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AIBU to think of course all the anti-trans posts on this website and others are leading to real life harm?

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helpfulucy · 14/09/2026 15:39

Just seen a video of a trans woman minding her business in a train station getting horribly bullied by some Tommy Robinson wanna-be and couldn't help but think back to all the aggressive threads I've seen on Mumsnet.

Pages and pages of vilifying innocent trans people, calling them perverts and all sorts with zero evidence of anything of the sort of course would lead to people like this harassing and attacking trans people in public. I've see a few of so-called GC brigade say 'this isn't what we wanted' but it is the end, isn't it? If you do see trans people as disgusting abusive perverts trying to sneak into your changing rooms and hurt your daughter, you'd want them to be bashed in public yeah?

Am I wrong to think their chickens are coming home to roost and certain posters will want to claim they never had a hand in it all?

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Gloriia · 15/09/2026 17:23

Ereshkigalangcleg · 15/09/2026 17:22

“But please read my important book about the far right and how you’re all being manipulated by bad men, I just want the best for you”

Grin
AmberTigerEyes · 15/09/2026 17:23

Gloriia · 15/09/2026 17:17

It's easy and a bit lazy to claim you've seen hate on here without evidence. You haven't, perhaps a tra posted crap like that pretending they were a regular mumsnetter but it would be deleted and they'd be banned

Posters on here don't want men in women only spaces. That it.

It’s public knowledge that mumsnet has had problems with hate speech.
I am not some random making a spurious claim.
It’s even in published scientific studies and numerous books.

Or you can go to other parts of MN where mumsnetters openly discuss the hate speech they have come across on here.

But anyway take the book recommendation or leave it.

Gloriia · 15/09/2026 17:22

'Why should I take screenshots?'

Just c&p, whatever. If you make wild offensive claims it just looks daft if you can't back of up.

Do you really think men should access women only areas?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 15/09/2026 17:22

“But please read my important book about the far right and how you’re all being manipulated by bad men, I just want the best for you”

Letterleaf · 15/09/2026 17:21

I’ll just leave this here. 14yr old girl raped in a public toilet by a transgender policeman

www.dailymail.com/news/article-16132895/German-transgender-policewoman-rapes-14-year-old-girl-stash-child-porn.html

Ereshkigalangcleg · 15/09/2026 17:20

AmberTigerEyes · 15/09/2026 17:19

Why should I take screenshots?

I know you’re just in deny deny deny, nothing to see here, we are just harmless women except the bad actors posting harmful stuff that we can’t be held responsible for…oops. Cancelled out the denial that it never happened.

The Swiss cheese appearance of threads as well as threads deleted for these kinds of posts is public knowledge. There is no point pretending otherwise.

Don’t be ridiculous, people, including TRAs get deleted frequently for incivility and troll hunting, obviously.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 15/09/2026 17:19

Gloriia · 15/09/2026 17:17

It's easy and a bit lazy to claim you've seen hate on here without evidence. You haven't, perhaps a tra posted crap like that pretending they were a regular mumsnetter but it would be deleted and they'd be banned

Posters on here don't want men in women only spaces. That it.

Its the easiest thing in the world to make shit up without backing it up.

AmberTigerEyes · 15/09/2026 17:19

Ereshkigalangcleg · 15/09/2026 17:16

We haven’t. You’d best take a screenshot next time, hadn’t you? And in all the years these accusations have been made, no one seems to have managed to do so 🤔

Why should I take screenshots?

I know you’re just in deny deny deny, nothing to see here, we are just harmless women except the bad actors posting harmful stuff that we can’t be held responsible for…oops. Cancelled out the denial that it never happened.

The Swiss cheese appearance of threads as well as threads deleted for these kinds of posts is public knowledge. There is no point pretending otherwise.

Gloriia · 15/09/2026 17:17

AmberTigerEyes · 15/09/2026 17:14

I’m sure you have.

It's easy and a bit lazy to claim you've seen hate on here without evidence. You haven't, perhaps a tra posted crap like that pretending they were a regular mumsnetter but it would be deleted and they'd be banned

Posters on here don't want men in women only spaces. That it.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 15/09/2026 17:17

AmberTigerEyes · 15/09/2026 17:16

Lol, like I take screen shots of posts. Who does that? Absolutely mental to expect that.

Why would you think I am holding anyone responsible for bad actor posts on MN? I’m not. But thanks for admitting that some problematic posts existed and could cause harm.

I didn’t admit anything, it’s your claim. I was giving the benefit of the doubt but likewise, thanks for that admission.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 15/09/2026 17:16

Shedmistress · 15/09/2026 17:15

I thought it was the NSPCC that bottled it?

Lots of people did!

DeanElderberry · 15/09/2026 17:16

AmberTigerEyes · 15/09/2026 17:11

I have seen posts that have said trans people are all pedophiles and the gender ideology is a conspiracy to make sex between adults and children legal. I have seen posts mocking and celebrating when a trans child is murdered with comments that most certainly would have caused harm. I have seen posts that have called for mass detention and imprisonment in camps of trans people. I have seen posts that advise child abuse when a child is questioning their identity instead of educating them.

On Mumsnet? I find it very hard to believe anything like that would have survived for longer than a few minutes, even if posted in the middle of the night.

AmberTigerEyes · 15/09/2026 17:16

Ereshkigalangcleg · 15/09/2026 17:13

Not by regular posters you haven’t. Screenshots please, or I don’t believe you. No FWR regular says those things. We can’t be held responsible for bad actors, who exist everywhere.

Lol, like I take screen shots of posts. Who does that? Absolutely mental to expect that.

Why would you think I am holding anyone responsible for bad actor posts on MN? I’m not. But thanks for admitting that some problematic posts existed and could cause harm.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 15/09/2026 17:16

We haven’t. You’d best take a screenshot next time, hadn’t you? And in all the years these accusations have been made, no one seems to have managed to do so 🤔

Shedmistress · 15/09/2026 17:15

Ereshkigalangcleg · 15/09/2026 17:14

Im not sure dear Stella actually did the webchat in the end, ISTR she bottled it and cancelled.

I thought it was the NSPCC that bottled it?

DizzyWhoreEighteenHundredAndFour · 15/09/2026 17:15

AmberTigerEyes · 15/09/2026 17:11

I have seen posts that have said trans people are all pedophiles and the gender ideology is a conspiracy to make sex between adults and children legal. I have seen posts mocking and celebrating when a trans child is murdered with comments that most certainly would have caused harm. I have seen posts that have called for mass detention and imprisonment in camps of trans people. I have seen posts that advise child abuse when a child is questioning their identity instead of educating them.

Not on MN, you haven't.

AmberTigerEyes · 15/09/2026 17:14

Gloriia · 15/09/2026 17:14

It's incredible isn't it. None of us have seen it! It's almost as if it's made up..

I’m sure you have.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 15/09/2026 17:14

Shedmistress · 15/09/2026 17:12

Was that the same Stella Creasy webchat where a mother who spoke about the violence her daughter had at school from a boy was called 'just peer on peer' violence not 'violence against women and girls', the inference being it was just like 'banter' and harmless?

Im not sure dear Stella actually did the webchat in the end, ISTR she bottled it and cancelled.

AmberTigerEyes · 15/09/2026 17:14

DeanElderberry · 15/09/2026 17:11

The theory seems to be:

'I disagree with the women on MN on some subjects'.

'I disagree with KJK on some subjects'.

Therefore: 'the women on MN agree with KJK on all subjects'. Even though she does not post on MN and many of them never read her anywhere.

Why would you think that? The truth is that I just can’t be arsed to get up, crack open the book and give you a list of all the names.

Gloriia · 15/09/2026 17:14

ArabellaScott · 15/09/2026 17:12

What, on here?

It's incredible isn't it. None of us have seen it! It's almost as if it's made up..

ArabellaScott · 15/09/2026 17:13

AmberTigerEyes · 15/09/2026 17:12

Yes.

How weird. I'm on here a lot and have not seen any of this.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 15/09/2026 17:13

AmberTigerEyes · 15/09/2026 17:11

I have seen posts that have said trans people are all pedophiles and the gender ideology is a conspiracy to make sex between adults and children legal. I have seen posts mocking and celebrating when a trans child is murdered with comments that most certainly would have caused harm. I have seen posts that have called for mass detention and imprisonment in camps of trans people. I have seen posts that advise child abuse when a child is questioning their identity instead of educating them.

Not by regular posters you haven’t. Screenshots please, or I don’t believe you. No FWR regular says those things. We can’t be held responsible for bad actors, who exist everywhere.

spannasaurus · 15/09/2026 17:13

AmberTigerEyes · 15/09/2026 17:11

I have seen posts that have said trans people are all pedophiles and the gender ideology is a conspiracy to make sex between adults and children legal. I have seen posts mocking and celebrating when a trans child is murdered with comments that most certainly would have caused harm. I have seen posts that have called for mass detention and imprisonment in camps of trans people. I have seen posts that advise child abuse when a child is questioning their identity instead of educating them.

I've been on FWR for a good number of years and haven't seen posts as you describe. Could you link to some of the offending posts please

TheKeatingFive · 15/09/2026 17:13

AmberTigerEyes · 15/09/2026 17:11

I have seen posts that have said trans people are all pedophiles and the gender ideology is a conspiracy to make sex between adults and children legal. I have seen posts mocking and celebrating when a trans child is murdered with comments that most certainly would have caused harm. I have seen posts that have called for mass detention and imprisonment in camps of trans people. I have seen posts that advise child abuse when a child is questioning their identity instead of educating them.

You’ve seen those on here?

You know what they say. Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence …

Gloriia · 15/09/2026 17:13

AmberTigerEyes · 15/09/2026 17:11

I have seen posts that have said trans people are all pedophiles and the gender ideology is a conspiracy to make sex between adults and children legal. I have seen posts mocking and celebrating when a trans child is murdered with comments that most certainly would have caused harm. I have seen posts that have called for mass detention and imprisonment in camps of trans people. I have seen posts that advise child abuse when a child is questioning their identity instead of educating them.

And yet I haven't seen any of those posts.

I've just seen people repeatedly and patiently explain that men should not access women only areas regardless of how they dress.

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