I agree. In general, I think there should be much more pragmatism and less ideology around benefits and how they are administered - which probably would mean more universal benefits.
I also think there should be broader tapering.
And- and this might be a separate point- I do also think there should be more state investment in high quality, heavily subsided childcare so no one is paying such extortionate childcare costs, and private nurseries are not being propped up by the tax system.