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AIBU to question the school banning prams from the buggy shed?

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ProudBrickBiscuit · 15/09/2026 22:28

Just a quick one bc I feel like an idiot for pushing on this and rationally I know it’s not a big deal.

My kids school is very strict, but we are fine with that.

I have a 3 year old in a school nursery (drop off 8.30) and a 6 year old in year 1 (drop off 8.45- main gates open at 8.45 and we walk into the playground).

Recently we’ve had emails asking parents to stop leaving strollers/scooters/bikes in the stroller shed. I have actively ignored those and carried on leaving my pram there.

Today, a teacher approached me and asked me not to leave the pram there. The school’s reasoning is that there is a stay and play session, once a week for one hour in which parents need to store their buggies. So space needs to be left for them.

It is boggling my mind that they would stop regular nursery parents from leaving prams and essentially have the shelter empty for the whole week, bar one hour a day.

We can’t take cars on the school road as it has become pedestrian only. School is a 13min adult walk away but my kids walk really slowly and it takes us about 25mins if no pram.

I have to run (actually run as in running clothes and trainers) back from the kids pick up to make it back for my 9am meeting on my WFH days. office days I go straight from school to the station (walking). I can’t run back with my pram. The teacher suggested if I’m struggling with the timings with work I put the kids into breakfast club- that would be costly for two kids and it’s a matter of minutes.

if they had a good reason for this rule I’d completely understand, but this just seems so odd. I don’t want to push it because it’s such a minor issue and it’s embarrassing to make a fuss about sometime like this.

Am I not seeing sense here?

OP posts:
Youcancallmeirrelevant · 15/09/2026 23:21

StolenTeapots · 15/09/2026 23:16

See my post above this one.

The information is in the thread.

What an overcomplicated mess. Why OP is sprinting home to start work when there is an option of breakfast club is beyond me. What a stressful start to a load of mornings. Get rid of the stroller, scooter of bikes for the kids on the days you're in the office OP and breakfast club on the WFH days

velomumhackney · 15/09/2026 23:20

your child’s stamina will increase massively if you walk them daily, and invest the time it takes with them being slow now, they will be faster soon.

TheJuryIsOut · 15/09/2026 23:18

ProudBrickBiscuit · 15/09/2026 22:58

Good for you! I don’t like tiring out my little one before she has even started the day.

Walking to nursery for an energetic 3yo shouldn't tire them out that much. I mean the easiest solution to your problem is to just get the 3yo to walk.

Also surely your 6yo isn't walking it in 13 minutes anyway so having your 3yo walk won't make it that much slower if they can do it in 25

gamerchick · 15/09/2026 23:17

frogspawn15 · 15/09/2026 22:38

OP can’t set off 12 minutes earlier. The issue is that she cannot drop her eldest until the gates open at 8.45, and she needs to be home for 9am to start work. So she runs, which she can’t do with the buggy.

That's the point of setting off earlier. To accommodate the slow walking. She can still run home.

StolenTeapots · 15/09/2026 23:16

Youcancallmeirrelevant · 15/09/2026 23:14

I'm confused why do you need to store your stroller,? Surely drop off then walk back with empty stroller then repeat for pick up?

See my post above this one.

The information is in the thread.

StolenTeapots · 15/09/2026 23:15

Ralstan · 15/09/2026 22:57

Why not just keep the buggy with you

The information is in her post.

Honestly people's reading comprehension these days.

  1. She goes STRAIGHT to work so doesn't want to rock up with a buggy.
2.She RUNS. Literally running home to make a meeting. The buggy is a umbrella fold with small wheels. Not a running buggy.
Youcancallmeirrelevant · 15/09/2026 23:14

I'm confused why do you need to store your stroller,? Surely drop off then walk back with empty stroller then repeat for pick up?

PurpleThistle7 · 15/09/2026 23:13

frogspawn15 · 15/09/2026 22:38

OP can’t set off 12 minutes earlier. The issue is that she cannot drop her eldest until the gates open at 8.45, and she needs to be home for 9am to start work. So she runs, which she can’t do with the buggy.

I think the suggestion was that she sets off early and doesn’t bring a buggy. A 3 year old should be okay to walk 12 minutes. Or 25 minutes if dawdling. Then she can run home as usual.

EmeraldShamrock000 · 15/09/2026 23:13

ProudBrickBiscuit · 15/09/2026 22:55

I mean, I’ve never tried it. It’s a compact one so no suspension, crappy wheels. I should try that.

You would be sweating like a pig by the time you get to the office if you ran home, to the train station to travelled to work.
Scooters are great. They are sturdy, you’ll be chasing them to school.

amyds2104 · 15/09/2026 23:06

There could be so many reasons why they don’t want it used. Someone may have damaged it. Someone’s pram/scooter was stolen during the nursery pick up and drop off times and now they don’t want responsibility for it. Someone left their child in the pram and there was a safeguarding incident. Most likely there was a complaint of some kind - always the thing that causes silly illogical rules. None of it really matters except they’ve asked you not to do it. You decided to do it anyway and then sent an email to complain! Honestly school will be a long hard slog for you if this is something that annoys you as they are full of rules that seem stupid (but most of the time there are reasons for them)!

ProudBrickBiscuit · 15/09/2026 23:05

OhNoooooooooooooooo · 15/09/2026 23:02

Probably because they don't care about your personal logistic issues.

Fair enough. I guess I can’t really question their faulty, illogical rules as it is school property.

OP posts:
fashionqueen0123 · 15/09/2026 23:05

ProudBrickBiscuit · 15/09/2026 23:00

I did email them back with my reasoning/concerns but hadn’t had a response

Does the school have a bike shed for all the kids bikes and scooters? Leave your buggy there maybe

Wolffie17 · 15/09/2026 23:02

I’m with you OP. I think it’s a nuts rule. And my child tired easily and enjoyed a ride home in the pushchair aged 4.

OhNoooooooooooooooo · 15/09/2026 23:02

ProudBrickBiscuit · 15/09/2026 23:00

I did email them back with my reasoning/concerns but hadn’t had a response

Probably because they don't care about your personal logistic issues.

ProudBrickBiscuit · 15/09/2026 23:00

Namechangetry · 15/09/2026 22:41

Recently we’ve had emails asking parents to stop leaving strollers/scooters/bikes in the stroller shed. I have actively ignored those and carried on leaving my pram there.

This was the part where you messed up. Try explaining to school why you need somewhere like the shed, and try to get to a solution, don't just carry on doing something you've been told not to do, what did you think would happen? They're not mind readers

I did email them back with my reasoning/concerns but hadn’t had a response

OP posts:
inthenameofpride · 15/09/2026 22:58

I don’t think the OP came here for judgement on whether her 3-year old still needs the buggy. Which is completely normal for that age. As it would have been in 1960.

ProudBrickBiscuit · 15/09/2026 22:58

TheJuryIsOut · 15/09/2026 22:52

Which is a very normal thing to do. I've got 5 kids and all of them walked to and from nursery at age 3, the vast majority of 3 year olds are fully capable of it.

Good for you! I don’t like tiring out my little one before she has even started the day.

OP posts:
JollyHostess101 · 15/09/2026 22:57

Get a running buggy and run home with it? I’m often running back from nursery drop off with an empty pram and I zoom home rather than pushing a toddler on the way there 😂

Ralstan · 15/09/2026 22:57

Why not just keep the buggy with you

MarzipanAngel · 15/09/2026 22:57

Could you get a bike with a child seat, you could push it to school with the child in the seat then ride it home.

ProudBrickBiscuit · 15/09/2026 22:56

OhNoooooooooooooooo · 15/09/2026 22:54

You walk 1 mile in 13 minutes? That's like..
.power walking fast! 4.6mph!

It would take most women around 20 minutes to walk a mile....

My husband does always ask me why I always walk like I’m late for something 🤣🤣 trauma response to being late to school, I just speed walk.

OP posts:
OhNoooooooooooooooo · 15/09/2026 22:55

mynameiscalypso · 15/09/2026 22:49

Why wouldn’t he have to walk back at the end of the school day on some days? On days where OP is in the office, he’d have to walk home too if there was no buggy at nursery.

Because OP. Would walk. The buggy back to school for pickup and out him in it...

ProudBrickBiscuit · 15/09/2026 22:55

Cla7 · 15/09/2026 22:54

Is there a reason why you can’t run back with the pram? I regularly go on runs with mine, yes it’s a pram designed for running, but a 13-minute walk would be a 4-5 minutes run and that’s manageable with about any pram?

I mean, I’ve never tried it. It’s a compact one so no suspension, crappy wheels. I should try that.

OP posts:
OhNoooooooooooooooo · 15/09/2026 22:54

ProudBrickBiscuit · 15/09/2026 22:50

I just checked, 1 mile apparently. I never realised! Also, I will totally leave earlier but it was more me questioning the logic behind it.

You walk 1 mile in 13 minutes? That's like..
.power walking fast! 4.6mph!

It would take most women around 20 minutes to walk a mile....

Cla7 · 15/09/2026 22:54

Is there a reason why you can’t run back with the pram? I regularly go on runs with mine, yes it’s a pram designed for running, but a 13-minute walk would be a 4-5 minutes run and that’s manageable with about any pram?

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