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AIBU to think this is not a good idea?

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Summeriscumin · 14/09/2026 12:17

Bit of background.

We live in a village between two towns 5 miles to each one. All private housing. Some old cottages but most houses built in the 30s then a lot more in the 50s.

A lovely mix of people, very active church which houses lots of groups for hobbies or talks. Constantly in use.. Ratepayers association, also very active. Local councillors active and involved. Secondary school which does work in the community and a lovely primary school. Regular collections for the nearest foodbank. All in all a happy place with mainly friendly people. The sort of place where people say hello as they pass.

There has been trouble in both towns with teenagers on e-bikes and scooters causing trouble and occasionally they turn up here. They vandalised the wreaths on the war memorial last year and there was outrage. They have been seen on ring cameras trying car door handles and there have been a few more burglaries this year than last. They have churned up a farmer's field and the recreation park.

Sorry to be so longwinded. Yesterday a couple of well dressed middle aged men were knocking on all the doors and asking if we would be prepared to pay a weekly sum in order to hire a private security firm to patrol the village. In the evenings and possibly weekends. Neither DH nor I are keen on the idea and we politely declined. They asked if we would get involved if the majority of the neighbours did. DH said we'd have to think about it.

One of them had a clipboard with a long list of names already.

I don't think this is a very good idea, it feels oppressive and I'm very uncomfortable with the idea. Am I right to be?

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Summeriscumin · 14/09/2026 16:29

DH is going to have a chat to our close neighbours to see what they think. The replies on here have me changing my mind.

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Boomer55 · 14/09/2026 16:18

Lots of areas are offering this now. It does seem to act as a deterrent, although security can only contact the police (who never just walk around now). Depends if it’s useful to you.

Ablondiebutagoody · 14/09/2026 16:14

Waste of money. Local people should just get out on the streets together a bit more.

Fern26 · 14/09/2026 16:09

A relative has this down the road from them. There is a very wealthy area streets from them where they have hired a private security firm that patrols 24/7 certain streets.
I often see the vehicle driving around.

It has not stopped anything happening in the area. One of the houses in the road it goes down actually had a burglary last year (I know the owners of the house and know the details of what happened etc) I’m baffled any of the roads in it pay for the service when crime is still happening on their doorstep still.

TFImBackIn · 14/09/2026 16:07

Have to say I agree - do what you can now to stop it getting worse. I take my granddaughter to a park every week and there's a boy with a balaclava who rides round the park really fast. I've spoken to quite a few other women there and we all say we don't take a bag with us, don't use our phones in public, etc. It's crazy that one little prick is worrying a whole community.

HermioneWeasley · 14/09/2026 16:02

I would be signing up and not waiting until it gets worse.

and I wouldn’t care what tactics private security use on the little scroats

goodnessidontknow · 14/09/2026 16:00

It would be worth consulting with your local police as you certainly aren't the first place to consider private security. Barnham in West Sussex hired a private security firm in consultation with Arun DC when antisocial behaviour got out of hand there a few years back.

Summeriscumin · 14/09/2026 15:20

The police are very overstretched with the problems in the towns. We only see the PCSOs when they ticket parents parking badly for the schools.

The two chaps who came to the door are locals and said a security firm would be hired to patrol every evening in the first instance.

We have a ring doorbell but our drive is long and doesn't pick up movement in the lane.

I can see why some would think it a good idea but I don't think the situation is anywhere near bad enough at the moment.

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unsync · 14/09/2026 14:12

What have the Police suggested? Have they had any involvement? This is the sort of thing our Parish Council would be involved in to try to find a solution.

KenAddams · 14/09/2026 13:49

Him

AIBU to think this is not a good idea?
KenAddams · 14/09/2026 13:46

Sounds like they need big innis

SunshineAndFizz · 14/09/2026 13:38

Are they an ‘organised crime gang’ offering protection. Sounds like the plot of a gangster movie.

MrsBatshitRatshit · 14/09/2026 13:34

BitOutOfPractice · 14/09/2026 13:08

Who vets these people? What powers would they have? It sounds like vigilantism to me.

Assuming that they are in England/Wales, they would have exactly the same power of arrest as anyone else who is not a police officer (set out in section 24A of the Police and Criminal Evidence Act 1984, it's quite complicated). They would not have any special powers simply because they work for a firm with the word 'security' in its name, or because they wear a uniform.

BitOutOfPractice · 14/09/2026 13:08

Who vets these people? What powers would they have? It sounds like vigilantism to me.

nomas · 14/09/2026 13:06

I think there was a thread from someone who had a similar issue and someone said that the security firm would just drive around from time to time. So I don't think it was that great a service.

It sounds like you would paying money to protect the war memorial and local farmers. Not your job to support farmers,

I think you would be better off spending your money on front and back CCTV and a video doorbell that alerts you to movements. And a burglar alarm.

outerspacepotato · 14/09/2026 13:01

Sounds like a basic protection racket to me.

Maybe the young miscreants can get jobs as "enforcers".

HalzTangz · 14/09/2026 12:57

Where will the private security be located. If on the park or the farmers land then surely the council pays for the park, the farmer for his land.
But what will security actually do if these teenagers appear?
You would all be better to invest in ring doorbells so CCTV can capture the events happening to be provided to the police. A one off cost of a doorbell will be far cheaper than a monthly payment to a security firm

Oioiqueen · 14/09/2026 12:24

I'd want to get the local PCSOs involved first. I also live in a village and when we've had a spate of vandalism from the nearest town they were very effective and it stopped for a while. They were also well known and what was happening in our village was extra evidence and the lads in question were apprehended and charged.

What's a private security form going to do?