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Please can someone help, panicking so much about mortgage

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Pancis125 · 17/09/2026 12:17

I am completely alone and have one small dc. My mortgage is 280k. I am due to renew next August 2027.

At the moment I have a good rate of 2.7%. This means repayments are 1k a month.

I have been looking at rates and they are up to close to 6%. If I re mortgage with 270k on this rate then the repayments will go up to close to 1,600 a month. I just can’t afford this.

I feel physically sick. I don’t know what to do. I potentially have access to 50k but that would be all the inheritance I am likely to get and even that I don’t think would reduce it enough. I am sitting here crying my eyes out. I know there are bigger problems in the world but this is all on my shoulders and I am struggling to stay calm.

OP posts:
Calliopespa · 17/09/2026 14:02

LiuBei · 17/09/2026 13:59

Okay, so if you manage to save 350 a month now on top of paying a 1000/month mortgage, this means that you could, at a stretch handle a 1350 a month mortgage. You'd need an extra 250 a month to get to the 1600 a month you suspect it will be.

If you have an inheritance of 50k combined by the 350 a month you're saving between now and august, and you took 250 from it each month - that would last you 215 months ((50,000 + 11*350)/250)

215 months is around 18 years.

In 18 years will you be able to earn more? Probably!

I understand that this probably isn't what you'd dreamed of doing with the inheritance. I'm not trying to minimize your challenges, but I just want to point out that by your own numbers, I think you'll be okay.

☝Take this as a worst case scenario OP. Once you have reconciled yourself for a worst case, the only way is up!

I think you are likely to be able to negotiate something to bring the payments down a little tbh.

millymollymoomoo · 17/09/2026 14:00

Interest rates are likely to increase over the next year rather than come down.

look at discounted deals rather than standard variable rates. Speak to a broker

LiuBei · 17/09/2026 13:59

Pancis125 · 17/09/2026 12:24

@MelissaLovedMantari i am trying to do this but only save around 350 a month

Okay, so if you manage to save 350 a month now on top of paying a 1000/month mortgage, this means that you could, at a stretch handle a 1350 a month mortgage. You'd need an extra 250 a month to get to the 1600 a month you suspect it will be.

If you have an inheritance of 50k combined by the 350 a month you're saving between now and august, and you took 250 from it each month - that would last you 215 months ((50,000 + 11*350)/250)

215 months is around 18 years.

In 18 years will you be able to earn more? Probably!

I understand that this probably isn't what you'd dreamed of doing with the inheritance. I'm not trying to minimize your challenges, but I just want to point out that by your own numbers, I think you'll be okay.

Calliopespa · 17/09/2026 13:59

Pancis125 · 17/09/2026 13:53

I am reading through all the replies. I am so thankful for the advice. I am in a complete state today and can’t stop crying which is NOT like me. I’m starting to wonder if part of my panic is hormonal! The weight of being a lone parent in situations like this is so horrible. It’s the feeling of vulnerability that breaks me. Thank you to everyone who has posted I am reading them all

It is very natural to feel like this op. Being a single parent isn't easy, and you have done well to get into the position you are in.

There WILL be a solution, though maybe not your first choice, and you are giving yourself time to plan.

Give yourself a big hug and a pat on the back for all of the above.

Tiptopflipflop · 17/09/2026 13:58

Once your rate ends you can move providers for a better rate or to get interest only potentially. Book a free appointment with a fee free all of market broker like London and County to discuss your options. It might be much better than you think.

Calliopespa · 17/09/2026 13:56

RealFlawless · 17/09/2026 12:28

Don't panic. You have nearly a year to work things out.

I think it is unlikely that rates will come down so it's sensible to plan for 5-6%.

If you can use the £50k to reduce the mortgage debt, that should bring payments at 6% to closer to £1200 which is more doable than £1600. You may also be able to access a better rate if you can improve your LTV.

You will also be able to improve your LTV (and so maybe get a better rate) if your home has increased in value since you last mortgaged it. What was it valued at then and how long ago was it? Might be worth getting an EA valuation done (this is obviously not the same as a valuation by your mortgage co but it's a starting point for you to consider asking them to revalue. It's also free.)

Any scope to save a bit now to use if needed next year?

Good advice in this post OP.

You can also ask about interest only if that helps get you through a tricky patch.

Please don't despair until you have talked this over with them.

Pancis125 · 17/09/2026 13:56

AmethystDeceiver · 17/09/2026 13:16

£75K is a high wage for a single earner, but not as a household right?

I have no advice better than what's already been said, but just wanted to comment as a few people know have asked where 'all' of OP's money is going.

My husband and I earn similar between us, that is very much in the average/ low average range for a household no? But as a single parent @Pancis125 is probably more reliant on childcare, and possibly cleaners etc than we are. And possibly more limited in her capacity to take on more - whether that be more work, a second job or more hours. And also paying more in tax than an individual mid earner, and losing child benefit. It sounds like a lot but I'm sure it doesn't always feel that way!

@AmethystDeceiver thank you for this post. This is exactly it. Im not on the breadline but my income isn’t as it seems to most people when you’re on your own with a child

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RowsOfFlowers · 17/09/2026 13:55

You could consider moving to a cheaper property?

UntitledGooseOnTheLoose · 17/09/2026 13:54

Do you know what your current LTV is? You often get lower interest rates if you have a lower ltv so that's something to speak to your broker about. You could also use the 50k (or some of it) to pay off a lump sum which would bring your mortgage down further.

I think it's unlikely rates will come down anytime soon, so it's best to plan for a worst case scenario.

Itsnotallaboutyoulikeyouthink · 17/09/2026 13:54

It’s a non issue if you have access to £50k. It will last you about 6 years. Other than that move house if you can. Honestly no need in your situation to get into such a state.

Boreded · 17/09/2026 13:53

Pancis125 · 17/09/2026 12:20

Do you think the rates might go down? My current mortgage is with NatWest

You will get a remortgage with NatWest at 4.X

log in online and check, but that’s who mine is with and there is plenty of options that are sub 5%

Pancis125 · 17/09/2026 13:53

I am reading through all the replies. I am so thankful for the advice. I am in a complete state today and can’t stop crying which is NOT like me. I’m starting to wonder if part of my panic is hormonal! The weight of being a lone parent in situations like this is so horrible. It’s the feeling of vulnerability that breaks me. Thank you to everyone who has posted I am reading them all

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RabbitHead · 17/09/2026 13:52

Pancis125 · 17/09/2026 12:21

I just can’t do this on my own anymore I am so sad

How about an interest only mortgage? You won't pay off the debt, only the interest, but it will give you breathing time (((hugs)))

hangingplant742 · 17/09/2026 13:51

Rent a room to a lodger. £7000 per year is tax free.

Imdonehere · 17/09/2026 13:50

Op, you are catastrophising. Nobody knows what will be happening in a year.

I understand it's hard if it's just all on you, but atm you are able to save a little each month as a buffer.

If you did have to use the 50k, you could leave that in savings, making interest, and use a little each month for any increase in your monthly mortgage payment.

50k, even taking out £1000 each month ( not adding on any interest) would help you for over 4 years.

You'll be fine.

hangingplant742 · 17/09/2026 13:50

What did the broker tell you at the time? I got a mortgage in 2007. Average then was 5.5%. 6-8% is commonplace over decades. At that point in time, the banks were willing to lend me much more than I took. Because even I could see back then they at 8% I would not be able to afford my mortgage. So I had to settle for a tiny house in a bad area. I can’t understand how people are taking mortgages out and not risk assessing it for the future. Bonkers.

You need to buy a cheaper house AND use the very lucky £50k you have. You could along interest only but I’d avoid that if possible.

AlwaysExtraHot · 17/09/2026 13:49

I also wonder if you need to take a good look at your outgoings. Your income and mortgage don’t sound too bad on the surface.

IndigoBluey · 17/09/2026 13:42

Could you be strict and up your monthly saving to 400 and stick it in a savings accounts until August 27? Then you could drawdown on that amount to supplement the increased mortgage payments

BarbaraUsher · 17/09/2026 13:42

Would it be possible to take in a lodger? The income is tax free.

Wechsel · 17/09/2026 13:40

Dandeloosha · 17/09/2026 12:28

This is almost a year away and none of us can predict the future. That said, you do have options though you do have to be realistic that you’re unlikely to get 2.7% any time soon. You can use your inheritance to overpay your current mortgage by 10% each month so you maximize the benefits of the low rate, then at the end of the mortgage period pay off a chunk before starting your new mortgage. You could also move to a cheaper home - not ideal but not impossible - get a lodger, take on a second job, get a promotion or move to a better paid role. Many of us a facing tough times at the moment. You’re not alone.

Using the 50k 1800 at a time to overpay while you have a low rate sounds like a good idea.

You can also shop around for a different provider who will offer a longer term - you can get terms up to 40 years, and it doesn't mean you can't repay early further down the line.

Otherwise put the house on the market and downsize unless you're already in a two bed.

There are always options, and you have time.

chirrupybird · 17/09/2026 13:40

I wouldn't pay the £50k off the mortgage, that could be useful for other things as well as a financial safety net. And as said above you should only be drawing it down very slowly to cover the part of the mortgage you might find difficult to pay preserving your safety net.

Bjorkdidit · 17/09/2026 13:40

Can people PLEASE stop telling the OP to overpay. It would be a ridiculous thing to do while her rate is 2.7%. The £50k should be earning over 4% interest in an ISA, which hopefully it's already in, plus the OP has her £500 pa tax free interest savings allowance to use.

I also don't understand why she thinks her rate will go up to 6%, rates around 4.5% are available, so not as big a jump.

OP you could probably do with reviewing your spending to make sure you're on top of your budget and see if you can save more each month. You could use some of the £50k to supplement your income over coming years until your disposable income grows eg due to payrises or lower childcare costs, but with nearly £3k pm after your mortgage, you should be able to cover your costs and have a decent lifestyle.

TheLurpackYears · 17/09/2026 13:38

It’s 12 months away. By all means check in with your broker for reassurance, but it will be fine honest.

SameIssue · 17/09/2026 13:38

With respect, I am quite confused by your level of panic. At £74k, your take home should be around £4,275 (assuming a decent 5% pension contribution). With one DC and assuming they are in nursery with 30h free childcare, the most expensive nursery would still be at £800 so

£4275 - £800 (nursery) - £1600 (increased mortgage) - £150 (council tax) - £75 (car insurance) - £100 (fuel) - £150 (utilities) = a healthy £1400 for food and outings!!!!!

And that is without touching £50k inheritance money...

OnlyUsername · 17/09/2026 13:37

Pancis125 · 17/09/2026 12:28

I can’t extend the term more than I have. 50k reduction will still mean significant increase on 6%

Yes you can unless you are already at a retirement age of 80. Some lenders will lend past your 70th birthday. You can change term again down the line.