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To just quit work and finally write my books?

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WoesFromAuntFlo · 17/09/2026 14:19

I am so tired of the drudgery of life, but by work in particular. I’ve worked since I was 16, having taken exactly a year off for my DD, and whilst it’s a career I used to love it’s become a ball and chain.

I’ve always wanted to be an author. I’ve had a series of mystery/thriller books planned out for years, adding to the outlines and characters every time I think up new ideas. Realistically there are probably about 6 books ready to be written from those alone!

I’ve entered and won several short story competitions, and my friends/family have always said I should be a writer, but I’ve never felt like it was the right time to follow that dream.

WIBU to quit my job and use my savings to support my family while I wrote them? I have enough savings to keep us comfortable for around 18 months (2 years at a push). I’d likely write the first two self published and then build up my audience to see if I can get a deal on the next few (or just keep self publishing).

My DH has always said he would support me no matter what, so he’s letting me make the decision myself.

YABU - you’ll never make it, stay in your job
YANBU - life is too short, write the books

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needapokerface · 17/09/2026 14:22

Why can't you write in your spare time and then do the self publish idea that you have, along with self promotion with family friends or drop a day at work and make that your writing day. You are still working and adding to your savings but also doing what you want to do.

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