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AIBU to oppose housing 1,000 undocumented young men near Piddington?

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PiddingtonFan · 16/09/2026 09:38

We dont need anymore undocumented young males.

1000 proposed to be housed near Piddington. Young males from a different culture.

AIBU to agree with them. Enough undocumented males. Too many males overwhelming a small population. 😪

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nomas · 19/09/2026 23:17

LuckyHazelFox · 19/09/2026 23:15

You brought the tweet to the forum. What do you mean believe him? The assault happened. Your other point about him isn't even relevant to this matter.

I’m pointing out the hypocrisy of posters lamenting the lack of care for women and minutes later minimising and excusing the far right calling the Home Secretary ‘ a dumb bitch’.

Anonyanonay · 19/09/2026 23:17

LuckyHazelFox · 19/09/2026 20:19

There are Core number of regular posters who are drawn to these threads to try to shut down conversation when it's not going their way. They have lost perspective about the truth on immigration. I can imagine their frustrated faces when, yet again, posters refuse to back down. Think it's called being an adult.

They're losing the argument and they know it. Nothing left except to sneer and jibe.

EasternStandard · 19/09/2026 23:17

Switchnow · 19/09/2026 23:13

Great, I’m glad to hear it that you support safe routes - and I agree, in a civilised society that should exist for the most vulnerable. Our current system makes it dangerous for women to travel, which is why we see just less than half of all asylum applicants from women and children.

Safe routes would make it possible for more women. It’s a really important part of the solution and one that many vocal anti-immigration voices oppose.

You need a new system for this. But yes it’s almost impossible for say a woman with a 12 year old girl to leave refugee camp. They might be experiencing sexual violence but can’t afford a trafficker. And if they can it’ll often be sexual violence on the way. Or risk of death crossing in the dinghy.

It’s all horrific. Australia have it worked out. They’d never vote to go back to what we have here. The stumbling block is the hardline policies that make it possible.

AlphaQueue · 19/09/2026 23:17

She'll ignore this and maybe say the data was wrong. She did this last time.

AlphaQueue · 19/09/2026 23:15

shecanbe · 19/09/2026 23:01

No. You Shane yourself. You shame your country.

You do not want a reasoned discussion about immigration. You just want an excuse to express deeply racist bile from behind your keyboard.

All you want to do is post articles from the Sun, the Fail or other gutter press. As if the actions of an individual can characterise a whole culture. What a disgraceful way to think.

There is a passage in Mein Kampf - where Jewish men are being characterised as sexual predators to be feared and losthed. Of course a few particular incidents and images are used as evidence to whip up hatred for all Jews as sexual deviants snd predators. The dispossessed and despised post war German needed someone to despise more.

The KKK employed similar tactics - trying to scare people into believing all black men were, by dint of their very nature and culture, animalistic sexual predators. Of course they could always find some that were (because sexual predators exist in any group of men). But they exploited those examples as propaganda to characterise all black men.

Do these tactics resonate with some people in this thread? Because they should do.

To reiterate:

Nobody thinks putting 1000 men next to a small village is a good idea

You don't need to point out what goes on in places like Afghanistan. Anybody in their right mind is beyond appalled at the treatment of women.

Being born in a country does not mean you agree with the regime or what goes on. The majority of normal people in Afghanistan despise the Taliban and live in terror. Why would you flee if you identified as a key member of the Taliban 'establishment?'

In any group of 1000 men there will be some that are potentially dangerous. That is men - I don't care where they come from. In that group of 1000 there will also (obviously) be men who are gay, bisexual, traumatised, bewildered, highly motivated to seek a better life, mentally ill, highly intelligent, decent, kind, not so kind - the full spectrum of human men basically.

To characterise any ethnic or cultural group by the actions of a small minority is the very definition of racism. It was the Nazi playbook. It was the KKK plsybook. And it's happening again. And sadly, as this thread demonstrates, too many are swallowing the latest Far Right propaganda tactics hook, line and sinker. It is shameful. Like the beast of Britain has rolled over and revealed a very nasty underbelly that was always there, just dormant. Now racism is being emboldened. The RNLI are being attacked for not letting some of the most desperate people in the world drown off our coasts. Is this your Britain? It's not mine. We are better than this - or so I thought.

Anyone is entitled to not agree with aspects of Islamic culture or any other culture. We should all become much more aware of the horrors going on in Afghanistan, Iran and other countries. And yes, a sensible debate is needed about immigration policy.

However, you are NOT entitled to define any culture, nation or religion by the actions of a few. Learn the lessons of the past.

Edited

Being born and raised in a country means you've probably got the country's culture and value system. Afghanistan and Iran are not places I'd want to be (the Iranian people didn't want the liberal western lifestyle they had so overthrew the Shah to have islamic sharia imposed on them).

Young girls are sold as child brides in Afghanistan.

You can certainly judge a culture by the way that culture treats women. You can judge a culture by the culture itself.

LuckyHazelFox · 19/09/2026 23:15

nomas · 19/09/2026 23:13

Tommy Robinson was found guilty of making false claims about a Syrian refugee, including on X.

Yet you seem keen to believe his tweets.

You brought the tweet to the forum. What do you mean believe him? The assault happened. Your other point about him isn't even relevant to this matter.

Switchnow · 19/09/2026 23:13

EmeraldShamrock000 · 19/09/2026 23:05

No I would not. Smarty pants. I would be happy to see women from Afghanistan offered a safe route, as documented many times it is unsafe for women to cross with the men as they has been countless raped. Raped by the men who come here.
Two volunteers recently murdered by immigrants one in Ireland, one in Greece, daily rape cases in Ceuta. In a civilised society the women and children are sent to safety first. Not when they’re second class citizens.

Great, I’m glad to hear it that you support safe routes - and I agree, in a civilised society that should exist for the most vulnerable. Our current system makes it dangerous for women to travel, which is why we see just less than half of all asylum applicants from women and children.

Safe routes would make it possible for more women. It’s a really important part of the solution and one that many vocal anti-immigration voices oppose.

nomas · 19/09/2026 23:13

LuckyHazelFox · 19/09/2026 23:04

So you've nothing to say about the actual assault that took place on a Restore member? I mean, Ann Widdecombe has just lost her life for her political affiliation (allegedly) and you're more worried about derogatory words.

Tommy Robinson was found guilty of making false claims about a Syrian refugee, including on X.

Yet you seem keen to believe his tweets.

Anonyanonay · 19/09/2026 23:10

shecanbe · 19/09/2026 07:56

I'm going to give up on this thread. Of course you are entitled to be concerned about certain attitudes to women in certain cultures. Do you think this is some great revelation that actually needs explaining or that your 'liberal left' aren't equally aware? I lived and worked on the Pakistan / Afghan border for 8 months - you don't need to tell me. My husband's family fled Iran ffs.

What I object to is the lazy stereotyping and fear-mongering that immigrants are more likely to be sex offenders and rapists. This is patently untrue. Racism thrives on stereotypes and lack of understanding. This is obviously being magnified via social media where people can find a picture or an article to justify pretty much anything - and then they present it as 'the truth'. Scary stuff. This is how the Far Right operate and how reasonable discussion about cultural differences become ever more shrill and distorted. I don't know what to say to you anymore really, but good luck.

Here's some information showing you're wrong. Some immigrants are per capita far more of the threat than others.

Tomas Pueyo on X: "Lots of people discuss immigration & crime in Europe, so I compiled what I think is ALL the data on the topic, which is hard because many countries hide it. Do they commit more crime? Is it because of age? Sex? Education? Poverty? Culture? 1. Sexual offenses & violent crime: https://t.co/EhM15S4O5U" / X

Tomas Pueyo (@tomaspueyo) on X

Lots of people discuss immigration & crime in Europe, so I compiled what I think is ALL the data on the topic, which is hard because many countries hide it. Do they commit more crime? Is it because of age? Sex? Education? Poverty? Culture? 1. Sexu...

https://x.com/tomaspueyo/status/2099900501680701530

LuckyHazelFox · 19/09/2026 23:10

Somerford · 19/09/2026 23:05

Yeah we're not doing this. We've had a whole year of lefties gleefully celebrating the public assassination of Charlie Kirk and more recently the murder of Anne Widdicombe. Now we have campaigners being hospitalised with boiling liquid. I think we're going to have to agree to unite against political violence and make a serious effort to stamp it out, or stop expecting decency and civility from those on the other side of the aisle.

The hypocrisy is staggering. A woman at a Reform conference is assaulted and there's outrage. A Restore canvasser is assaulted and it's silence. Why the hell should canvassers have to put up with this shit?

HollyhocksandPeons · 19/09/2026 23:08

GaIadriel · 19/09/2026 22:15

Labour camp?

We put them back home.

Somerford · 19/09/2026 23:05

nomas · 19/09/2026 22:39

Women obviously don’t matter to them when they’re targeted by white men.

See also Tommy Robinson calling Shabana Mahmoud a ‘dumb bitch’ today

Yeah we're not doing this. We've had a whole year of lefties gleefully celebrating the public assassination of Charlie Kirk and more recently the murder of Anne Widdicombe. Now we have campaigners being hospitalised with boiling liquid. I think we're going to have to agree to unite against political violence and make a serious effort to stamp it out, or stop expecting decency and civility from those on the other side of the aisle.

EmeraldShamrock000 · 19/09/2026 23:05

Switchnow · 19/09/2026 21:44

And yet if that teacher arrived on a small boat you’d send her back as an economic migrant.

No I would not. Smarty pants. I would be happy to see women from Afghanistan offered a safe route, as documented many times it is unsafe for women to cross with the men as they has been countless raped. Raped by the men who come here.
Two volunteers recently murdered by immigrants one in Ireland, one in Greece, daily rape cases in Ceuta. In a civilised society the women and children are sent to safety first. Not when they’re second class citizens.

LuckyHazelFox · 19/09/2026 23:04

nomas · 19/09/2026 23:03

‘Letting himself down’ is a mild rebuke for schoolboys who don’t study at school.

Tommy Robinson and his far right gang have done and will do a hell of a lot worse than that.

So you've nothing to say about the actual assault that took place on a Restore member? I mean, Ann Widdecombe has just lost her life for her political affiliation (allegedly) and you're more worried about derogatory words.

nomas · 19/09/2026 23:04

AlphaQueue · 19/09/2026 23:02

Calling someone a hurty word is a bit crass and rude but not exactly illegal. It's definitely less worse than physically assaulting someone going about their business, campaigning and not causing any disruption. Just handing out flyers.

Angela Rayner called the whole tory party scum.

So misogyny by white men is just hurty words. Are you a man?

nomas · 19/09/2026 23:03

LuckyHazelFox · 19/09/2026 22:56

No he let himself down there. You talk about the murder of women in politics, so even more reason for the real fascists to stop attacking political opponents. They are rabble idiots and I'm not surprised one of them represents a union.

‘Letting himself down’ is a mild rebuke for schoolboys who don’t study at school.

Tommy Robinson and his far right gang have done and will do a hell of a lot worse than that.

AlphaQueue · 19/09/2026 23:02

Calling someone a hurty word is a bit crass and rude but not exactly illegal. It's definitely less worse than physically assaulting someone going about their business, campaigning and not causing any disruption. Just handing out flyers.

Angela Rayner called the whole tory party scum.

shecanbe · 19/09/2026 23:01

Somerford · 19/09/2026 22:00

I think mass immigration, both legal and illegal, is such a demonstrably awful policy that it relies on total narrative control. They HATE it when you question it because its impossible to defend so their only real hope is to shut the discussion down.

They shame you when you talk about it. They shame you when you pay attention to media reports of what members of their imported voting blocs are doing in this country. They shame you when you vote for a party that might do something about it. They shame you because they can't win the argument.

No. You Shane yourself. You shame your country.

You do not want a reasoned discussion about immigration. You just want an excuse to express deeply racist bile from behind your keyboard.

All you want to do is post articles from the Sun, the Fail or other gutter press. As if the actions of an individual can characterise a whole culture. What a disgraceful way to think.

There is a passage in Mein Kampf - where Jewish men are being characterised as sexual predators to be feared and losthed. Of course a few particular incidents and images are used as evidence to whip up hatred for all Jews as sexual deviants snd predators. The dispossessed and despised post war German needed someone to despise more.

The KKK employed similar tactics - trying to scare people into believing all black men were, by dint of their very nature and culture, animalistic sexual predators. Of course they could always find some that were (because sexual predators exist in any group of men). But they exploited those examples as propaganda to characterise all black men.

Do these tactics resonate with some people in this thread? Because they should do.

To reiterate:

Nobody thinks putting 1000 men next to a small village is a good idea

You don't need to point out what goes on in places like Afghanistan. Anybody in their right mind is beyond appalled at the treatment of women.

Being born in a country does not mean you agree with the regime or what goes on. The majority of normal people in Afghanistan despise the Taliban and live in terror. Why would you flee if you identified as a key member of the Taliban 'establishment?'

In any group of 1000 men there will be some that are potentially dangerous. That is men - I don't care where they come from. In that group of 1000 there will also (obviously) be men who are gay, bisexual, traumatised, bewildered, highly motivated to seek a better life, mentally ill, highly intelligent, decent, kind, not so kind - the full spectrum of human men basically.

To characterise any ethnic or cultural group by the actions of a small minority is the very definition of racism. It was the Nazi playbook. It was the KKK plsybook. And it's happening again. And sadly, as this thread demonstrates, too many are swallowing the latest Far Right propaganda tactics hook, line and sinker. It is shameful. Like the beast of Britain has rolled over and revealed a very nasty underbelly that was always there, just dormant. Now racism is being emboldened. The RNLI are being attacked for not letting some of the most desperate people in the world drown off our coasts. Is this your Britain? It's not mine. We are better than this - or so I thought.

Anyone is entitled to not agree with aspects of Islamic culture or any other culture. We should all become much more aware of the horrors going on in Afghanistan, Iran and other countries. And yes, a sensible debate is needed about immigration policy.

However, you are NOT entitled to define any culture, nation or religion by the actions of a few. Learn the lessons of the past.

LuckyHazelFox · 19/09/2026 22:56

nomas · 19/09/2026 22:52

Ironic that you profess to care about women but you choose to ignore the point of that tweet which is calling Shabana Mahmoud ‘a dumb bitch’ by TR.

Especially given the murders of women in politics.

Edited

No he let himself down there. You talk about the murder of women in politics, so even more reason for the real fascists to stop attacking political opponents. They are rabble idiots and I'm not surprised one of them represents a union.

EmeraldShamrock000 · 19/09/2026 22:56

FaceTips · 19/09/2026 18:25

There is a core of regular posters that are drawn to anti-immigrant and anti-Muslim threads and seem full of hatred and worse. I imagine them typing away with faces contorted in anger. They are almost obsessed by the topic and have lost all perspective about everything else going on in the world. They use these threads to spend hatred and are clearly not happy in their lives. I am so grateful that my world is not like this, and the people that live in it are not wired this way.

Likewise. There is group of regular people who are pro immigration and pro Islam that are drawn to these threads, while their faces smile like lunatics as they look out for any opportunity to prove how woke they are.
I wouldn’t consider myself far right. I am left leaning on many things. Having concerns about the changes in society, watching the reality in real time, the result of mass immigration, it doesn’t make me far right.
I cannot fathom how people can ignore the situation with their bleeding hearts.
I hope you have contacted your local refugee charity to assist with housing etc.

nomas · 19/09/2026 22:52

LuckyHazelFox · 19/09/2026 22:42

Far left deginerates. Sounds about right. Hope those violent lot weren't the same complaining about what happened at the Reform conference.

Ironic that you profess to care about women but you choose to ignore the point of that tweet which is calling Shabana Mahmoud ‘a dumb bitch’ by TR.

Especially given the murders of women in politics.

LuckyHazelFox · 19/09/2026 22:42

Far left deginerates. Sounds about right. Hope those violent lot weren't the same complaining about what happened at the Reform conference.

nomas · 19/09/2026 22:39

Switchnow · 19/09/2026 22:00

So much for being motivated by women’s safety eh? Obviously the wrong kind of woman again, like the interloper at the Reform conference. Acceptable to assault her because she caused a ruckus, according to a pp.

Women obviously don’t matter to them when they’re targeted by white men.

See also Tommy Robinson calling Shabana Mahmoud a ‘dumb bitch’ today

AIBU to oppose housing 1,000 undocumented young men near Piddington?
AlphaQueue · 19/09/2026 22:36

Switchnow · 19/09/2026 22:00

So you don’t understand the issue but you’re happy to have one built next to your home. Ok, good news for the rest of us.

I mean yeah. It'll be fine. We need a tech industry. A tech industry needs a data centre. They'll get more efficient as the years go by.

GaIadriel · 19/09/2026 22:15

ExtraOnions · 16/09/2026 10:04

Where do you suggest we put them ?

Not a HMO (flag wavers have done away with those)
Not hotels (flag wavers tried to burn those down)
Not near schools (as they are all sex offenders)
Not in City Centres (large groups makes women uncomfortable)

We aren’t going to build anywhere, it would take too long and be too expensive. Reusing vacant government owned buildings seems to make sense.

So where do they go ?

Labour camp?

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