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To wonder if Jesus Christ is swearing

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badmornin · 16/09/2026 18:41

Because I exclaimed OH JESUS CHRIST in frustration today on the school run. Not my finest moment and I will admit that; it had not been a good morning, lots of stress here and my younger child nearly tipped me over the edge demanding to be carried and blocking everyone’s way on the very narrow pavement, picked her up, dropped everything else I was carrying and said the above.

We have had a message about bad language in front of the children and I feel like it’s aimed at me.

wondering what MNetters think?

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BlackCatsForever · 16/09/2026 20:01

vdbfamily · 16/09/2026 18:58

I personally whine when anyone blasphemes as I am a Christian. I find it harder to hear than any swear words.

Same (wince, that is). The F word doesn’t bother me nearly so much as long as it’s not in front of kids, although I don’t use it myself.

Dietlady58 · 16/09/2026 20:01

Oh come on! I’ve had a chuckle over this (and I’m Catholic)! You were frustrated, having a bad morning and you accidentally said it! At least you didn’t use the ‘f’ word.
I’m sure the good Lord has forgiven you and had a good laugh over it himself!
I hope the rest of your day improved.

Teffe · 16/09/2026 20:00

Yes it’s swearing. I’ve had to stop saying it since dc have made friends with children at school who have very religious Nigerian parents.

UniquePinkSwan · 16/09/2026 19:56

It’s not swearing. Especially if you aren’t religious.

ElonMess · 16/09/2026 19:44

It's not swearing but it's offensive.
I have 2 friends who are Christians and attend church, and they are extremely offended by this because it's using his name to express anger or frustration.
I'm not Christian but I can see why it would offend Christians and therefore I wouldn't say it around them.
YABVU to say this in frustration in Christian school grounds. It's common sense to realise this really.

Justploddingonandon · 16/09/2026 19:37

I’m not religious but I wouldn’t say this in front of my kids ( or any others) as I wouldn’t want them to repeat it. I have ended up saying ‘for go-odness sake’ a few times as I suddenly remember the kids are in the room though.

Christ0nABike · 16/09/2026 19:37

LoveItaly · 16/09/2026 19:13

Of course it’s swearing, and pretty offensive to some people. I see it on here all the time, ‘Jesus wept’ and ‘Christ on a bike’, I’m not religious so it doesn’t bother me, but I can’t help but notice these casually anti religious comments are only related to the Christian faith.

You called?

OttersOnAPlane · 16/09/2026 19:37

It's not swearing, it's blaspheming.

See also For God's Sake, God Damn It, Christ On A Bike, Jesus H. Christ, Mother Of God, Mother Of Fucking God, Oh My God and Oh My Fucking God.

Although some of those are twofers, with both blasphemy and cussing.

TheImpOfThePerverse2026 · 16/09/2026 19:36

I did swear at them once though a few years ago. It was deserved but I'll never forget the look on their face 🤯

champagnetrial · 16/09/2026 19:35

It might be a safe-guarding thing. If you are visibily (orally) angry or upset when you are in charge of your child they could feasibly have 'had a word' . They are probably understanding that it's a time-of-the-morning kind of slip up so they've gone for a general, 'keep it together, lady' reminder. Knowing that the person it is aimed at (possibly you) will get the message.

TheImpOfThePerverse2026 · 16/09/2026 19:34

My parents are church goers so I just blaspheme in a different language now, they have no idea 😂

FullLondonEye · 16/09/2026 19:33

Unless you were dropping the kids off at The Chalet School then no, it's not swearing. Those who dislike blasphemy won't approve but one hears worse on pre-watershed telly any day of the week.

Whynottryagain · 16/09/2026 19:31

I think it's offensive and would not expect such language around children. There's a child in reception who says it and I hate it. I tell DC to never use the name of any god as a swear word.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 16/09/2026 19:31

But that said, I hear loads of people saying it in and around our local Catholic community and no one is offended - in fact it’s often Catholics saying it!

Probably best not said in front of little kids, though, as you wouldn’t like them to repeat it - it’s enough like swearing you wouldn’t want to hear if from a kid

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 16/09/2026 19:29

When my kids were little, if I accidentally said this, I would turn it into “Jesus Christ… Superstar!”, as in the name of the musical, because to me that was less like swearing 😂

Its a bit silly now that musical is on again in London but it worked at the time.

MyM8Marmite · 16/09/2026 19:27

vdbfamily · 16/09/2026 18:58

I personally whine when anyone blasphemes as I am a Christian. I find it harder to hear than any swear words.

In my mind, I add to that particular blasphemy "is Lord and Saviour". Makes it more bearable to hear.

AppleDumplingWithCustard · 16/09/2026 19:26

I was brought up in the Christian faith although lapsed now. But I still have enough of it in me to be a bit offended when I see Jesus or God linked with a swear word that you see so frequently on here. It seems though in today’s world that Christianity is the only religion about which it’s allowable to cause offence.

badmornin · 16/09/2026 19:13

HoppityBun · 16/09/2026 19:06

I would say that in a faith context it’s breaking the third of the ten commandments and unwise in a faith context.

Well - it wasn’t exactly a faith context. It was a street on the same road as a faith school so while I agree it wasn’t my finest moment I didn’t bellow it as a coffin was lowered into the ground or anything.

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LoveItaly · 16/09/2026 19:13

Of course it’s swearing, and pretty offensive to some people. I see it on here all the time, ‘Jesus wept’ and ‘Christ on a bike’, I’m not religious so it doesn’t bother me, but I can’t help but notice these casually anti religious comments are only related to the Christian faith.

Minasama · 16/09/2026 19:11

It’s not an appropriate thing to say in front of small children, although I’m sorry to say that I did. Don’t worry OP xx

Theotheron · 16/09/2026 19:09

“Ride me sideways!”

That’s another one.

Surroundedbyfools · 16/09/2026 19:08

I wouldn’t class it as swearing and wouldn’t bat an eyelid if I heard anyone say it even with my children present…. However I am pretty laid back on this sort of things. I’m sure other ppl will disagree with me

Cantstopeatingjaffacakes · 16/09/2026 19:07

I have to admit I don’t like it. I also say oh my gosh rather than omg. I wouldn’t let it bother you too much and seems a little over the top from the school.

HoppityBun · 16/09/2026 19:06

I would say that in a faith context it’s breaking the third of the ten commandments and unwise in a faith context.

fumingrightnow1 · 16/09/2026 19:04

My nan use to tell me off for saying for god sake

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