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To think hotel designers should at least have once slept in a room before being allowed to design a room.

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FucksakeLavender · 22/09/2026 21:28

I travel a lot for work and for pleasure.

I know I'm a particular sort of person buy Yegods some of the room I've stayed in at complete abs utter shite designed by people who I don't think have ever slept I. A room ever on their whole life ever, not once.

A bathroom light that comes on by sensor as you open the door. Nay, not A bathroom light, four lights. 3am snoozy wee completely brightened like the sun. No chance of just meandering back in my slightly soporific stupor.

And more poor DH who didn't even need to be awake now has frazzled corneas.

Light switches that you can't reach from prone in bed. What the warrant feck.

A kettle that yiu can't boil at the same time as watching tv because of the situation of sockets.

A 12foot by 8 foot plate glass window opposite my bed looking out into a communal outdoor space. Felt like investing in a red bulb for that hotel.

Lights choice? 13 spotlights and 2 side lights. Or nothing. No in between.

A very very stylish en suite in an historic building which was just a stone wall 2/3 of the height of the room. No ceiling to it. All ablution noise audible throughout the room. Married 35 years but, nope I'd rather not hear That tyfvfm.

A door that only locks from a single key from outside the room. So if one of use goes out for a bit, the other has to remain locked in. Or unlocked, compromising safety.

No handheld shower, and no shower cap provided. Nope I don't want my hair washed every time I shower thank you.

Had held showers with no parking location so it's a one handed shower for me, generally resulting in a soaked bathroom ffffs.

No socket near the bed.

No food on a Sunday evening.

No physical chain or bolt in the inside of the door.

A chair in the route from my side of the bed to the en suite. I'm sure I've broken toes in this scenario.

Every hotel employee should be forced to spend a nice in each room to check for smooth sailing.

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CrushingOnRubies · 22/09/2026 23:49

Might be a German thing went on holiday there a few years ago. 2 out of the 3 hotels had showers n the hotel room. Not in the bathroom the actual bedroom with clear glass shower doors. First proper holiday with DP it was quite revealing shall we say.

Jopo12 · 22/09/2026 23:48

Led light overhead in front of the mirror casting your entire face in shadow when. Doing your make up.

Bath mats that look exactly hand towels, which do I use???

Nowhere to put your suitcase except on the bed, mucky wheels on white sheets

jezlifecoach · 22/09/2026 23:47

Mirrors over a dressing table that are too high up when you sit down so you’re just looking at your forehead when you’re trying to do hair and make up.

ghastly lights over mirrors that you make you look fugly as shit

Defender90 · 22/09/2026 23:41

Came here to say glass showers. We stayed at the Hilton Silverstone and despite a 26 year relationship. Ew.

Also those barn sliding doors on toilets. Let me do my thing in peace!!

CrushingOnRubies · 22/09/2026 23:40

One room where the air con unit had a blue flashing light which lit up the room with each flash

when there are no sockets near a mirror. Making hair drying a nightmare. Wash my hair quite a lot when away. Especially if there’s a pool at the hotel or going to an event.

no where to put a suitcase out of the way so tripping over it all the time.

Cartouche · 22/09/2026 23:38

FucksakeLavender · 22/09/2026 22:06

Oh gosh yes cushions and bed runners with nowhere to deposit them. You know they've been on the floor then back onto the next set of clean clean sheets. Envy

I can reiterate from my chambermaiding days that they are only ever washed if actually covered in puke, red wine or anything else obviously staining, otherwise they’re just spritzed.

ChocolateApples · 22/09/2026 23:20

YANBU. So much bad design. This stuff is basic; the rooms are purpose built. I'm not staying in someone's spare room that doubles as an office where I expect to make do. I don't get why there isn't just a checklist they work through.

Theyreeatingthedogs · 22/09/2026 23:19

Lack of shelves, horizontal surfaces and hooks in en-suites. Where are we supposed to put our stuff.

ChocolateApples · 22/09/2026 23:18

Merrybandofpirates · 22/09/2026 21:51

I don’t think I know anyone who washed their hair everyday. It’s really not at all weird to shower and not wash your hair.

I wash my hair every day, but still hop in for the odd extra shower if I've got hot and sweaty.

Waitingfordoggo · 22/09/2026 23:18

JustWalnut · 22/09/2026 21:37

No sockets by the bed is the most annoying thing!

It's a bit weird not to wash your hair every time you shower though. If you don't, you should take your own shower cap.

It’s not weird at all! I shower twice most days (not trying to be wasteful; I teach fitness classes so I do need two showers a day- usually only about 3-4 minutes in there though). I wash my hair about once a week!

MermaidMummy06 · 22/09/2026 23:14

Glass bathroom walls. Stayed in a brand new hotel, where the loo faced the glass wall, on the other side was the bed. Went to reception and they already had curtains with suction cups on offer because people complained so much!

Doors that shudder everytime some one else on your floor opens/closes a door.

Lack of powerpoints. DH now carries a powerboatd. Tbf he carries more tech than an electronics shop.

CharlotteStreetW1 · 22/09/2026 23:07

parietal · 22/09/2026 21:33

Glass bathroom walls are the worst of the dumb trends.

and any kind of automatic lighting

I would have wholeheartedly agreed until recently when our hotel had a power cut while I was showering. Fortunately it was daylight so I could still see what I was doing.

SereneReader · 22/09/2026 23:06

Recently stayed somewhere and the bath was so narrow that I had to stand in the shower over bath, side on so I could open my legs enough to wash my groin and undercarriage.

Teenagerantruns · 22/09/2026 23:05

My pet hates are no coat hooks, what am.l going to do with my coat.
Not enough hangers.
Only one chair in a double room.

Globules · 22/09/2026 23:05

Oh, and another room where a small tug on a curtain opened/closed the curtains fully.

I sometimes wanted a little natural light in my room. Not blazing sunshine throughout or sitting in the pitch black.

And that was in one of the 50 best small hotels of the world, named in a list a few years ago as the plaque was proudly displayed in reception.

Boxingshibes · 22/09/2026 23:03

I travel every other week for work, and have a 3m extension lead cable in my bag. Why are plug sockets in stupid places?
Why are they not next to the bed?
Worst place had 1 where the tv was plugged in no other. My extension lead just reached the bed to charge my phone.
I might start taking 2.

Globules · 22/09/2026 23:01

One of the hotels i stayed in over the summer had 14 light switches.

The light above the suitcase rack near the door was only guaranteed to turn off from a switch on the other side of the room.

It also turned off with a combination of some unknown design of some switches on and others off.

CrocsNotDocs · 22/09/2026 22:58

Shower heads that are too low. I mean I am freakishly tall for a woman and just over 6ft but it’s not an unusual height for a man and they use showers too. Hate having to squat to get my head under the rose.

Also, some hotels have replaced the plug sockets beside beds with USB only sockets. I see their logic but a plug is still needed for anyone with a CPAP machine or people like me who need up to 4 usb ports and the socket provides only 2.

OnTheBoardwalk · 22/09/2026 22:57

Not being able to turn on the bathroom light without the fan whirring up big time. Annoying for anyone in your room or next to it, or below or above it

i was having quotes for new bathroom. One of them told me I was being dramatic wanting a separate switch. He didn’t make the shortlist

RampantIvy · 22/09/2026 22:56

No sockets by the bed is the worst one.

I agree. DH uses a CPAP machine and now keeps an extension lead in his overnight bag just in case. We have stayed in many places where it has trailed across the floor to a socket on the other side of the room.

PeloMom · 22/09/2026 22:55

DisappearingGirl · 22/09/2026 22:46

Also the duvets are always way too thick and hot.

And the pillows are the thickness where using one is too thin and using two is too thick.

I’ve started calling ahead to make sure they have high rise pillows. Why can’t they just get it right???

RampantIvy · 22/09/2026 22:52

AmazonAntiqueStore · 22/09/2026 21:33

Agree with your list.

Also, surely someone could design smoke detectors without those little red flashing lights that are always put just above your head.

And handheld showers should be obligatory. Lost count of the number of times there’s just been a fixed shower - you end up being a contortionist just to wash properly.

Rainfall showers should be illegal. I hate them. I like a detachable shower head so that I can aim it everywhere that needs to be washed.

Cookingdoesntgettougher · 22/09/2026 22:52

No excuse for any modern hotel not to have bedside sockets for phones. I find some of the older hotels better. They have modernised the lighting but the plug sockets that I presume were for bedside lights can be used for phone.

I have glasses I need a proper bedside table. I always carry a case now, I’m pretty much blind if they break.

Agree on curtains that don’t close, positioning of vents, no cups, bins that are not lined

Cherryicecreamx · 22/09/2026 22:51

I went to one recently and I was shocked that instead of tea and coffee in the room, there were tea and coffee stations in the hallways!! They called themselves and "eco hotel" but surely we don't have to skimp on a cup of tea in our rooms!

SouthJersey1 · 22/09/2026 22:50

A bathroom with no door and the shower - with a wall that only went halfway up - placed so that anyone entering the room from the outside would see the person showering. Who thought that was OK?! I lived in fear of housekeeping stopping by.
Bathroom entrance doors that can't be fully opened. One was prevented by the countertop from opening more than about a 35 degree angle. There's no way the builders didn't know that.

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