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Tom Cruise on GQ cover…

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queenceleste · 22/09/2026 19:16

I mean, when will he be too old for the bare chest swagger? 🤢🤢

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AnnesPuffedSleeves · Today 08:24

SpidersAreShitheads · 22/09/2026 20:15

Tom is physically in good shape. I think it's quite an attractive pose tbh - it's not too revealing but still has a hint of sauciness.

Sadly though I find this thoroughly unappealing. Not because of his age or his body, but because of what he's done to his face. He looks absolutely awful, so plastic and artifically bloated.

As I'm getting older myself, I quite appreciate an attractive older man. And I love seeing sexy older females, especially when they are natural as opposed to chasing youth with surgery and fillers.

And yes, yes, I know: their body, their choice. I just think that looking young has been over-prioritised - it's now deemed better to have smooth, plump, youthful skin but also look a bit strange, than dare to have any wrinkles. We've lost the ability to find beauty and sexiness in anything other than the radiance of youth. And I think that's really sad.

I’ve just seen him interviewed and he doesn’t look plastic at all. In fact, he’s much more lined and craggy than I realised. In contrast, Sandra Bullock and Nicole Kidman in Practical Magic 2 interviews have not one line on their face. Tom looks much more normal and his age than they do.

JacknDiane · Today 08:19

EasternStandard · 22/09/2026 20:52

I suppose we all get old. He was one of the best looking when young.

No he wasn't

OsfameronTanamoril · Yesterday 10:46

Marina Hyde is always on the money. I don't care about the photo, but the interview was such evasive waffle it was not worth printing. The interviewer just gave up, clearly.
Tom is such a deeply pompous and uninteresting man.

TheyreJustNormalCheeses · Yesterday 00:23

“Cruise, in contrast, has chosen to cover this month’s GQ magazine with his shirt flung open, pulling down the waistband of his jeans – a choice we’d probably have to describe as wholly mesmerising rather than directly appealing. Hand on heart, Tom Cruise feels like someone you’d like to have sex with about as much as you’d like him to explain VistaVision to you. Wait, what am I talking about? Let me adjust: I strongly suspect most women would rather have 87 hours’ worth of defensive questions about image grain and aspect ratio lined up just in case.”

Marina Hyde gets his lack of sex appeal.
https://apple.news/AxKY_3exsRxulAWeuo4wzhQ

Hunk – or ‘unc’? What magazine covers of Michael B Jordan and Tom Cruise tell us about manhood — The Guardian

Images of two actors on front of Vogue and GQ land at a time when masculinity is increasingly dominating headlines

https://apple.news/Al9h2g0n7Tj-QCd19D8ec-w

MrsToddsShortcut · 25/09/2026 20:00

Sorry TimeMotion , it’s a tiny bit devastating isn’t it. He was always there, quietly and consistently delivering fantastic performance after fantastic performance.

timemotionboredom · 25/09/2026 19:58

Fuck.

I'm stuck on the revelation Sam Neill is gone.

I missed that news.

Fantastic actor. I really liked him.

MrsToddsShortcut · 25/09/2026 19:43

He looks good tbh, but what I think ruins it is that tired old ‘sexy’ pose where he has his thumb hooked in his waistband in that ‘any second now, I’ll rip these off’ pose. I like you Tom, but I do not want to have sex thanks.

queenceleste · 25/09/2026 19:28

KaleidoscopeSmile · 25/09/2026 15:17

Bullshit, you just wanted everyone to be revolted like you were. Ageist as fuck

I did post on AIBU as I assume you noticed. What use would this very popular thread be if we only posted reasonable opinions.

I value hearing another view and I genuinely temper my opinions after posting here. We are an ageist society. I find these photos genuinely a bit undignified but I agree I am being ageist; but surely it’s good to come here and have your views backed up or questioned.
AIBU in any of that?

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JustGoogleIt15 · 25/09/2026 15:28

HollyhocksandPeons · 22/09/2026 20:16

Vomit!

I agree. Double vomit !

hamnish · 25/09/2026 15:22

I mean, I’m all for people doing what they want with their bodies, etc, but I’ve always thought Tom Cruise emits a sort of control freak, try hard neediness that undermines any sex appeal points his biceps might be racking up. Real sex appeal is not caring what people think (or covering it up better). Especially in men over 50 - by that point, confidence, industry influence, experience, bespoke tailoring, and all that is much more compelling in your film star type. For me, anyway. YMMV. Put down the Grecian 2000, Tom, and lean into your silver fox era, why don’t you.

KaleidoscopeSmile · 25/09/2026 15:17

queenceleste · 22/09/2026 22:06

Spider - I can’t argue with that. I have always found him a bit eww even in his heyday. But you’re right I shouldn’t be ageist about the older body! You are right.
I asked because I’m curious and it’s fascinating to see the range of responses.

Bullshit, you just wanted everyone to be revolted like you were. Ageist as fuck

disgracefullyyours · 25/09/2026 14:50

Littledidsheknow · 25/09/2026 14:36

Sorry, but felt the need to defend Matthew Rhys here… his hair was obviously dyed for The Beast in Me and perhaps other roles, but his usual look is grey temples and beard. He also had a receding hairline that he doesn’t bother trying to hide. He’s pretty natural and looks his age.

Never found Tom Cruise remotely attractive, but would probably like him more if he aged a bit less artificially. That said, he can do what he likes and is not unreasonable to pose for a magazine at any age. Sexiness doesn’t stop at 40.

Maybe his usual look is how he is at home, but at the Emmy’s the other week his very dark hair and grey beard were very much present.

Shloopie · 25/09/2026 14:40

Tom Cruise jumping around the Oprah set shouting 'I'M IN LOVE!' is the most embarrassing thing a human has done in the entire history of mankind.

Littledidsheknow · 25/09/2026 14:36

TheyreJustNormalCheeses · 22/09/2026 23:03

I agree.

Actually I think facially he looks better than he did a few years ago when he looked really puffy. I think he must have had filler dissolved or something. Matthew Rhys is another one with the dyed hair - he has dark hair and a completely grey beard. It just looks strange!

Sorry, but felt the need to defend Matthew Rhys here… his hair was obviously dyed for The Beast in Me and perhaps other roles, but his usual look is grey temples and beard. He also had a receding hairline that he doesn’t bother trying to hide. He’s pretty natural and looks his age.

Never found Tom Cruise remotely attractive, but would probably like him more if he aged a bit less artificially. That said, he can do what he likes and is not unreasonable to pose for a magazine at any age. Sexiness doesn’t stop at 40.

MaggieBsBoat · 25/09/2026 14:25

The magazine is aimed at men. There’s nothing wrong with men in their 60s wanting to feel or look sexy and / or aspire to it. Just like women. This post is just plain rude.
Men’s ageist and derogatory opinions on women’s magazine covers is also rude.
Of course opinions are allowed. Just like he’s allowed to get his belly out.

EmailsaysOOO · 25/09/2026 14:24

I wouldn't kick him out of bed

Andylion · 25/09/2026 14:20

blankittyblank · 22/09/2026 19:45

I think the problem is, is that Tom Cruise isn't sexy! He was a bit of heartthrob in the 80s, but he's not a sexy older man. So pictures like this are just a bit embarrassing!

I agree.
In th
ics he looks like a middle-aged Dennis Quaid, without the sexy.

(I say middle-aged Dennis Quaid because I don’t know what Dennis Quaid looks like now and I don’t think Tom Cruise looks like a young Dennis in that pic. Nothing wrong with being middle-aged.)

queenceleste · 25/09/2026 14:17

Also he was positively drooling over Kate Middleton etc at his film premiere for what looks a potentially unwatchable film and walking her down the stairs grinning like a great eejit. Do they pre plan the handholding? I think she can manage the stairs Tom (all that grinning can make a person look mad as a box of frogs). Less is more mate.

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Kricset5555 · 25/09/2026 11:12

MajorSamanthaCarter · 22/09/2026 21:36

I can't hear the name Tom Cruise without the image of him trampolining on Oprah's sofa popping into my head.

Oh heck - this comment is exactly my thoughts when I hear the name Tom Cruise. Your description of him trampolining on Oprah’s sofa set me off laughing. Thank you for giving me such a good laugh. I thought the cover on GQ was terrible, he has had so much reshuffling done to his face its cringeworthy.

Summerlovingtheraspberries · 25/09/2026 08:34

It doesn’t do anything for me but there again I don’t find many men his age truly sexy.
Women do it so why can’t he?
The point is there is so much pressure on film stars to remain youthful.
That is why they have Botox, fillers, facelifts, nose jobs, work on their teeth, use slimming pills, dye their hair, have a restrictive diet etc. Quite frankly it’s what keeps them in work. Look at Nicole Kidman.
He has kept himself fit and good for him.
Whilst I don’t find this image appealing, I’ll take it over the gross shirtless men I see in town whenever the sun appears.

ClaudiaNaughton · 25/09/2026 08:25

He used to be lovely but now lost the plot. Father Time catches up with us all.

PhyllisTwigg · 25/09/2026 07:36

TC might not have sex appeal but he has something because he's box office gold (as they say!).

Getofftheshitter · 24/09/2026 23:06

He just isn't in the least bit sexy. It isn't his age, I find several of his peers very attractive. He's just, not.

TonyDancer · 23/09/2026 12:43

He has no sex appeal no matter how hard he tries.

TheThirteenthFairy · 23/09/2026 12:39

Namechangedoverandover · 22/09/2026 20:34

I have always wondered why so many women swoon over Tom Cruise. He's okay and takes on some interssting parts. But he was never a heart throb in my eyes.

Unfortunately, though I know it's a me thing and is a bit sexist, I can't take men of a certain age seriously if they are dyeing their hair. I'm also looking at you, Nicholas Cage and John Cusack. I just think why?

Silver foxes are so much more appealing!

I think men with all over dyed hair look silly. (Double standards - yes, yes, yes.) They'll be pleased to know I don't mind highlights or lowlights though.