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To absolutely hate this government, and what they are doing to our country? PART 2

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CoventryCity · 22/09/2026 10:14

A continuation of Thread 1.

Strong words but is is how I feel at this point in time. All of them make me feel physically sick. Why? Well many reasons.. Here are just two.

Eg. They won't release sex crime statistics of immigrants / asylum seekers. Why? Other European countries have done, and it is not pretty. Our gvt gives out a leaflet asking them not to rape the locals. Why? Our gvt has said they won't house asylum seekers next to schools and nurseries, why?

Eg. UK now spends more on benefits than it earns in income tax. Labour have increased this - not reduced it. Astonishing. As they say - "Who can we tax in order to pay benefits to others?" That's Labour's Welfare Secretary. He's describing the priorities of Labour MPs.

In the last financial year, the UK government brought in £331 billion in income tax — and spent even more, £333 billion, on welfare, according to the Office for Budget Responsibility's latest economic and fiscal outlook (obr.uk/efo/economic-and-fiscal-outlook-march-2026/#chapter-6).

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LuckyHazelFox · 25/09/2026 13:34

EasternStandard · 25/09/2026 13:28

One thing on discourse is both sides use it. The malign actors, far right, Starmer type rhetoric just makes people who want a change made more frustrated.

Agree with this.

EasternStandard · 25/09/2026 13:28

Thezookeepersneice · 25/09/2026 13:12

Just to be clear, I'm not a die-hard Labour supporter, and in fact I'm mostly minded to vote for anyone who would keep Reform away from power in the next election (although, that said, some of the populist nonsense the Conservatives have been coming out with over the last few days has given me pause for thought on that).

So, my interest is not at all in what will 'tide Labour over for a bit', and very much in how we set about lifting our political discourse from the gutter, stopping the demonisation and dehumanisation of vulnerable people, calming community tensions, and making this feel like a tolerant and stable country.

One thing on discourse is both sides use it. The malign actors, far right, Starmer type rhetoric just makes people who want a change made more frustrated.

LakieLady · 25/09/2026 13:28

2dogsandabudgie · 25/09/2026 11:32

Do you not think it should be zero crossings? Were you in favour of people being smuggled in to the UK in the back of lorries?

I don't care how many crossings there are, but I hate the fact that the people organising them have no regard for safety and are (probably) making a fortune out of desperate people. And I definitely wasn't in favour of people being smuggled in lorries, because of the danger of death by suffocation and/or heatstroke.

My Kurdish friend arrived in the boot of a car, my only concern with that method is the potential risk if the car ends up in hot sunshine or something.

I think it's absurd that it takes so long to process asylum applications. If they were done and dusted in weeks rather than years the cost of accommodating asylum seekers would fall overall. I also think there's significant merit in making it possible to apply for asylum from outside the UK.

Thezookeepersneice · 25/09/2026 13:25

LuckyHazelFox · 25/09/2026 13:16

Vulnerable people include women. Whatever your political persuasion is, nobody can deny that - no matter which type of men they are most in danger from. In trying to silence them (and girls) that's amounting to dehumanisation. It's not just the 'far' right whipping up division.

Of course vulnerable people includes women - I would never deny that. In fact, my vehement opposition to seeing Reform anywhere near power has been strongly cemented by the image of a powerful man laughing from the stage while a young woman was grabbed at and manhandled.

And I've been consistent throughout this thread that if the ICO rule that data on migrant crimes can be released in a way that protects privacy and doesn't risk vigilante violence, then it should happen. What I don't like to see, though, is violent men - including Danny Tommo who has convictions for knife crime - weaponising the real fears many women have, and using them to incite hatred and prejudice.

LuckyHazelFox · 25/09/2026 13:16

Thezookeepersneice · 25/09/2026 13:12

Just to be clear, I'm not a die-hard Labour supporter, and in fact I'm mostly minded to vote for anyone who would keep Reform away from power in the next election (although, that said, some of the populist nonsense the Conservatives have been coming out with over the last few days has given me pause for thought on that).

So, my interest is not at all in what will 'tide Labour over for a bit', and very much in how we set about lifting our political discourse from the gutter, stopping the demonisation and dehumanisation of vulnerable people, calming community tensions, and making this feel like a tolerant and stable country.

Vulnerable people include women. Whatever your political persuasion is, nobody can deny that - no matter which type of men they are most in danger from. In trying to silence them (and girls) that's amounting to dehumanisation. It's not just the 'far' right whipping up division.

Thezookeepersneice · 25/09/2026 13:12

EasternStandard · 25/09/2026 12:59

I think the ‘malign actors’ line might tie Labour over for a bit if numbers stay lower.

But if they go up, and they can, this week has 1000 again, it won’t be enough.

Just to be clear, I'm not a die-hard Labour supporter, and in fact I'm mostly minded to vote for anyone who would keep Reform away from power in the next election (although, that said, some of the populist nonsense the Conservatives have been coming out with over the last few days has given me pause for thought on that).

So, my interest is not at all in what will 'tide Labour over for a bit', and very much in how we set about lifting our political discourse from the gutter, stopping the demonisation and dehumanisation of vulnerable people, calming community tensions, and making this feel like a tolerant and stable country.

BIossomtoes · 25/09/2026 13:09

EasternStandard · 25/09/2026 13:06

I’m fine with answering some posters. If people can’t ask without the usual then there’s other posters for them.

“The usual”? It was a question. Try this then:

What are the other ways to give refuge which don’t involve traffickers, violence and risk?

EasternStandard · 25/09/2026 13:06

I’m fine with answering some posters. If people can’t ask without the usual then there’s other posters for them.

BIossomtoes · 25/09/2026 13:05

EasternStandard · 25/09/2026 13:04

Why are these posts always with this style? Are you able to ask for more information without that?

Are you able to answer the question?

EasternStandard · 25/09/2026 13:04

Gtfto2024 · 25/09/2026 13:02

Care to let us in on what these are? I'm sure the government would also like to know.

What is the magic wand that will make the trafficking stop?

Why are these posts always with this style? Are you able to ask for more information without that?

BIossomtoes · 25/09/2026 13:03

Brudffaa · 25/09/2026 13:01

So you can deny someone entering the country then?

Of course you can. We do it here for undesirables but they tend to arrive on planes with passports.

Gtfto2024 · 25/09/2026 13:02

EasternStandard · 25/09/2026 11:35

What’s wrong with zero? It would mean zero deaths at sea for a start.

There’s other ways to give refuge if people still want to. Which doesn’t involve traffickers, violence and risk.

Care to let us in on what these are? I'm sure the government would also like to know.

What is the magic wand that will make the trafficking stop?

Brudffaa · 25/09/2026 13:01

RedTagAlan · 25/09/2026 12:54

And you know Australia has its own versions of the Tommy Ten names groups? And they have the demonstrations with the far right.

Example here from last year -

Anti-immigration protests: How the March for Australia rallies unfolded (sbs.com.au)

In fact... they took some pre-emptive action about that, back in 2019. A preventative measure of sorts.

‘Tommy Robinson’ banned from entering Australia | The National (thenationalnews.com)

Seems a good action to me. Is he not living in Spain these days with an Irish passport ?

Big picture at play. Follow world news, not just GB news. Fit a wide angle lens on the camera.

So you can deny someone entering the country then?

EasternStandard · 25/09/2026 13:01

hedgeknight · 25/09/2026 12:59

Yes, not quite as simple as you make out is it?

You’ll have to quote where I said it’s simple. I said it’s difficult but doable.

And will take votes, so people will have to decide if they want this system or legal changes for another, better one.

shecanbe · 25/09/2026 13:01

Brudffaa · 25/09/2026 12:54

I don't think being poor ever excuses murder and the taking of another life? Do you?

Again, who are the 'certain group.' Surely 'cold hard facts' need to specify that, as a minimum? Why the reticence to name who you are talking about?

hedgeknight · 25/09/2026 12:59

EasternStandard · 25/09/2026 12:56

First you’d need a mandate to only have a court system for here. As Australia have.

That’ll take votes. There’s no point in demanding it without voting for the legal changes that are needed.

Yes, not quite as simple as you make out is it?

EasternStandard · 25/09/2026 12:59

Thezookeepersneice · 25/09/2026 12:52

@EasternStandard I appreciate your response, thankyou. But again my understanding is the British navy are against using push back techniques. So, to me this is another example of how on the surface there may seem to be an easy solution but the realities are much more difficult and complex.

Fundamentally, I believe malign actors are pretending there’s an obvious solution to the migrant crisis in order to fuel hatred and division and I simply do not think we should let them.

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I think the ‘malign actors’ line might tie Labour over for a bit if numbers stay lower.

But if they go up, and they can, this week has 1000 again, it won’t be enough.

EasternStandard · 25/09/2026 12:56

hedgeknight · 25/09/2026 12:54

I am not talking about distances, it's about location and as you say legal jurisdiction

If the Australia sytem was as easy to replicate as you say, it would have been done.

First you’d need a mandate to only have a court system for here. As Australia have.

That’ll take votes. There’s no point in demanding it without voting for the legal changes that are needed.

hedgeknight · 25/09/2026 12:54

EasternStandard · 25/09/2026 12:19

Can you say more about the distance of the recent crossings and those to Australia

People have a misconception it’s much further.

The reason isn’t what you say, it’s that they have their own court system.

I am not talking about distances, it's about location and as you say legal jurisdiction

If the Australia sytem was as easy to replicate as you say, it would have been done.

RedTagAlan · 25/09/2026 12:54

EasternStandard · 25/09/2026 12:08

Most people would not vote to go back to what we have now if Australia’s system was used. Incidentally it has been said the crossing distance was further but now with Channel crossings from much further away it’s about the same.

The boat last week was in the sea for 30 hours.

And you know Australia has its own versions of the Tommy Ten names groups? And they have the demonstrations with the far right.

Example here from last year -

Anti-immigration protests: How the March for Australia rallies unfolded (sbs.com.au)

In fact... they took some pre-emptive action about that, back in 2019. A preventative measure of sorts.

‘Tommy Robinson’ banned from entering Australia | The National (thenationalnews.com)

Seems a good action to me. Is he not living in Spain these days with an Irish passport ?

Big picture at play. Follow world news, not just GB news. Fit a wide angle lens on the camera.

The far right activist, known as Tommy Robinson. EPA.

‘Tommy Robinson’ banned from entering Australia | The National

The far-right activist, whose real name is Stephen Yaxley-Lennon, had planned to go on a tour of the country

https://www.thenationalnews.com/world/tommy-robinson-banned-from-entering-australia-1.820041

Brudffaa · 25/09/2026 12:54

shecanbe · 25/09/2026 10:51

Are these the 'cold hard facts' you want me to respond to @Brudffaa ?

Firstly, who are the 'certain group?' That might help.

Secondly, can you not think of any intersecting realities that might contribute to higher crime rates for 'certain groups' in the US? Poverty, educational disadvantage, regional disparities, urban v. rural distributions, structural racism - off the top of my head - that might contribute to disproportionate crime rates?

And by 'certain group,' am I to assume you mean an ethnic group? In which case, were many of the 'certain group' not born in the US anyway? Immigrant, first gen, fifth gen - who exactly are this 13% of the US population?

I don't think being poor ever excuses murder and the taking of another life? Do you?

Nuthatch26 · 25/09/2026 12:54

EasternStandard · 25/09/2026 12:42

Yes perhaps Wales and Scotland but England has one of the highest population density figures in Europe, bar micro states.

Yes Wales has 150 people per square km compared to England at 435 people per square km. The lowest populated area in England is the south west at 239 people per square km, so still much higher than Wales.
Wales also has far fewer asylum seekers, and far fewer residents who were born abroad (7% Wales, 17% England).

Thezookeepersneice · 25/09/2026 12:52

@EasternStandard I appreciate your response, thankyou. But again my understanding is the British navy are against using push back techniques. So, to me this is another example of how on the surface there may seem to be an easy solution but the realities are much more difficult and complex.

Fundamentally, I believe malign actors are pretending there’s an obvious solution to the migrant crisis in order to fuel hatred and division and I simply do not think we should let them.

EasternStandard · 25/09/2026 12:45

Thezookeepersneice · 25/09/2026 12:33

From what I understood, I thought naval commanders were of the opinion that manoeuvring fragile, crowded dinghies on the rough, crowded seas of the channel was likely to cause capsizing and mass casualties. But if that has changed, then perhaps there is a sensible, pragmatic conversation to be had about the safest way to turn boats back in a way that protects, rather than costs lives.

But you must understand how hard it is to have any pragmatic, compassionate discussion about this when people are minimising a man convicted of knife crimes bringing a knife to a mass gathering as if it’s legitimate protest; and arguing that government statistics are made up; and spouting bizarre conspiracy theories that the government are somehow, for some unspecified reason deliberately letting the people trafficking continue.

On this the similarities are high. Small boats, massively overcrowded, not seaworthy, often causing deaths at sea. Rough water and about the same distance now Channel crossings are from further away.

Although I will add most crossings here are when it’s calmer anyway.

BIossomtoes · 25/09/2026 12:44

EasternStandard · 25/09/2026 12:42

Yes perhaps Wales and Scotland but England has one of the highest population density figures in Europe, bar micro states.

It’s all centred in specific areas. I live on the edge of the Fens which is underpopulated.