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AIBU to be unhappy about this cycling training at school

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FrostMarten · 18/09/2026 17:13

DD is 7 and had cycling proficiency earlier this week. We were told ages about it (before summer) and told that they had to bring their own bike and helmet, which have to been in good order and will be checked over before they are allowed to take part. They of course had to be confident on a bike as well. There was no option to rent or borrow a bike from the company providing the training or from school, but school did offer a service to get bikes checked beforehand which we did and were told it was fine.

DD on the day wasn’t allowed to do it because they said her bike was too small. We thought it was the right size. She had to go back to her class and was very upset. She had friends who weren’t doing it for various reasons but apparently cried for a long time. We were not told by school she had been turned away, she told us herself when we got home and then I had it confirmed by another mum who asked her children in the same class.

I have spent a few days feeling like that was just bad luck for her she’ll get over it. But she is still upset about it and the more I think about it seems like a really harsh reason for her not to be allowed to join in? She rides her bike comfortably and I don’t think she is quite ready for a larger one.

I am mainly unhappy that school didn’t even bother to tell me anything about her being turned away. But also the more I think about it, there are quite a few problems with this training provider.

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Smartiepants79 · 18/09/2026 17:32

Is this bike ability?? This free training for schools and they take the safety aspects extremely seriously. If they have any concerns that your child may be a risk to themselves or others on main roads then they will not risk it. It’s a shame your child missed out and was upset but better that than hit by a car.
What difference would it have made if school had told you?
If it is bikeability then it is a fantastic service
in my experience.

FrostMarten · 18/09/2026 17:26

Starzinsky · 18/09/2026 17:19

How tall is your daughter and what size is her bike?

She is 124cm on an 18 inch bike.

I know safety has to be the priority but I find it disappointing that school said it was ok so she was turned away on the day.

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Ablondiebutagoody · 18/09/2026 17:26

Sounds like the bike is too small. Were they on the playground or local roads? If local roads, there probably isn't much flexibility in what is considered safe or not.

Batties · 18/09/2026 17:23

I guess at the end of the day the priority has to be the safety of the children. Riding a bike which is too small sounds like it’s a risk they’re not willing to take. I’m certain they wouldn’t have stopped her taking part unless there was a good reason.

Starzinsky · 18/09/2026 17:19

How tall is your daughter and what size is her bike?

FrostMarten · 18/09/2026 17:18

Batties · 18/09/2026 17:16

When the school checked over the bike before hand did they say it was okay?

Yes they did

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Batties · 18/09/2026 17:16

When the school checked over the bike before hand did they say it was okay?