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To think we can't afford the triple lock

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paddleboardingmum · 15/09/2026 08:47

Things seem very weighted against young people right now in terms of tax, student loans, and then there's the cost of mortgages and childcare. I know there are some older people struggling and I do feel sorry for them. But plenty are not and I think we just can't afford the triple lock at the moment. AIBU

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EvieBB · 16/09/2026 15:34

ZombieZebra · 16/09/2026 11:06

I think it should be mandatory for people to pay into a work’s pension and no opting out. I started paying into my Civil Service pension at 18 and now have 24 years of a defined benefit pension (currently at SEO level)

People can’t expect the government to pick up the pieces when they don’t bother to save for their retirement. I’m looking at the state pension being a nice top up to my DB pension rather than my only income.

Disclaimer- I’m fully aware that I’m living in cloud cuckoo land and it would be impossible to stop people from leaving the schemes. Maybe what would be better is having proper pension education in school so young people realise the importance of preparing for your old age.

To add to that, no we can’t afford the triple lock. We’re getting to the point where there aren’t enough workers to support the elderly and the work shy. There needs to be a bigger drive to get people back to work. If Paul Alexander could work as an attorney whilst being confined to an iron lung, there’s a job for most people.

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I'm in my early 50s. I started paying in to a pension scheme at 21.....then worked many years part time due to health issues and 13 yrs not in paid employment as I was bringing up my DC plus delayed my return to work due to health issues, so even though it was in my mind early on things don't always pan out as expected unfortunately 🫤
Life hasn't been straightforward.

Thelonelyshrew · 16/09/2026 15:30

LadyGardenersQuestionTime · 15/09/2026 10:37

I’m a pensioner and agree it’s time for the triple lock to go.

The triple lock has done its work; it was bought in to bring pensions up after years of decline and that’s been achieved. We do have modest private pensions as well as our state pensions, but that’s the norm nowadays.

(In fact all those concessions for OAPs should probably be knocked on the head too - i really don’t need a discount at the cinema).

In the past couple of years I’ve given my state pension increase and my winter fuel allowance (which REALLY REALLY needs to go, they should have held their ground on that one) to my adult kids. They need it far more than I do.

Well I’m all right Jack!

Everanewbie · 16/09/2026 15:28

Yetone · 16/09/2026 15:23

@Everanewbie
You will only have a top 3% lifestyle if you earn in the top 0.5% of salary or come from a rich family. You can be young or old but wealth is made of earned salary plus what is given to you.

Yes I agree. But presumably we want an upwardly mobile working population, rather than based solely on generational wealth? This isn't a science here, I am trying to illustrate why the middle classes feel squeezed, and why state pension at age 67 is not the same as £100k earners trying to bring up a family.

Everanewbie · 16/09/2026 15:26

Differentforgirls · 16/09/2026 15:20

He hardly lives a basic lifestyle. He's in Australia on a four week holiday with a wee week in NZ as he's a LOTR fanatic. He just prioritises.

Maybe I should have been more specific. His housing costs are low because he has bought a low value property, and has considerable disposable income as a result. Do you really think many £100k earners have £70k mortgages? Is it fair to expect the most successful to live like that?

So your son priorities other things than providing a comfortable home for his family. What does that prove? A millionaire shops at Aldi, so why the hell should anyone treat themselves to anything from Marks and Spencer? Just send it all pensioners way instead.

Yetone · 16/09/2026 15:23

@Everanewbie
You will only have a top 3% lifestyle if you earn in the top 0.5% of salary or come from a rich family. You can be young or old but wealth is made of earned salary plus what is given to you.

RedToothBrush · 16/09/2026 15:21

Imdunfer · 16/09/2026 15:08

Plenty of money?

I'm not sure you've noticed that we owe £3 trillion and are paying over £110 billion in interest on that every year.

3 trillion is 3,000 billion. A surplus of 50 billion a year somewhere isn't even going to dent it, it would take three best part of a century to pay it off at that rate even if we stopped borrowing more, which we can't unless we cut spending or find private sector growth.

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There's no money left.

Worse we don't have enough energy either.

Differentforgirls · 16/09/2026 15:20

Everanewbie · 16/09/2026 15:16

Yes, but you keep thinking of people that you know, not the situation hundreds of others find themselves in. Your son either lives in a very low value property or had a chunk of it paid off somehow. Fine, some people choose to live a basic lifestyle. But I don't think it is unreasonable for a top 3% earner to live a top 3% lifestyle.

And for the record, I quote south of England, not South East. This incorporates Wessex, Cornwall, Sussex, Kent and so on. I'm not talking central London here.

I know of dirt poor people, and people with more money than I could spend in 10 lifestyles, but I can't use those examples to extrapolate absolutely to wide economic trends.

He hardly lives a basic lifestyle. He's in Australia on a four week holiday with a wee week in NZ as he's a LOTR fanatic. He just prioritises.

Everanewbie · 16/09/2026 15:16

Differentforgirls · 16/09/2026 15:10

You're not getting it. My son (30) earns £97.5k. Don't know what his partner earns as I've never asked. But about £38k as she works for a charity for disabled adults.

They are loaded.

They have a mortgage of £70k.

We don't all live in the SE of England which, according to this forum, is a shithole.

But guess what? They don't look down on people who rely on benefits.

Yes, but you keep thinking of people that you know, not the situation hundreds of others find themselves in. Your son either lives in a very low value property or had a chunk of it paid off somehow. Fine, some people choose to live a basic lifestyle. But I don't think it is unreasonable for a top 3% earner to live a top 3% lifestyle.

And for the record, I quote south of England, not South East. This incorporates Wessex, Cornwall, Sussex, Kent and so on. I'm not talking central London here.

I know of dirt poor people, and people with more money than I could spend in 10 lifestyles, but I can't use those examples to extrapolate absolutely to wide economic trends.

frozendaisy · 16/09/2026 15:15

A chunk of debt was from COVID shutdown to protect largely the older generations. They seem to have forgotten this.

Yetone · 16/09/2026 15:15

Differentforgirls · 16/09/2026 15:10

You're not getting it. My son (30) earns £97.5k. Don't know what his partner earns as I've never asked. But about £38k as she works for a charity for disabled adults.

They are loaded.

They have a mortgage of £70k.

We don't all live in the SE of England which, according to this forum, is a shithole.

But guess what? They don't look down on people who rely on benefits.

Just to tell you SE England is not a shithole. Parts of it are lovely. Some parts are bad but so are a lot of other places outside of the SE, a few places spring to mind.

Differentforgirls · 16/09/2026 15:13

Imdunfer · 16/09/2026 14:54

Why do you find facts about tax and who/what pays for public services offensive?

I don't.

frozendaisy · 16/09/2026 15:13

Idontpostmuch · 16/09/2026 13:52

@frozendaisy You're making the mistake of lumping all 'boomers' together. It goes all the way to end of 1964. I'm technically a 'boomer'. When I finished education unemployment was very high, although those graduating a decade earlier had their pick of the jobs. My children didn't get free university education. Nor did my sister's and brother's children, and my siblings are a decade older than me. It's only the very oldest boomers, those born in 40s or at a push very early 50s whose children weren't charged fees. And yes, we did get free university, but there were far fewer university places. Many people of my age just couldn't go to university at all. At least it's much more widely available now.

No I am talking about anyone who is complaining about the state pension and how it should be more because “could you live on £1k a month?” crowd, which the answer is yes, wouldn’t want to, but that is why I am financially planning not to.

The state pension is enough. To heat a 1/2 bedroom place, food, bills and a bit more. If you want to live bigger you need to provide that yourself. It’s not like the state pension and what it can provide is a surprise.

It’s about average to what one person has to live on.

Yetone · 16/09/2026 15:11

Badbadbunny · 16/09/2026 14:50

Yes, but Uni is more widely available because huge numbers of jobs/careers/professions have become graduate only entry. Don't blame youngsters for that. They're just dealing with the hand they've been dealt. Back in the 70s/80s, you could get a good office job with prospects with a handful of O levels, and a professional training job (banking, accountancy, etc) with 3 A levels. Nowadays, try that! Even basic office jobs are often graduate entry, as is most public sector work, i.e. nursing, teaching, social workers, etc etc.

Is this a chicken or egg situation? Maybe employers are asking for degrees because so many go to university.
Personally, I think people are potty to go to university unless they are academic with good A levels or their degree leads directly to a job that they want.
No wonder people are paying off their loans for ages.

Differentforgirls · 16/09/2026 15:10

Everanewbie · 16/09/2026 14:48

I don't think comparing state pension and salaries of £100k+ is comparing apples with apples.

Firstly, a salary is earned; you are paid an agreed compensation for your labour, skills and expertise. That is not the same as receiving an allowance from the government.

Secondly, those who complain of £100k+ not going that far is in response to an assumption that this is a huge amount of money. The percentage of workers who earn £125,000 or more is 3%, the monthly take home is £6,504., yet the 97th centile house is £680,000. A 95% mortgage on that would cost c. £3,500 pm leaving £3,000 to cover childcare (free hours lost at this salary point), food, council tax, insurance, clothing etc. etc. So, in short, the top 3% of earners can't afford to live like their achievements suggest they should due to property prices childcare, and a tax system that has not taken into account inflation, sneakily using boiled frog tactics to relieve medium to higher earners of their wages.

Thirdly, state pension is what is provided as a starting point. It should be enough to live on. But it shouldn't be, and no one should be under the illusion that it will be, any more than an amount to live a basic day to day existence. If you want more than that, save.

You're not getting it. My son (30) earns £97.5k. Don't know what his partner earns as I've never asked. But about £38k as she works for a charity for disabled adults.

They are loaded.

They have a mortgage of £70k.

We don't all live in the SE of England which, according to this forum, is a shithole.

But guess what? They don't look down on people who rely on benefits.

Imdunfer · 16/09/2026 15:08

GarlicSomething · 16/09/2026 15:01

In March 2025, the balance in the NI fund was £79.3 billion, significantly above the required minimum working balance of £24.2 billion. This situation occurs year after year. As at March 2024 the balance was £86.4 billion and as at March 2023, £72.9 billion.

Over the years, various ways have been found to raid the NI Fund, including scrapping a large annual Treasury supplement and by making a regular contribution to the running of the NHS. Despite these attempts to suppress the amounts available for benefits and the state pension, there is a regular annual surplus well in excess of the recommended working balance.

There's money. This constant refrain about lack of funds is ageist bullshit, part of a general drive to set different sectors of the population against one another. Don't fall for it.

Plenty of money?

I'm not sure you've noticed that we owe £3 trillion and are paying over £110 billion in interest on that every year.

3 trillion is 3,000 billion. A surplus of 50 billion a year somewhere isn't even going to dent it, it would take three best part of a century to pay it off at that rate even if we stopped borrowing more, which we can't unless we cut spending or find private sector growth.

Idontpostmuch · 16/09/2026 15:08

Badbadbunny · 16/09/2026 14:50

Yes, but Uni is more widely available because huge numbers of jobs/careers/professions have become graduate only entry. Don't blame youngsters for that. They're just dealing with the hand they've been dealt. Back in the 70s/80s, you could get a good office job with prospects with a handful of O levels, and a professional training job (banking, accountancy, etc) with 3 A levels. Nowadays, try that! Even basic office jobs are often graduate entry, as is most public sector work, i.e. nursing, teaching, social workers, etc etc.

Nobody blaming anyone. Everyone dealing with hand dealt, whatever age. Just pointing out that every age group has different advantages. Many more young people these days have the privilege and fun of going to university. Yes 70s jobs easy to get. You could leave a job Fri and start another Mon. Things got progressively harder. Those graduating mid 80s had much harder time. Most of us did over 100 applications and had many unsuccessful interviews. When I did get a job after 18 months of trying it was an ordinary office job despite a degree and post grad secretarial qualification.

Everanewbie · 16/09/2026 15:07

Everanewbie · 16/09/2026 14:48

I don't think comparing state pension and salaries of £100k+ is comparing apples with apples.

Firstly, a salary is earned; you are paid an agreed compensation for your labour, skills and expertise. That is not the same as receiving an allowance from the government.

Secondly, those who complain of £100k+ not going that far is in response to an assumption that this is a huge amount of money. The percentage of workers who earn £125,000 or more is 3%, the monthly take home is £6,504., yet the 97th centile house is £680,000. A 95% mortgage on that would cost c. £3,500 pm leaving £3,000 to cover childcare (free hours lost at this salary point), food, council tax, insurance, clothing etc. etc. So, in short, the top 3% of earners can't afford to live like their achievements suggest they should due to property prices childcare, and a tax system that has not taken into account inflation, sneakily using boiled frog tactics to relieve medium to higher earners of their wages.

Thirdly, state pension is what is provided as a starting point. It should be enough to live on. But it shouldn't be, and no one should be under the illusion that it will be, any more than an amount to live a basic day to day existence. If you want more than that, save.

To add to this, the 97th centile house price in the South of England (I originally quoted the whole of the UK) is £1.25million. So a 97th centile earner, without a large capital injection, cannot afford a 97th centile home. That is mental.

RedToothBrush · 16/09/2026 15:02

Honestly. I suspect 'events' will make multiple generational living much more common, whether anyone likes it or not. Pensions are going to shrink. Regardless of generation. I think there's some people in their 50s who are very much going to regret doing so.

One way or another there's going to end up being a massive rethinking of pensions as we know them. It's not working and it's going to break sooner rather than later as a system.

GarlicSomething · 16/09/2026 15:01

In March 2025, the balance in the NI fund was £79.3 billion, significantly above the required minimum working balance of £24.2 billion. This situation occurs year after year. As at March 2024 the balance was £86.4 billion and as at March 2023, £72.9 billion.

Over the years, various ways have been found to raid the NI Fund, including scrapping a large annual Treasury supplement and by making a regular contribution to the running of the NHS. Despite these attempts to suppress the amounts available for benefits and the state pension, there is a regular annual surplus well in excess of the recommended working balance.

There's money. This constant refrain about lack of funds is ageist bullshit, part of a general drive to set different sectors of the population against one another. Don't fall for it.

janet1956 · 16/09/2026 14:59

😰i dont think so the thing that has throttled the economy is the illegal being welcomed by labour who seem to want them here

frozendaisy · 16/09/2026 14:59

Pepperlee · 16/09/2026 11:50

Who's complaining? That'll be the OP and those agreeing with them. The whingers and moaners on here aren't the pensioners. Some are defending their lot and some have a different POV.

Actually the pensioners think they should get minimum wage payments because they were so clever buying a cheap house they thought retirement would be equally lucrative with very little input.

Or the ones wanting to stay in 4 bed houses living alone and think their council tax should be less for just them, because they like and need the services, because they only have the state pension and that, without saving into a personal pension, seems to be a great surprise. But all the young generations should just “try better”.
God those ones are tedious.

The UK pension is about middle because we pay in about middle.

Idontpostmuch · 16/09/2026 14:56

Beece · 16/09/2026 14:52

On the contrary many accountancy firms prefer to take school leavers than uni leavers on their accountancy training programs these days.

Yes DH works for accountancy firm. They take around 50% A levels and 50% graduates.

Imdunfer · 16/09/2026 14:55

Badbadbunny · 16/09/2026 14:54

No, it's for anyone ONLY in receipt of state pension. If you already have another pension or other income, I strongly suspect the personal allowance will be the same as for everyone else. It would be grossly unfair and unacceptable for pensioners to have a higher personal allowance if they have other taxable income. The whole point of a higher personal allowance (or similar exemption) for those ONLY with state pension is to save the time/hassle/admin of HMRC sending them bills each year for a few pounds of tax. No point at all in giving a higher personal allowance for those whose tax affairs are already more complex, i.e. other pensions, investment income etc., who are already either submitting self assessment tax returns or receiving annual tax demands.

I thought it was odd and didn't see how they could make it work.

Imdunfer · 16/09/2026 14:54

Differentforgirls · 16/09/2026 10:57

Your post was offensive either way.

Why do you find facts about tax and who/what pays for public services offensive?

Badbadbunny · 16/09/2026 14:54

Imdunfer · 16/09/2026 14:50

That's not what they said last night.

At the moment I pay tax because my private and my personal pension are over the tax allowance.

What the news item said was that the £13k pension will be income tax free, implying effectively that £13k becomes the new tax allowance for anyone in receipt of a state pension.

I assumed that's how been clarified.

Which makes the failure to raise the tax allowance even more of a travesty than it was.

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No, it's for anyone ONLY in receipt of state pension. If you already have another pension or other income, I strongly suspect the personal allowance will be the same as for everyone else. It would be grossly unfair and unacceptable for pensioners to have a higher personal allowance if they have other taxable income. The whole point of a higher personal allowance (or similar exemption) for those ONLY with state pension is to save the time/hassle/admin of HMRC sending them bills each year for a few pounds of tax. No point at all in giving a higher personal allowance for those whose tax affairs are already more complex, i.e. other pensions, investment income etc., who are already either submitting self assessment tax returns or receiving annual tax demands.

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