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How does our metabolism slow down so much

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Flufffluff11 · 19/09/2026 20:07

I remember when I was a teenager. I would eat Crisps and chocolate every lunch, and pizza and chips every evening. It was a Fast food house which is a bit neglectful, but understandable at my mum was a struggling single mum, that was how it was.

I was so thin all through my teens

Now I'm early forties. I eat pretty healthily. I go to the gym three times a week, yet I'm overweight and it takes so long for me to lose a pound.

How does age slow down metabolism so much? Agh

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Sunsara · 19/09/2026 20:32

It really doesn’t. Look at the evidence. It’s your TDEE that’s dropped because you’re more sedentary.

DrumsPleaseFab · 19/09/2026 20:28

BMI 23 so that is good enough for me

DrumsPleaseFab · 19/09/2026 20:28

I think dieting is too hard so I have been focusing the last 5 years on building muscle and fitness. The fatloss then sort of falls into place

i have lost no weight as such, but much more muscle 5 yrs in even than I had in my youth

as a result I can eat quite a lot more

i think diets and restrictions are no way to live, but saying that I do about 15k steps a day and do gym 5X a week. It is a bit of a commitment and was only able to put so much time into myself and my health once kids were older teens

MabelMarple · 19/09/2026 20:22

I don't think it does for everyone. I was lighter in my teens and early 20s but nothing really changed for me after my mid 20s. I'm 68 now and menopause made no difference, I weigh the same as I did 40 years ago. I don't diet but probably drink less alcohol than in my 20s.

Flufffluff11 · 19/09/2026 20:18

It's taken me 4 weeks to lose a pound

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Trumptontown · 19/09/2026 20:12

I don’t know but I imagine, in part, it’s loss of muscle mass which we lose as we age if we don’t strength train.