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Period Pants Advice for DD please!

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FootballOn · 21/09/2026 12:27

I’m looking to buy some period pants for my almost 10yr old DD as she’s showing signs of potentially starting soon (breast buds, bit of discharge, no hair or need for deodorant as yet though)
Online research tells me ModiBodi is a good brand to go with…..my question is, how do I know what absorbency level pants to buy?
I’m thinking do I just buy the “super absorbency” option to make sure there’s no chance of leaking?
Would really appreciate any nudges in the right direction from anyone who’s familiar with it all!
And also, those with DD’s older than mine - does it sound like starting her periods is imminent? It feels so young 🫣 (if relevant to guessing what age she might start, I started at 12)

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IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 21/09/2026 13:03

ModiBodi do a teen range in smaller sizes.

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 21/09/2026 13:02

Yes to Modibodi
Yes to super absorbent - get the boy shorts style
Yes it sounds like periods might be imminent.

DD started at 10y10m10d! and has been road testing period pants for 4 years. Modi B are by far are favoured brand, but she also likes the Wuka ones we can get in Tesco.

MagicUser1 · 21/09/2026 12:57

FootballOn · 21/09/2026 12:52

Thanks everyone for your replies, I’ve just had a look on the M&S website and I can only see sizes up from “8” which I presume to be a size 8?
DD is in age 10 clothes so an adult size 8 would be huge on her? Is there an option for kids sizes I’m managing to miss?

The M&S sizing is weird. I just bought size 4 for DD. They don't do "children's" but they do go down to something like a size 2. It might be that you are looking at ones that don't have the full range of sizes.

I do still think you're jumping the gun though.

runnerducky · 21/09/2026 12:55

Modibodi are really good. I do have some Cheeky Wipes ones which are good for the price but Modibodi are noticeably ‘nicer’. Never had any leaks with either though. The Modibodi Puma sports ones are really good, I use those for races and other really active stuff, if she’s sporty.

It could be a while until she starts though. What age were you? My mum was 15 and so was I!

Boreded · 21/09/2026 12:54

I had breasts developing at 10 but got it at 15, buying them now is overkill, she could be a totally different size and shape by the time her period comes. Also she may not want to use period pants, many people find them a bit icky - I would wait until it happens and then work it out with her at the time

FootballOn · 21/09/2026 12:52

Thanks everyone for your replies, I’ve just had a look on the M&S website and I can only see sizes up from “8” which I presume to be a size 8?
DD is in age 10 clothes so an adult size 8 would be huge on her? Is there an option for kids sizes I’m managing to miss?

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Pinkflamingo10 · 21/09/2026 12:49

Modi bodi are great. I use them myself. And wuka. They’re both much better than the cheaper Primark and M&S and they last for years. (I’ve owned all of them!)
I own all the absorbancies. I wear the super heavy ones on the heavy days and nights and the light ones on the lighter days.

LadyVioletCrawley · 21/09/2026 12:35

DD likes the Wuka ones. She found Modibodi very bulky.

Franpie · 21/09/2026 12:34

As a starter, I’d just get the primark ones as they’re much cheaper. I also wouldn’t worry about absorbency too much, my DD started off very light. More like just spotting for her first few periods and not at all regular. More like every 6-8 weeks.

DD started when she was just turned 12 and the thing that made it clear to us that she was about to start was her moods. She was all of a sudden charged with so much emotion. She had little breast buds etc a year or so before that. But it was the moods that shifted right before she actually started.

MagicUser1 · 21/09/2026 12:32

As a rule, the "average" timing is about 2 years from when breast buds start to appear so I would think you're still quite a long way off. Have you seen other bod shape changes - hips/waist in particular which I have noticed more recently with DD, but significantly after the breast buds turned up.

In light of her age and liklihood of things not happenign for a while, I would not buy any particularly hard core ones. DD is, most likely going to start her period in the next 6 months and I've bought her a pack of high absorbency from M&S. I don't want to go for a full pack of the better quality ones because she. might well be a different size by the time she actually starts. So this is just to make her feel a bit more secure - she's got a pair in her school bag and her dance bag.

QuestioningEverythingNow · 21/09/2026 12:31

Another vote for the M&S ones. My DD started at 11 and it felt so young at the time.

Shouldbedoing · 21/09/2026 12:31

These have been great for my DD. Very durable and reliable, cheaper than Modibodi.
You probably need 6 pairs - morning, afternoon, bedtime each day as they dry very slowly after washing.
www.uk.blinxunderwear.com/products/diana-period-underwear

BiffandChip2 · 21/09/2026 12:30

Can also add I rate the M&S ones ❤️

BiffandChip2 · 21/09/2026 12:28

I wear the M&S ones and all I would say is the more the absorbency the thicker they are so maybe start with a medium and try it out? You don't want them to feel too bulky?

newlycorporategirl · 21/09/2026 12:28

M&S ones are good and do a teen range. They are the only brand I've used, and have been really happy with them.