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To not know where to turn for help with this?

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ihowlforyou · 16/09/2026 22:01

I fell and fractured my ankle a week ago. I was told it’s a stable fracture to be treated like a sprain. I also really tore up my knee, which has been very slow to heal.

A week on and I’m still incredibly swollen, bruised and my ankle is becoming more and more painful. My knee is still very sore, the actual skin is numb but I have pain at the base and top of my kneecap. It also feels a little unstable and I am getting sharp stabbing pains to one side of my kneecap.

My GP isn’t interested. They say that I have to go to physio if I need, as it’s a muscular injury.

Physio has an eight week minimum wait for a video consultation.

This obviously isn’t an A&e situation (shamefully I did go to A&E for the initial injury because it had a very short wait time, it seemed to be a quiet time of day!), and they wouldn’t take a look at my knee anyway as it’s a “superficial injury”.

Minor injuries is now by appointment only in my area and appointments are gone within a minute of opening.

I’ve tried the pharmacy for the graze that isn’t healing but they just say to dress it and keep it clean and it’ll heal “eventually”.

I feel like I’m being turned away at every turn but I’m in so much pain, I’m left feeling sick by lunchtime because my ankle is that sore, and by the end of the day I can’t stand walking around. I have basic physio exercises from my last sprain years ago but I can’t do them, but I can’t be seen by anyone.

Please don’t suggest a private physio assessment, it’s not within my budget at all. AIBU to just feel despondent and like I can’t get help anywhere?

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ihowlforyou · 16/09/2026 22:41

3luckystars · 16/09/2026 22:40

I’m so glad I read that because now I know what’s going on. Nobody really thinks that so this whole thing is unbelievable now. Thanks and good luck.

What?

I cannot call in sick. The team I work in is on the bones of its arse already. It’s barely functioning but there’s no budget to hire anyone else. If I go off sick for something like this, patient outcomes will be impacted

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GardenCovent · 16/09/2026 22:40

Op honestly this thread is actually really sad.
There is absolutely nothing shameful going to a&e when you have a broken ankle and nobody should be made to feel like this.
Also you absolutely can take time off sick for this type of injury if needed. YOU will not be letting your team down, it is your employers responsibility to ensure your work is covered not yours, if they can’t do this THEY are letting the team down

3luckystars · 16/09/2026 22:40

ihowlforyou · 16/09/2026 22:37

You can needle all you like but calling in sick is not an option.

I’m so glad I read that because now I know what’s going on. Nobody really thinks that so this whole thing is unbelievable now. Thanks and good luck.

Needmorelego · 16/09/2026 22:39

ihowlforyou · 16/09/2026 22:37

You can needle all you like but calling in sick is not an option.

What would they do if you were hit by a bus ?
They'd have to manage without you.
You. Can. Phone. In. Sick.

Saltnchilli · 16/09/2026 22:39

A&e are known at my local hospital for missing fractures and giving the wrong treatment plan.
You should be followed up by fracture clinic. Do you have a fracture clinic attached to your hospital? I would call them tomorrow and explain.

ihowlforyou · 16/09/2026 22:38

Bogstandardname · 16/09/2026 22:35

Surely you should be in a boot for some support. It is admirable that you don't want to let your team down but a team is only as strong as its weakest link and that would be you right now. You are not fit for work. Get your GP to prescribe painkillers and sign you off. Rest is essential for an injury like yours.

I work at a desk so I am fit.

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ihowlforyou · 16/09/2026 22:37

3luckystars · 16/09/2026 22:37

Do you think you are showing a good example to your team?

If that’s all the care that hospital offered you, despite being a staff member then I would wonder about that too.

You can needle all you like but calling in sick is not an option.

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Needmorelego · 16/09/2026 22:37

ihowlforyou · 16/09/2026 22:14

Because I don’t have any other option, I can’t call in sick to work!

Of course you can phone in sick.
Would you go in if your appendix burst or you chopped or finger off or you caught pneumonia or had severe explosive diarrhea??
(I bloody hope not....)
Go back to A+E.
You aren't complaining about your previous treatment - you're going there to get treatment because it's got worse.
Which (in this situation) is what A+E is for.

3luckystars · 16/09/2026 22:37

Do you think you are showing a good example to your team?

If that’s all the care that hospital offered you, despite being a staff member then I would wonder about that too.

Vivi0 · 16/09/2026 22:36

I recently fractured my foot and following an x-ray at minor injuries, was given similar advice.

Due to the pain, numbness and difficulties with getting around (I had no choice but to walk around on it as I had just had a baby) I didn’t think it would get better, but by week 8, it was fine.

I wore supportive trainers, and it was easier to walk with those tied tight. But it was my foot that was fractured, not my ankle, so I don’t know whether that would actually help you or not.

I slept with my foot elevated, and that helped too.

I considered going to A&E a few times, as I just didn’t feel it was getting better. But it did, with time.

3luckystars · 16/09/2026 22:35

Go to another hospital then.

Bogstandardname · 16/09/2026 22:35

Surely you should be in a boot for some support. It is admirable that you don't want to let your team down but a team is only as strong as its weakest link and that would be you right now. You are not fit for work. Get your GP to prescribe painkillers and sign you off. Rest is essential for an injury like yours.

ihowlforyou · 16/09/2026 22:35

watermybegonias · 16/09/2026 22:32

Was it you who fell on the way to work and had an avulsion fracture? You certainly didn’t get very good treatment then, if it was you. I think you should go back to A&E and tell them exactly what is going on.

However, NOBODY is indispensable at work. That is just plain irresponsible of you.

I know it sounds stupid but i’m almost scared to go back. I don’t want a flag on my records to say I’m seeking drugs or a diagnosis or something. I just want some help.

The bruising is spreading up my leg, and all over my foot. I was literally told nothing.

To not know where to turn for help with this?
To not know where to turn for help with this?
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seahorsessky · 16/09/2026 22:34

111 told me to go to urgent care for similar and booked me in. You might need an MRI, so ring 111 and ask what to do. Ignoring "minor" issues like this has left too many people with permanent problems.

beaglescurleduplikebagels · 16/09/2026 22:34

ihowlforyou · 16/09/2026 22:17

I an unable to go off sick. It’s just not feasible, I’d be letting a team of people down.

So bloody what?

Tetchypants · 16/09/2026 22:33

It’s an avulsion fracture isn’t it, which under NHS guidelines is to be treated like a sprain. It is not remotely the same as having a broken ankle where you’d be in a cast/boot.

Unfortunately there’s nothing you can do except try not to walk on it too much and take painkillers. It’ll take 4-6 weeks to heal. But you already know this.

watermybegonias · 16/09/2026 22:32

Was it you who fell on the way to work and had an avulsion fracture? You certainly didn’t get very good treatment then, if it was you. I think you should go back to A&E and tell them exactly what is going on.

However, NOBODY is indispensable at work. That is just plain irresponsible of you.

3luckystars · 16/09/2026 22:31

Newyearawaits · 16/09/2026 22:27

I'm very surprised that you have been given such generalised information. If you have a fracture (stable or otherwise),, I am not sure that you should be walking normally.
I would have thought partial weight bearing at the most, ice pack and elevation whilst sitting and regular analgesia.
Also, your knee should be cleaned and dressed to prevent infection.
Please take care of yourself OP, fractured ankles are very painful.

Are you actually telling us that you are working in the hospital?

Yes you can get a second opinion any time you want and you can also GO TO ANOTHER HOSPITAL if you want to.

Your options are limitless but you need to get it rechecked.

i understand you are in pain and probably not thinking clearly but do you have any one who can go with you and help you?

ihowlforyou · 16/09/2026 22:31

Oldrunner · 16/09/2026 22:29

Pus indicates infection so you need to get a GP appointment or see a pharmacist as you may need it swabbed and be given antibiotics.
And your ankle hurts cos you are walking on it too much. It's that simple. Walking 5000 steps a day is giving it no chance to heal.

The pharmacist just tells me to keep it clean and dressed, the AI gp form bounces me back to the pharmacy. I’m sick to the back teeth of all of it, I’m tired, in pain and feeling grotty in general and everyone I speak to makes me feel like a nuisance for daring to ask for help for something so minor

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Tel12 · 16/09/2026 22:31

OP no one is indispensable. We all find it out sooner or later. Go back to a and e. Make a fuss, get some care.

TheSlantedOwl · 16/09/2026 22:30

Go to A&E - the situation is worsening. Don’t hold back about the pain level and symptoms. Make a fuss.

Givemeabreakdagdammit · 16/09/2026 22:30

OP go back to A&E and call in sick tomorrow. This is ridiculous, you don't need permission but please do take it, you should not be walking 5000 on a fractured ankle. Work would cope without you for a week.

Please go and get seen before you end up with a septic leg.

ihowlforyou · 16/09/2026 22:30

Newyearawaits · 16/09/2026 22:27

I'm very surprised that you have been given such generalised information. If you have a fracture (stable or otherwise),, I am not sure that you should be walking normally.
I would have thought partial weight bearing at the most, ice pack and elevation whilst sitting and regular analgesia.
Also, your knee should be cleaned and dressed to prevent infection.
Please take care of yourself OP, fractured ankles are very painful.

I was really shocked too. The guy seemed almost angry it was fractured?

I turned up and as soon as I hobbled into a&e he asked why I was there as a sprain isn’t an a&e problem and as I could weight bear it wasn’t fractured.

I explained my symptoms and he said again that because I could weight bear and the pain was radiating around my leg it wasn’t a fracture but he “may as well” do an xray.

I sat and waited a while and he came back, said it was fractured, but it should be treated like a sprain and went through the police acronym and sent me on my way with a leaflet for physio if I needed

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Oldrunner · 16/09/2026 22:29

ihowlforyou · 16/09/2026 22:23

I just felt a bit like I was being a nuisance when I went the first time, so I feel like it’ll be even worse if I went back. 111 have offered me a nursing call back but I was seen by a nurse in a&e the first time, so I feel like the advice will be the same. I just want it to stop hurting, and for someone to tell me what to do about the pus that’s coming out of my knee. I feel like because I’ve not snapped my leg in two it’s just written off as a minor injury

Pus indicates infection so you need to get a GP appointment or see a pharmacist as you may need it swabbed and be given antibiotics.
And your ankle hurts cos you are walking on it too much. It's that simple. Walking 5000 steps a day is giving it no chance to heal.

Newyearawaits · 16/09/2026 22:27

ihowlforyou · 16/09/2026 22:05

I’ve been told I can! I’ve cut my activity down to the bare minimum but my everyday commute and life totals about 5000 steps.

I'm very surprised that you have been given such generalised information. If you have a fracture (stable or otherwise),, I am not sure that you should be walking normally.
I would have thought partial weight bearing at the most, ice pack and elevation whilst sitting and regular analgesia.
Also, your knee should be cleaned and dressed to prevent infection.
Please take care of yourself OP, fractured ankles are very painful.