track. You absolutely would not need to take a massive forkful to try and incorporate all layers and fillings in one go.

You take a small amount of cake and adjacent filling for each layer and taste them separately.

The way she was shoveling in huge chunks each time was just stupid.

Yes, but even if you take multiple small forkfuls, they all add up! And Nigella is brand new as a judge. Even if she got advice from Paul Hollywood, or indeed Mary Berry or Prue Leith, about how to pace herself when tasting, it’s a very different experience to hosting your own cookery show. She’s a beginner judge.

Dinosaurhearmeroar · 24/09/2026 18:02

Poor Molly - I did feel for her. But it was all fine in the end. Danni, bless her, is a tad annoying. From one ND person to another she is definitely autistic. Her cakes also looked like they tasted foul and the judges were just being polite as it was the first week.

just read that danni is a them so for that reason I’m out.

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