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AIBU to find this name offensive?

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Snowleopardsspots · 15/09/2026 15:46

Blindness is a serious disability. Not some word to be chucked around for marketing attention. There are a lot of other words that could have been used - mystery box, suprise box.

AIBU to find this name offensive?
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Portmore · 15/09/2026 18:11

TimetoPour · 15/09/2026 16:24

It depends. Are you:
A) blind and offended
B) a busybody who has taken up offence of behalf of the visually impaired community?

A blind or visually impaired person would know not to exclude other blind or visually impaired people from understanding their post by posting an image with no alt-text. 😉

All the blind & visually impaired people will be struggling to understand what OP is talking about.

Alt-text is added to images so screen read software can tell a blind or visually impaired person what the image shows.

Mumsnet does not currently have an alt-text function but a description can be added to the post.

Example Alt - text for my image :

[Image shows a small pale cream coloured Labrador- retriever cross puppy wearing a blue collar with the words guide dogs and the guide dogs association logo ]

AIBU to find this name offensive?
oldFoolMe · 15/09/2026 18:02

I cam understand what you’re saying and how language can be inappropriate. Look at development- slave and master for example. Its good to call out the language but not only m&s.

Portmore · 15/09/2026 18:02

RobinEllacotStrike · 15/09/2026 16:59

don't we use "visually impaired" for those with eyesight issues now anyway?

Some people are visually impaired & some are blind. They are both disabilities but not the same thing.

Portmore · 15/09/2026 17:58

If you were genuinely concerned about blind & visually impaired people on here you would have included alt-text on your image. 😉

You can use the word 'blind' to mean other things as long as it's not derogatory. Same as saying to a blind person 'do you see what I mean?' Neither are discriminatory or exclude blind & visually impaired people.

But posting pictures with no alt-text excludes blind & visually impaired people from understanding your post 😉

HelpMeGetThrough · 15/09/2026 17:48

TheGrimSqueakersFlea · 15/09/2026 15:51

How do you feel about blind baking? Is that offensive?

I do that often.

I’m completely blind in one eye and the others on the way out.

purpleme12 · 15/09/2026 17:47

NoName47 · 15/09/2026 17:06

This has to be a piss take?

That's what I thought too

ilovepixie · 15/09/2026 17:45

runnerducky · 15/09/2026 15:52

Just as well Cilla is no longer with us.

😂😂

Backedoffhackedoff · 15/09/2026 17:36

BugJuice · 15/09/2026 17:30

It’s not necessarily about the language used, it’s about the words used on the packaging itself.

Yes this. People might refer to them as blind bags/ box’s but that isn’t what they’re called, usually.

i just searched smyths toy store and although you can search blind box the returned products are actually called mystery boxes as below

AIBU to find this name offensive?
UniquePinkSwan · 15/09/2026 17:36

This can’t be real. I really hope not

sunshine314 · 15/09/2026 17:30

What offends me is having to buy loads in order to get the one that I actually want. This is unusual in that they don't usually have the words on them. You just find out when you open one and get only one, then you'll know what it is.

But seriously, why is it so offensive? Is describing stuff offensive? Like "a small bag", well I'm small so should I go off my rocker now? Because you're discriminating between small and big things or whatnot.

BugJuice · 15/09/2026 17:30

MiggyWoods · 15/09/2026 17:01

Blind bags is normal language

I've never heard it and I've been around since Dick's days.
My gc have mystery bags or surprise bags. Never heard of a blind bag.
That's not to say I don't believe it's used.
Maybe some people just use more selective language.

It’s not necessarily about the language used, it’s about the words used on the packaging itself.

PinkyFlamingo · 15/09/2026 17:29

runnerducky · 15/09/2026 15:52

Just as well Cilla is no longer with us.

😂😂

hattie43 · 15/09/2026 17:29

Catapultaway · 15/09/2026 16:04

Dont worry, doubt they'll see it.

See what you did there 🤣

I think it sounds quite American but I’ve no idea why . I do think it’s odd and I would not automatically think it’s a mystery box .

sunshine314 · 15/09/2026 17:27

And... no reply from the poster.

ItsNotMeEither · 15/09/2026 17:24

What about double blind medical trials? Are these offensive too? What if they're researching something that could assist people with sight issues? Sort of like the blind (trial) saving the blind,

OneFineDay22 · 15/09/2026 17:23

Blindness is a disability, but the word “blind” does not only refer to the disabled. A blind bend, for example, is a correct use of the word that does not refer to blindness as a disability, but simply a human being’s inability to see around it. The same applies here. No one (blind or otherwise) can see inside the box before purchase.

SquidgyPudge · 15/09/2026 17:21

Blind boxes are all over the place for things these days, toys, figurines, anything collectible really. I assume it's an Instagram thingummybob. I'm not sure how it can conceivably be construed as offensive. Blind can mean a person who is unable to see but it also means unseen. So when you buy a blind box, it means you are taking pot luck as to which figurine you are going to get. It's also a noun, an adjective, a verb and an adverb... So many uses, it is NOT offensive.

And I say that as someone who has just been diagnosed with an eye problem that means I am very likely to be going blind at some point.

IsadoraQuagmire · 15/09/2026 17:18

Go on, give them some blind justice

IsadoraQuagmire · 15/09/2026 17:18

daisyydaisyy · 15/09/2026 16:28

You sound completely fucking batshit, op.

Or blind as a bat

alcovecupboards · 15/09/2026 17:09

I rather suspect the blind won't be the least bit offended.

NoName47 · 15/09/2026 17:06

This has to be a piss take?

MiggyWoods · 15/09/2026 17:04

I've just had some blinds installed

There's a very old joke I fell out of my pram laughing at that you probably all know. Were you in the bath?

SleeplessRoads · 15/09/2026 17:03

MiggyWoods · 15/09/2026 17:01

Blind bags is normal language

I've never heard it and I've been around since Dick's days.
My gc have mystery bags or surprise bags. Never heard of a blind bag.
That's not to say I don't believe it's used.
Maybe some people just use more selective language.

I think Blind Box is the more commonly used term than Blind Bag (although obviously it’s the same concept).

I think the phenomenon has taken off in popularity more recently, but it is definitely the established term for a mystery box (which would be the other common thing to call
this).

RobinEllacotStrike · 15/09/2026 17:02

do you have blinds in your windows? Are you offended by made to order blinds?

What about blind spots?

MiggyWoods · 15/09/2026 17:01

Blind bags is normal language

I've never heard it and I've been around since Dick's days.
My gc have mystery bags or surprise bags. Never heard of a blind bag.
That's not to say I don't believe it's used.
Maybe some people just use more selective language.