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AIBU to find this name offensive?

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Snowleopardsspots · 15/09/2026 15:46

Blindness is a serious disability. Not some word to be chucked around for marketing attention. There are a lot of other words that could have been used - mystery box, suprise box.

AIBU to find this name offensive?
OP posts:
IglesiasPiggl · 15/09/2026 16:45

daisyydaisyy · 15/09/2026 16:28

You sound completely fucking batshit, op.

Putting the words "bat" and "shit" together is extremely offensive to the bat community. I wish to complain on their behalf.....

BugJuice · 15/09/2026 16:45

Releasemeplease · 15/09/2026 16:13

Since when?

I've never heard it used in this way.

I agree with OP that it is totaly inappropriate. And actually makes the product unappealing, and certainly the opposite of fun.

My children have been badgering me for ‘blind bags’ since seeing them in toy shops aged around 3. They’re teens now.

Mondaytuesdayhappydays · 15/09/2026 16:43

I’m currently blind-drink on a blind-date
He’s actually so nice it’s blind-sided me
To be fair it’s been a blinding- night so far

Reckon after drinking home around a few blind-bends we might go back to his and blind-bake a pie!

Onefairfish · 15/09/2026 16:42

CrazyMidget · 15/09/2026 15:57

What on earth is blind baking?

It’s when you bake a pie case without the filling. Normally you would put special (non edible) baking balls in the case.

MyThreeWords · 15/09/2026 16:42

I don't understand how the mere use of the word - in a context that is not at all negative - is offensive just because one among its several usages relates to a disability. People with disabilities aren't seeking to lay exclusive claim to commonly used words. Why would they?

And where would it stop? Is it offensive to talk about disabling a burglar alarm? Or to call a book cerebral? Or to use the word 'down' to name little soft feathers?

Or perhaps the many uses of 'blind' are only offensive because they usually invoke a similar meaning to that which is present in the disability term (not being able to see something)? But isn't that the same as implying a taboo around the very idea of blindness, a taboo so strong that we aren't meant ever to hint at it accidentally in our language use? That feels very last century.

Lollipopsicle · 15/09/2026 16:41

And yet someone else looking for something to be offended by... Yawn.

Minasama · 15/09/2026 16:41

I agree that if I were their marketing team I’d have chosen another word, but I find it hard to believe that this would be classed as offensive by many people.

TigerRag · 15/09/2026 16:40

Purplepinkandpaper · 15/09/2026 16:39

Just asked my mum, who is blind, and she doesn’t like the name and wouldn’t buy a ‘blind box’ product. I am partially sighted and feel the same.

I'm partially sighted too and don't like it. Not offended by it though

Mondaytuesdayhappydays · 15/09/2026 16:40

Catapultaway · 15/09/2026 16:04

Dont worry, doubt they'll see it.

Chapeau ! X

Mondaytuesdayhappydays · 15/09/2026 16:39

FannybygaslightinGovan · 15/09/2026 16:07

Well now I'm offended at the brand Fat Face 😒

Beat me to it !

Purplepinkandpaper · 15/09/2026 16:39

Just asked my mum, who is blind, and she doesn’t like the name and wouldn’t buy a ‘blind box’ product. I am partially sighted and feel the same.

UnctuousUnicorns · 15/09/2026 16:37

Wtafdidido · 15/09/2026 16:33

If not we all so little to worry about. Catch a grip.

Believe me, I fucking wish I had that little to fret about! 🤷‍♀️

Wtafdidido · 15/09/2026 16:33

If not we all so little to worry about. Catch a grip.

Change2banon · 15/09/2026 16:32

Backedoffhackedoff · 15/09/2026 16:19

Just because there are other uses of the word blind doesn’t mean they shouldn’t be reviewed.

you could say black sheep is ok, because we use black in many other contexts. There is nuance.

plus, things like blind fold blind date etc are hardly “new”- they can be inappropriate and still in common usage, many words are

I genuinely don’t understand what you’re trying to say here.
Black sheep - is an actual living thing.
Blindfold - an actual thing
Blind date - a term still used, and not offensive imo

Would you rather I say “oh look at that non white sheep in the field?
Should I say “let’s put on this eye covering made of cloth” at a children’s party when playing pin the tail on the donkey?
Me: I’m going on a date with someone I have never met before and do not know.
Friend: oh you mean a blind date?
Me: no, not a blind date, I am not visually impaired. I just don’t know the man.
Friend: (confused) oh, so it is a blind date then.

BillieWiper · 15/09/2026 16:31

Backedoffhackedoff · 15/09/2026 16:19

Just because there are other uses of the word blind doesn’t mean they shouldn’t be reviewed.

you could say black sheep is ok, because we use black in many other contexts. There is nuance.

plus, things like blind fold blind date etc are hardly “new”- they can be inappropriate and still in common usage, many words are

Why isn't black sheep ok? It means you stand out as different in an homogenous group where to do so can be a disadvantage. Unless you're trying to say the expression really means 'black person' and it's being used as a racist insult?!

Jacopo · 15/09/2026 16:31

You need to acquire some resilience, OP.

UnctuousUnicorns · 15/09/2026 16:28

TheGrimSqueakersFlea · 15/09/2026 15:51

How do you feel about blind baking? Is that offensive?

I wondered how long it would be before that was mentioned! 😅

This thread's a bit lame, tbh. (Posted from my wheelchair.) 😉 🧑‍🦽

ElizabethNatalie · 15/09/2026 16:28

ExistWHY · 15/09/2026 16:03

How about blind date, blind drunk, blind stupid, blind bastard, in the blind, going in blind, im sure there is more.

How can you get offended over a word.

Of course you can, and should, get offended by a word. Or rather, not a word, but the connotations it has. Think of words associated with racism as a prime example. Additionally, language evolves and changes so what wasn't offensive 50 years ago is now. And I'm sure in 50 years people will look back aghast. In this instance, I'm personally not offended, but I accept some people might be. Fair play. I'm not offended that they are offended.

daisyydaisyy · 15/09/2026 16:28

You sound completely fucking batshit, op.

Backedoffhackedoff · 15/09/2026 16:27

QwestSprout · 15/09/2026 16:25

The term 'blind box' has been around since 2006 to refer to a sealed package with mystery contents. Perhaps you missed the proliferation of them in the shops in the last few years.

I imagine that’s the point- language from 20 years ago is often considered inappropriate now.

parakeet · 15/09/2026 16:26

Get a life

QwestSprout · 15/09/2026 16:25

The term 'blind box' has been around since 2006 to refer to a sealed package with mystery contents. Perhaps you missed the proliferation of them in the shops in the last few years.

TimetoPour · 15/09/2026 16:24

It depends. Are you:
A) blind and offended
B) a busybody who has taken up offence of behalf of the visually impaired community?

Thatcannotberight · 15/09/2026 16:23

runnerducky · 15/09/2026 15:52

Just as well Cilla is no longer with us.

We could have had a mash up of Surprise Surprise Date. 😄

TallulahBetty · 15/09/2026 16:22

I assume you only have curtains on your windows??

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