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cartagenagina · 20/09/2026 12:13

I paid for DD and her partner to go on a special trip that has family significance to the partner. His father is terminally ill and the trip is to his birthplace in Croatia. Father is too ill to make the trip himself.

DD and partner moved flats two weeks ago. You can see where this is going… They travel tomorrow morning and he can’t find his passport. It’s most likely in a document folder, I think it’s purple, and they can’t locate the entire folder.

Can any psychics out there help? I am praying to St. Anthony in the meantime.

Many thanks.

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InNewYorkNoShoes · 21/09/2026 22:54

It’s by some flowery notepaper or notebooks.

Thegirlwhowent · 21/09/2026 22:32

Bumbelinaaa · 21/09/2026 21:57

I haven’t read the full thread, but I have a feeling it might be in a bag of Lego?

😂 I think you could have a career as a psychic!

Bumbelinaaa · 21/09/2026 21:57

I haven’t read the full thread, but I have a feeling it might be in a bag of Lego?

Thegirlwhowent · 21/09/2026 18:43

Did any psychic mention a bag of LEGO?

DeftGoldHedgehog · 20/09/2026 16:13

Yay! FWIW I did say a prayer to St Anthony for you. That worked fast 🤗

mrshoho · 20/09/2026 13:49

Fantastic news!! And thank you for updating us.

DollyBee · 20/09/2026 13:39

Yay 🥳🎉

MistressoftheDarkSide · 20/09/2026 13:37

Oh hurrah!! Am really pleased for you all x

cartagenagina · 20/09/2026 13:34

It has been found! It was in his bag of unmade Lego! Of course 🙄. Which was at the bottom of a wardrobe under loads of clothes.

So bloody relieved. Thanks everyone.

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Pixietop · 20/09/2026 13:28

Look up a height, on top of a wardrobe or high shelving

cartagenagina · 20/09/2026 13:20

No car. Lots of bookshelves!

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Sunbringer · 20/09/2026 13:13

Check the spare tire section in the car and thoroughly under seats etc.

Also check any bookshelves.

cartagenagina · 20/09/2026 13:12

It’s not in the bag he was using that first day in the office. I have asked if he could have left it in the office but he thinks not. 🤞

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Freya1542 · 20/09/2026 13:11

Where did they keep the folder in the old place?

It'll probably have been packed/bin bagged amongst other items from that general area.

mrshoho · 20/09/2026 13:06

Did he have a bag/briefcase/lap top bag when he started the new job that it could jave been left in? The document wallet must be stored safely somewhere. Would he have put in a drawer at work? Hope he finds it and gets to travel.

MistressoftheDarkSide · 20/09/2026 13:06

Is it in a laptop bag perhaps?

cartagenagina · 20/09/2026 12:53

DeftGoldHedgehog · 20/09/2026 12:39

He must try to remember when he last used his passport. Did he then put it away somewhere safe or might he have left it in a bag?

Sometimes pondering on it in a relaxed way might bring the memory back, which is hared when you are stressing about it, I know. Just go for a walk and have it in the back of your mind.

Thanks. He last saw it when starting new job about a month ago. He remembers it being passed back to him and he thinks he put it in the document wallet with qualification certificates etc.

They then moved to a new flat two weeks ago and he can’t find the document wallet, or the passport. So most likely conclusion is that the passport is in the wallet and the whole thing is “lost”. Hopefully it wasn’t accidentally thrown away after being packed in a bin bag!

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DeftGoldHedgehog · 20/09/2026 12:39

He must try to remember when he last used his passport. Did he then put it away somewhere safe or might he have left it in a bag?

Sometimes pondering on it in a relaxed way might bring the memory back, which is hared when you are stressing about it, I know. Just go for a walk and have it in the back of your mind.

ladyjaynes · 20/09/2026 12:34

The plastic folder will be behind drawer. Tell them to take out every single drawer. Don’t just pull them out

Things fall behind it then get stuck underneath

mrshoho · 20/09/2026 12:33

Have they unpacked everything from the move? If not go through each box even if it is marked clothes/bathroom/ kitchen. If everything is unpacked go through each room and search everything. Look in suitcases, rucksacks. Cupboards. Do they have a car? Look in the boot/glove box.

nomas · 20/09/2026 12:29

It’s in the left drawer of the sideboard.

Hawkmoth · 20/09/2026 12:28

In a plastic box with various other crap. Next to a wooden chest of drawers.

cartagenagina · 20/09/2026 12:25

Thanks. It was copied recently but he remembers it being passed back to him and putting it in the folder (he thinks) This was before they moved though. They can’t find the entire folder.

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Blue444 · 20/09/2026 12:23

Did he need to copy it, is it in the printer? Down behind a radiator, under a drawer where its overflowed. All places friends found theirs

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