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Nearly seven weeks after the breakup and still struggling badly

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TheOpalFox · 19/09/2026 13:29

It’s been nearly 7 weeks and I feel worse !!!! Will I ever get over the loss of him ? 💔💔💔💔💔he walked away and he hates me yet im struggling way too bad 😞
I miss my best friend :(

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TheFormerMrsTruelove · 19/09/2026 13:48

You will get better, but it won’t happen overnight. It takes time.

Why does he hate you? Are there feelings caught up with you having done something to hurt him, as well as the end of the relationship?

TheGrimSqueakersFlea · 19/09/2026 13:59

You have a million threads about this and ignore advice. No, it won't get any better if you keep obsessing over it. You really need to go back to your gp and get help.

Have a look to see what help there is available in your area. There's plenty of charities out there who can help you with talking therapy

leavingonajetplane76 · 19/09/2026 14:03

OP you really need to seek support in RL

shellyleppard · 19/09/2026 14:04

Every week it's the same post.... please seek help for this.

NoCommentingFromNowOn · 19/09/2026 14:05

Will I ever get over the loss of him?

No, never. That will never ever happen.

But to entertain yourself for the rest of your life why not post here weekly? For example, say how devastated you are, how he was ‘the one’ etc and then refuse to engage with anyone or help yourself? If that’s not enough, you could post twice a week.

beaglescurleduplikebagels · 19/09/2026 14:08

NoCommentingFromNowOn · 19/09/2026 14:05

Will I ever get over the loss of him?

No, never. That will never ever happen.

But to entertain yourself for the rest of your life why not post here weekly? For example, say how devastated you are, how he was ‘the one’ etc and then refuse to engage with anyone or help yourself? If that’s not enough, you could post twice a week.

I'm sorry but 😂

MyLimeGuide · 19/09/2026 14:28

Oh dear. Im new to your breakup threads? What happened? How long were you with him for?

BMW58 · 19/09/2026 14:31

MyLimeGuide · 19/09/2026 14:28

Oh dear. Im new to your breakup threads? What happened? How long were you with him for?

For the love of God do an Advanced Search to find the other dozen threads she opened all exactly the same.

Madamecholetsbonnet · 19/09/2026 14:33

NoCommentingFromNowOn · 19/09/2026 14:05

Will I ever get over the loss of him?

No, never. That will never ever happen.

But to entertain yourself for the rest of your life why not post here weekly? For example, say how devastated you are, how he was ‘the one’ etc and then refuse to engage with anyone or help yourself? If that’s not enough, you could post twice a week.

She doesn’t need encouragement!!! 😉

beaglescurleduplikebagels · 19/09/2026 14:35

MyLimeGuide · 19/09/2026 14:28

Oh dear. Im new to your breakup threads? What happened? How long were you with him for?

Please don't encourage her.

Reginablitzing · 19/09/2026 14:38

She can post if she wants to. You can ignore if you want to.

It does get better and easier @TheOpalFox

it does take time and 7 weeks is still early. Have you got real life friends and support ?

MyLimeGuide · 19/09/2026 14:38

BMW58 · 19/09/2026 14:31

For the love of God do an Advanced Search to find the other dozen threads she opened all exactly the same.

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Lol ok! Im bored in a café on my own while my sons in the soft play! 😂

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TheOpalFox · 19/09/2026 14:38

Reginablitzing · 19/09/2026 14:38

She can post if she wants to. You can ignore if you want to.

It does get better and easier @TheOpalFox

it does take time and 7 weeks is still early. Have you got real life friends and support ?

no no one

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beaglescurleduplikebagels · 19/09/2026 14:38

Reginablitzing · 19/09/2026 14:38

She can post if she wants to. You can ignore if you want to.

It does get better and easier @TheOpalFox

it does take time and 7 weeks is still early. Have you got real life friends and support ?

I assume you've not read her millions of previous threads.

People shouldn't waste their time giving well-meaning advice here.

Reginablitzing · 19/09/2026 14:40

beaglescurleduplikebagels · 19/09/2026 14:38

I assume you've not read her millions of previous threads.

People shouldn't waste their time giving well-meaning advice here.

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i vaguely recall similar threads. But so what if she posts a lot/ similar threads. Her choice. Your choice is to not respond/ ignore/ hide her threads/ report.

beaglescurleduplikebagels · 19/09/2026 14:43

Reginablitzing · 19/09/2026 14:40

i vaguely recall similar threads. But so what if she posts a lot/ similar threads. Her choice. Your choice is to not respond/ ignore/ hide her threads/ report.

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Of course, I'm just trying to stop other posters from putting too much of their time into it, that's all.

Reginablitzing · 19/09/2026 14:43

TheOpalFox · 19/09/2026 14:38

no no one

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Ok. Any family?
Do you work?

Ive not long gone through a break up and it does suck but you have to distract yourself. Easier said than done I know.

what does your week look like?

JustGoogleIt15 · 19/09/2026 14:44

NoCommentingFromNowOn · 19/09/2026 14:05

Will I ever get over the loss of him?

No, never. That will never ever happen.

But to entertain yourself for the rest of your life why not post here weekly? For example, say how devastated you are, how he was ‘the one’ etc and then refuse to engage with anyone or help yourself? If that’s not enough, you could post twice a week.

🤣🤣🤣🤣

I do apologise @TheOpalFox but you have to try to help yourself

pearlsclutchedhard · 19/09/2026 14:44

Girl go work on yourself, focus on you. Do things that bring you joy. Pretend he’s dead, block him. It gets easier ☺️

MyLimeGuide · 19/09/2026 14:45

Maybe you could try a love spell to get him back?

Reginablitzing · 19/09/2026 14:45

beaglescurleduplikebagels · 19/09/2026 14:43

Of course, I'm just trying to stop other posters from putting too much of their time into it, that's all.

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That’ seems unkind if im honest.
I suppose you could post once and mention it’s a repeated poster but really it doesn’t matter does it if she posts the same thing.

JustGoogleIt15 · 19/09/2026 14:45

Reginablitzing · 19/09/2026 14:40

i vaguely recall similar threads. But so what if she posts a lot/ similar threads. Her choice. Your choice is to not respond/ ignore/ hide her threads/ report.

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Of course. She can post what she likes. So can you. So can everyone
I'm not sure what point you're making

JustGoogleIt15 · 19/09/2026 14:47

TheOpalFox · 19/09/2026 14:38

no no one

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You have zero RL friends? I'd find a therapist if I were you. If you feel very desperate, ring the Samaritans

Reginablitzing · 19/09/2026 14:47

JustGoogleIt15 · 19/09/2026 14:45

Of course. She can post what she likes. So can you. So can everyone
I'm not sure what point you're making

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My point is leave her alone? If you don’t like her threads then ignore them. She’s clearly hurting. There’s no need for a pile on.

Reginablitzing · 19/09/2026 14:48

JustGoogleIt15 · 19/09/2026 14:47

You have zero RL friends? I'd find a therapist if I were you. If you feel very desperate, ring the Samaritans

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Good advice to call the Samaritans. Theyre c good. I’ve used them before when my marriage ended.