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AIBU to be surprised by a charity fundraiser knocking at 7.30pm?

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Crumpettime · 16/09/2026 19:56

My door bell just rang and I didn’t really want to open it. It’s 7:30pm and fairly dark outside already but I thought it could be my husband so I opened it. It was a charity fundraiser asking if I have time for a chat. I said no
sorry I’m just about to put my kids to bed (lie) closed the door. He was polite and left. I haven’t had anyone knocking on door at night for charity donation ever. Is it common?

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Left · 16/09/2026 20:12

They’re annoying at any time.

ChocolateApples · 16/09/2026 20:11

7:30 is an entirely reasonable time. Less keen on unsolicited charity collectors going door to door.

Spiffingdarling88 · 16/09/2026 20:07

Seems the must logical, people will be home from work.

CurbsideProphet · 16/09/2026 20:05

They wouldn't knock at this time here. They usually get back on the minibus around 5pm after spending the day doing the rounds of the village.

SeptemberRains · 16/09/2026 20:03

Yes it’s common.

PoloThePolarBear · 16/09/2026 20:02

I think 7.30 is a reasonable time for people to call round tbh, we’ve certainly had neighbours pop over or delivery drivers knock later than that.

Are you very anxious about opening the door when it’s dark? Is it possible to install more lighting around your door and a peephole in your door so you feel safer?