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AIBU to oppose housing 1,000 undocumented young men near Piddington?

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PiddingtonFan · 16/09/2026 09:38

We dont need anymore undocumented young males.

1000 proposed to be housed near Piddington. Young males from a different culture.

AIBU to agree with them. Enough undocumented males. Too many males overwhelming a small population. 😪

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HollyhocksandPeons · 19/09/2026 18:33

FaceTips · 19/09/2026 18:25

There is a core of regular posters that are drawn to anti-immigrant and anti-Muslim threads and seem full of hatred and worse. I imagine them typing away with faces contorted in anger. They are almost obsessed by the topic and have lost all perspective about everything else going on in the world. They use these threads to spend hatred and are clearly not happy in their lives. I am so grateful that my world is not like this, and the people that live in it are not wired this way.

Would you like to take a couple of migrants in, in your home full of love in your world full of love? Because there is not enough housing to dump those people in, you see, as those working classes, full of hatred, struggle to be housed.

HollyhocksandPeons · 19/09/2026 18:31

nomas · 19/09/2026 10:52

No one wants crime. But I also don’t think treating entire groups of people as criminals is helpful. Crimes are committed by individuals not whole nationalities. Most asylum seekers are fleeing violence, not causing it.

Groups of people committing a crime are criminals. They break the law by entering illegally. They are groups of criminals. Try entering Poland by breaking through their border - see what happens. The Polish Parliament approved the use of live ammunition on those who cross the border illegally - after one of their border guards was speared through. Yes, speared.

FaceTips · 19/09/2026 18:25

shecanbe · 19/09/2026 07:56

I'm going to give up on this thread. Of course you are entitled to be concerned about certain attitudes to women in certain cultures. Do you think this is some great revelation that actually needs explaining or that your 'liberal left' aren't equally aware? I lived and worked on the Pakistan / Afghan border for 8 months - you don't need to tell me. My husband's family fled Iran ffs.

What I object to is the lazy stereotyping and fear-mongering that immigrants are more likely to be sex offenders and rapists. This is patently untrue. Racism thrives on stereotypes and lack of understanding. This is obviously being magnified via social media where people can find a picture or an article to justify pretty much anything - and then they present it as 'the truth'. Scary stuff. This is how the Far Right operate and how reasonable discussion about cultural differences become ever more shrill and distorted. I don't know what to say to you anymore really, but good luck.

There is a core of regular posters that are drawn to anti-immigrant and anti-Muslim threads and seem full of hatred and worse. I imagine them typing away with faces contorted in anger. They are almost obsessed by the topic and have lost all perspective about everything else going on in the world. They use these threads to spend hatred and are clearly not happy in their lives. I am so grateful that my world is not like this, and the people that live in it are not wired this way.

ForRedPoet · 19/09/2026 18:14

HollyhocksandPeons · 19/09/2026 17:54

But see how evil, truly evil these woke bastards are - not in my backyard. Not in my backyard. Even coming up with pc woke reasons for why not in my backyard - incredible. I wish this would be more widely known. I think that an emoji showing disgust is required, not a laughing one. Those wankers did not care when they were sending these criminals to Glasgow - the UK refugee capital.

Completely agree, and this is a wonderful example of that.

That video was hilarious BTW!

HollyhocksandPeons · 19/09/2026 18:10

EmeraldShamrock000 · 19/09/2026 17:58

Agreed. Look at Ceuta in the last month, the increase in crime and sexual assaults, they can’t cope. These men are now being processed for mainland Spain. It’s mental that they can’t send the remaining few 1000 back.
It is happening all over Europe with no push back.

They are criminals.

EmeraldShamrock000 · 19/09/2026 17:58

Hoardasurass · 19/09/2026 17:27

But these men are not true asylum seekers they are at best economic migrants and yes they pose a threat to women and girls

Agreed. Look at Ceuta in the last month, the increase in crime and sexual assaults, they can’t cope. These men are now being processed for mainland Spain. It’s mental that they can’t send the remaining few 1000 back.
It is happening all over Europe with no push back.

HollyhocksandPeons · 19/09/2026 17:54

Dollymylove · 19/09/2026 17:13

Definitely need a laughing emoji 🤣

But see how evil, truly evil these woke bastards are - not in my backyard. Not in my backyard. Even coming up with pc woke reasons for why not in my backyard - incredible. I wish this would be more widely known. I think that an emoji showing disgust is required, not a laughing one. Those wankers did not care when they were sending these criminals to Glasgow - the UK refugee capital.

EmeraldShamrock000 · 19/09/2026 17:53

Dollymylove · 19/09/2026 15:51

Comforting to know, isnt it, that newts and bats can expect more protection than women and children.....🙄

A cat has more rights than a women in Afghanistan. A cat can enjoy sunshine and freedom.
Did anyone see the interview with a Taliban leader 25 years after 9/11 on CBS?
The interview made me sick, his excuses for banning education, forcing girls to leave school to work in industrial roles now that they need extra hands for production.
The interviewer discussed a secret school, showing footage, young girls taking chemistry classes. He didn’t like it. I am scared for the teacher from the school.

Hoardasurass · 19/09/2026 17:27

nomas · 19/09/2026 10:52

No one wants crime. But I also don’t think treating entire groups of people as criminals is helpful. Crimes are committed by individuals not whole nationalities. Most asylum seekers are fleeing violence, not causing it.

But these men are not true asylum seekers they are at best economic migrants and yes they pose a threat to women and girls

JustaDomperignon · 19/09/2026 17:23

Dollymylove · 19/09/2026 15:51

Comforting to know, isnt it, that newts and bats can expect more protection than women and children.....🙄

Well yes of course. It's is very important to protect them, they are a protected species in the UK.

Dollymylove · 19/09/2026 17:13

HollyhocksandPeons · 19/09/2026 14:39

No, no, no, this is a great idea - that is what they voted for - LibDems did not hide their policies.

Also - priceless - Dr Hari Reed, from Asylum Welcome Oxfordshire, who lives in the village, now opposes this idea - could not make this up!

This is priceless -

From 2.25

Definitely need a laughing emoji 🤣

CatsAreBetterThanMen · 19/09/2026 15:56

Switchnow · 18/09/2026 19:19

I didn’t misunderstand anything, I took YOUR words at face value. If they didn’t properly convey your meaning, you can just correct them, no need for long screeds and made up terms like ‘inverted racism’.

I'm sorry, again you misunderstand. Inverted racism isn't a medical diagnosis or a scientific definition, it doesn't need to be approved by a committee as a formal term for a social phenomenon, it's a combination of words to convey a meaning which is exactly how language works.
Is this reply succinct enough?

Dollymylove · 19/09/2026 15:51

Quine0nline · 19/09/2026 14:55

It looks like a discovery of newts and now bats will put a stop to the conversion of the camp.

"Who let the newts out?'

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Comforting to know, isnt it, that newts and bats can expect more protection than women and children.....🙄

Quine0nline · 19/09/2026 14:55

It looks like a discovery of newts and now bats will put a stop to the conversion of the camp.

"Who let the newts out?'

HollyhocksandPeons · 19/09/2026 14:39

No, no, no, this is a great idea - that is what they voted for - LibDems did not hide their policies.

Also - priceless - Dr Hari Reed, from Asylum Welcome Oxfordshire, who lives in the village, now opposes this idea - could not make this up!

This is priceless -

From 2.25

- YouTube

Enjoy the videos and music that you love, upload original content and share it all with friends, family and the world on YouTube.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VZr8K_461TU

SquashedSquashess · 19/09/2026 11:58

The suicidal empathy of the left has struck again on this thread.

“I’m sure they’ll assimilate, and it’s good to make the area more diverse”.

We are not talking about your skilled, middle-class immigrants that form part of your friendship group or work team in leafy boroughs. We are talking about young men from sub-Saharan cultures which practice horrific things like FGM (Christians and Muslims alike), see women as second-class citizens to exist only in the role of subservient wife / mother, and think any member of the LGBT community is an aberration.

The only form of diversity these people bring is to change census information about the ethnic make up of an area ie how many black people live in Piddington. “Diversity” in that sense is not an inherent good. Those people are not coming to exchange cultures by making jam for the village fete whilst sharing their family jollof rice recipe with their neighbour. They have poor English, no real skills to contribute to our economy, and need to be given leaflets telling them not to beat or rape women.

Fuck that form of immigration, and stop telling communities you don’t live in to accept it. If you think this version of “diversity” is so wonderful, why don’t you let all your spare rooms out to these young men and report back to us about how well they “assimilate”?

If it wasn’t so stupid and such a dangerous threat to our society, I’d laugh at the idiocy of the left’s belief in the benefit of unlimited migration.

EasternStandard · 19/09/2026 11:52

nomas · 19/09/2026 11:45

That’s why I said almost impossible. Tragedies like the SIEV-X drowning, where 353 drowned, including 146 children on the journey from Indonesia happened because it was on a dangerous route of thousands of miles, rather the 21 miles in The Channel.

That’s mostly why the journey isn’t made anymore.

Still not the case. You need to look up how far dinghies are travelling now and how many on average crossed to Australia.

nomas · 19/09/2026 11:45

EasternStandard · 19/09/2026 11:34

That’s obviously not correct. They had thousands arrive before the policy change and similar deaths at sea due to the risk.

That’s why I said almost impossible. Tragedies like the SIEV-X drowning, where 353 drowned, including 146 children on the journey from Indonesia happened because it was on a dangerous route of thousands of miles, rather the 21 miles in The Channel.

That’s mostly why the journey isn’t made anymore.

EasternStandard · 19/09/2026 11:34

nomas · 19/09/2026 11:32

Australia is almost impossible to reach with small boats from refugee-producing regions.

That’s obviously not correct. They had thousands arrive before the policy change and similar deaths at sea due to the risk.

nomas · 19/09/2026 11:32

EasternStandard · 19/09/2026 11:18

You don’t even have to support crowded dinghies where women and dc often die. There’s a better system.

Australia is almost impossible to reach with small boats from refugee-producing regions.

EasternStandard · 19/09/2026 11:18

nomas · 19/09/2026 11:15

I think if the police and government find legal ways of tackling specific types of crimes and the root causes then I support that.

But I’m never going to support the type of person who tries to intimidate the RNLI from rescuing refugees in small boats in distress.

You don’t even have to support crowded dinghies where women and dc often die. There’s a better system.

nomas · 19/09/2026 11:15

AlphaQueue · 19/09/2026 11:07

But if people from certain nationalities and backgrounds are commit crimes at higher rates we should pay no attention to that right?

I think if the police and government find legal ways of tackling specific types of crimes and the root causes then I support that.

But I’m never going to support the type of person who tries to intimidate the RNLI from rescuing refugees in small boats in distress.

EasternStandard · 19/09/2026 11:09

nomas · 19/09/2026 10:52

No one wants crime. But I also don’t think treating entire groups of people as criminals is helpful. Crimes are committed by individuals not whole nationalities. Most asylum seekers are fleeing violence, not causing it.

You can vet and use humanitarian visas and still help, in fact they will not have to use failing dinghies, pay vast sums to traffickers, and get to work when here.

Plus check more thoroughly the background of men before they are given entry.

AlphaQueue · 19/09/2026 11:07

nomas · 19/09/2026 10:52

No one wants crime. But I also don’t think treating entire groups of people as criminals is helpful. Crimes are committed by individuals not whole nationalities. Most asylum seekers are fleeing violence, not causing it.

But if people from certain nationalities and backgrounds are commit crimes at higher rates we should pay no attention to that right?

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