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Supermarket bargains - is this greedy, or fair enough?

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Bobbisocks · 17/09/2026 11:31

In our local Tesco yesterday and spotted some large boxes of fresh figs in the reduced section. Normally would retail at £5.40 (with Clubcard) but now reduced to £1.86 - bargain!
There were about six or seven boxes left, so I picked one up. Standing in the queue a bit later I spotted a lady who had clearly helped herself to the rest - she had about five or six boxes in her trolley.
Of course there’s nothing to stop anyone doing that, but is it unreasonable?

YABU - yes, it’s greedy. People should leave some bargains for other shoppers.
YANBU - it’s a free country, first come first served!

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Holeymoley28 · 18/09/2026 16:59

boredwithfoodprob · 18/09/2026 16:50

Wasted on you 🤣

Worst part? I planted them in fact I grew the second from a twig off the first 🤣 Two brown turkeys.

boredwithfoodprob · 18/09/2026 16:50

Holeymoley28 · 17/09/2026 22:47

I have two fig trees and I’ve never eaten a fig.

Wasted on you 🤣

Sartre · 18/09/2026 16:49

Probably for jam or something. Figs are an acquired taste, not many seem keen so at least someone bought them.

Themsofcoffee · 18/09/2026 16:25

I don't give a fig one way or another

Pherian · 18/09/2026 16:22

Bobbisocks · 17/09/2026 11:31

In our local Tesco yesterday and spotted some large boxes of fresh figs in the reduced section. Normally would retail at £5.40 (with Clubcard) but now reduced to £1.86 - bargain!
There were about six or seven boxes left, so I picked one up. Standing in the queue a bit later I spotted a lady who had clearly helped herself to the rest - she had about five or six boxes in her trolley.
Of course there’s nothing to stop anyone doing that, but is it unreasonable?

YABU - yes, it’s greedy. People should leave some bargains for other shoppers.
YANBU - it’s a free country, first come first served!

Yeah it’s first come first served. You had a choice to take them. You didn’t.

zingally · 18/09/2026 14:53

Back during 'twixmas last year, my local supermarket were selling the Bisto turkey gravy at 50p a pop. I bought 3 of them, and only finished them in about June.

zingally · 18/09/2026 14:51

If I see something on yellow sticker that I know my family will enjoy, then I'd probably take all of them as well!
I recently got 5 jars of Bisto Best gravy, with an April '27 date on them. We're a family of gravy lovers, especially in the winter months, so that'll see us through a treat! Normally £4+, reduced to £1.88. Yes please!

I regularly get a few bits of meat for the freezer that are on yellow sticker. Things like burgers and sausages freeze really well.

usernametaken135 · 18/09/2026 13:28

SpottyAlpaca · 17/09/2026 21:18

Read my post again. This time, try a little harder to understand it. It’s quite straightforward and I’m sure you’ll grasp it if you try.

Im confused too!
Are you suggesting it is ok to take all the fruit and veg because they are not essential to feed a family , where as meat is an essential dietary requirement therefore should be shared out?

JaceLancs · 18/09/2026 00:50

It depends on the circumstances - if I’m there on my own I will buy max quantity of anything that’s reduced and I have a need for - providing I have freezer space or a use for it
If there are others also looking at same time I will grab one or two items and ask if they want any - if not I might take more if I need them

Reallyneedsaholiday · 18/09/2026 00:44

Were people queuing up for them? Sometimes I see the staff member putting reduced stickers on, and people all trying to grab something. In which case, she would be greedy to grab them all. But assuming that they were just sitting in the reduced area, then the chances are they’d have got binned anyway, and she’s not doing anything wrong. I’d like to think, that if someone really wanted a box, they could have asked her and she’d have shared, but she’s not really obligated to do so.

Cotopaxi · 17/09/2026 23:13

That many boxes of fresh figs? I hope she was stocking up on loo roll as well.

Holeymoley28 · 17/09/2026 22:47

I have two fig trees and I’ve never eaten a fig.

boredwithfoodprob · 17/09/2026 22:34

I love figs!! I probably would have done the same but possibly not THAT many 😂 She was probably planning on making jam or something- better than them being thrown away!

Coconutter24 · 17/09/2026 21:40

SpottyAlpaca · 17/09/2026 21:18

Read my post again. This time, try a little harder to understand it. It’s quite straightforward and I’m sure you’ll grasp it if you try.

I’m not sure why you’re trying to be patronising. All the items are for sale so regardless of it it’s fruit or meat anyone is entitled to buy as much or as little as they want

SpottyAlpaca · 17/09/2026 21:18

Coconutter24 · 17/09/2026 19:12

Why is fruit and veg fair game but meat isn’t?

Read my post again. This time, try a little harder to understand it. It’s quite straightforward and I’m sure you’ll grasp it if you try.

YourGoldLurker · 17/09/2026 21:09

FFSItsTooHot · 17/09/2026 21:03

I've just commented about the same thing!

I was devastated because I'm skint and I'm pretty sure what they took was a packet of value Avocados. I think they were upset because I got the last packet and they took more than that out of my trolley. How scummy. It was like 28p. They just clearly wanted avocado for some reason

FFSItsTooHot · 17/09/2026 21:03

YourGoldLurker · 17/09/2026 21:01

I once had people steal YS stuff out of my trolley. I was devastated because there was plenty of stuff left just not what I had taken. I would never be that skanky that I would steal out of someone's trolley.

I've just commented about the same thing!

FFSItsTooHot · 17/09/2026 21:02

I don't see a problem with it. As.long she'd taken them off the shelf, and not out of someone else's trolley while they weren't looking,as has happened to me on a couple of occasions!

YourGoldLurker · 17/09/2026 21:01

Cherrysoup · 17/09/2026 20:56

Morrisons once had a shelf full of offal. I confess I shovelled pretty much all of it into my trolley. Looked away for a second and an elderly Chinese lady was grabbing handfuls! I had very strong words, don’t think she understood a thing, she just chattered loudly at me, probably telling me I was a selfish cow! I mention her nationality because it reminded me of a scene in a film where somebody was being told off by an elderly Chinese lady and didn’t understand a word 🤣

The food was for my dogs. Thought I’d stock up 🤷‍♀️

I once had people steal YS stuff out of my trolley. I was devastated because there was plenty of stuff left just not what I had taken. I would never be that skanky that I would steal out of someone's trolley.

YourGoldLurker · 17/09/2026 20:59

Roselilly36 · 17/09/2026 20:56

I wouldn’t dream of taking all the reduced items, it’s nice to get a bargain, but selfish to take the lot.

I personally don't care whether the person behind me is a millionaire or dirt poor. I just like to leave something for other people. No more than that

Cherrysoup · 17/09/2026 20:56

Morrisons once had a shelf full of offal. I confess I shovelled pretty much all of it into my trolley. Looked away for a second and an elderly Chinese lady was grabbing handfuls! I had very strong words, don’t think she understood a thing, she just chattered loudly at me, probably telling me I was a selfish cow! I mention her nationality because it reminded me of a scene in a film where somebody was being told off by an elderly Chinese lady and didn’t understand a word 🤣

The food was for my dogs. Thought I’d stock up 🤷‍♀️

Roselilly36 · 17/09/2026 20:56

I wouldn’t dream of taking all the reduced items, it’s nice to get a bargain, but selfish to take the lot.

YourGoldLurker · 17/09/2026 20:40

ExOptimist · 17/09/2026 20:30

I'm not assuming they want to, but if they're that poor and need to get the most food for their money then presumably they need to.

Otherwise in the Sainsbury's I go to why are there so many more shelves filled with cheap battery chicken than with free range organic for example?

In the supermarket nearest me everything used to be reduced to 10 per cent of the full price. So if someone wanted a bargain they could get something that had been expensive to start with. I don't eat chicken. I'm vegan. I suspect the supermarkets know that many people will buy the cheapest option. That doesn't mean they are poor though

ExOptimist · 17/09/2026 20:30

YourGoldLurker · 17/09/2026 20:24

That's not true. Let's not assume that poor people only want to buy the cheapest of the cheap.

I'm not assuming they want to, but if they're that poor and need to get the most food for their money then presumably they need to.

Otherwise in the Sainsbury's I go to why are there so many more shelves filled with cheap battery chicken than with free range organic for example?

YourGoldLurker · 17/09/2026 20:24

ExOptimist · 17/09/2026 20:21

But how could you possibly know the circumstances of the next person to come along and buy the reduced items?

I'm fortunate to be comfortably off and buy the best quality meat, fish and poultry in supermarkets, but if I see that product with a yellow sticker I take as many of them that will fit in my freezer. I have no qualms doing that, if I left one the next person to pick it up might be better off than me. Also to be honest a reduction on expensive food is still quite likely to cost more than the cheapest food which presumably people who are hard up would be buying.

That's not true. Let's not assume that poor people only want to buy the cheapest of the cheap.