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To think banning fried eggs is a step too far?

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NameChanger2026 · 13/09/2026 23:24

Whilst I agree with most of this, what’s wrong with an egg in decent oil?

To think banning fried eggs is a step too far?
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ExistWHY · 14/09/2026 20:38

All i can think of are the eating disorders that will follow in a few years.
Some parents are over the top with healthy eating and now the schools.

I was always hungry as child because of this crap.

Strawberryfruitstarburst · 14/09/2026 20:24

Backedoffhackedoff · 14/09/2026 18:10

I agree with this. At the end of the day, we are targeting children because they are there, and they are vulnerable. A secondary school child will be able to eat whatever the hell they want at uni, or at work. We don’t tell anyone else what they should be eating.

yes childhood is a great opportunity to educate and embed habits.

But the reality is children’s bodies are best able to tolerate an unhealthy diet anyway. An 8 year old won’t suffer from being overweight the way a 75 year old will. An 8 year old won’t get blocked arteries or fatty liver from their diet. You only have them under state control for a short amount of time, and it is very unlikely to hold the sort of influence posters like to think it does

Oh my god are you serious? Do you know that obesity starts in the mind??? And can start with habits we form as children??

It’s really dangerous and hard to put a teenager on a diet due to the eating disorder risk, my main aim is to keep my 5 year old healthy so he doesn’t end up worry about weight in his teens and twenties etc.

Sunbringer · 14/09/2026 20:21

MumofCandR · 14/09/2026 05:43

I agree - it's cereal that should be completely banned, zero nutritional value and high in sugars( other than muesli and porridge)..

Zero? It has calories, B vitamins, is generally fortified with iron, folate, calcium. Certainly not 0 nutrition and modern cereals are far lower in sugars than the 90s.

Sunbringer · 14/09/2026 20:18

Hayley1256 · 13/09/2026 23:33

I don't think schools will be using good stuff quality eggs or decent oil. My D10 loves a Burford Buff fried in good quality olive oil or butter but that's not what a school would serve!

You shouldn’t fry in olive oil. It’s smoke point is too low no matter if it’s good quality or not. Cold pressed rapeseed is better for high heat’s.

Sunbringer · 14/09/2026 20:15

In isolation fried eggs are fine. But children aren’t eating in isolation - they’re eating in a wider dietary context and what studies show is that context is filled with too much fat, saturated fat and calories. So adding more oil and fats to their diet contributes to an unhealthy diet - especially as excessive unhealthy fats are risk increasers for diabetes and obesity.

Now, the other issue is acrolein and oxidised cholesterols. Acrolein: When oil hits its smoke point, glycerol breaks down into acrolein, a respiratory irritant found in smoke and burnt fat (it’s also a carcinogen!). OCs: LDL cholesterol that has been chemically damaged by free radicals, turning it into a highly inflammatory, artery‑injuring form called oxidised LDL (oxLDL).Both are present in fried eggs.

Backedoffhackedoff · 14/09/2026 20:06

chaosmaker · 14/09/2026 20:05

They still have to have kitchen staff to give the kids the crap they serve, surely?

You don’t need as many though do you?

chaosmaker · 14/09/2026 20:05

They still have to have kitchen staff to give the kids the crap they serve, surely?

Backedoffhackedoff · 14/09/2026 19:51

chaosmaker · 14/09/2026 19:45

I thought that several chefs proved that if it is cooked on site from scratch, it can be cheaper and far more nutritional. There was Jamie Oliver and Marcus Brigstock? in hospitals. It depends where you buy it. Outsourcing was a HUGE mistake.

This is absolutely not true. The main cost- 90% of the cost- is labour, and people working in kitchens and serving up food rather than industrial kitchens is hugely more expensive.

and in Jamie Oliver’s day (what was that, 20 years ago?) we didn’t even have minimum wage and recently increased NI.

chaosmaker · 14/09/2026 19:45

tamade · 14/09/2026 10:05

Just take a step back from the outrage and consider the bigger picture. The context.

School dinners and now breakfasts, (just like hospital food and catering in army barracks etc) are provided by service companies. To get the business they have to meet the decision makers' expectations and be cheaper than the opposition, to make money they have to provide the meals and services at below the quoted price. The net result is cheap processed food full of empty calories.

Now they are trying to regulate an issue which is baked into the(ir) cake.

I thought that several chefs proved that if it is cooked on site from scratch, it can be cheaper and far more nutritional. There was Jamie Oliver and Marcus Brigstock? in hospitals. It depends where you buy it. Outsourcing was a HUGE mistake.

WhisperingHi · 14/09/2026 18:18

DeafLeppard · 14/09/2026 17:40

Why? Schools aren’t the social care of last resort. Agree with minimum standards but this is ridiculous.

Because parents won’t. If parents did, schools wouldn’t have to.

Backedoffhackedoff · 14/09/2026 18:10

DeafLeppard · 14/09/2026 17:40

Why? Schools aren’t the social care of last resort. Agree with minimum standards but this is ridiculous.

I agree with this. At the end of the day, we are targeting children because they are there, and they are vulnerable. A secondary school child will be able to eat whatever the hell they want at uni, or at work. We don’t tell anyone else what they should be eating.

yes childhood is a great opportunity to educate and embed habits.

But the reality is children’s bodies are best able to tolerate an unhealthy diet anyway. An 8 year old won’t suffer from being overweight the way a 75 year old will. An 8 year old won’t get blocked arteries or fatty liver from their diet. You only have them under state control for a short amount of time, and it is very unlikely to hold the sort of influence posters like to think it does

Blocksfruity · 14/09/2026 18:06

Every few years different governments have a stab at this same trick. It's a quick easy vote winner to look like they care about kids wellbeing, but if you actually drill down into the changes it all falls apart. It's all about optics, the same as everything governments do over the last decade. So fed up of the fucking micro managing interfering twattery in this country.

Hiredgun · 14/09/2026 18:00

NameChanger2026 · 13/09/2026 23:24

Whilst I agree with most of this, what’s wrong with an egg in decent oil?

The worst thing about a fried egg is likely the forever chemicals in the non-stick pan that will likely be used.

But otherwise, eggs are phenomenal and I eat almost two dozen of them every week.

DeafLeppard · 14/09/2026 17:40

WhisperingHi · 14/09/2026 17:31

But they have to try.

Why? Schools aren’t the social care of last resort. Agree with minimum standards but this is ridiculous.

WhisperingHi · 14/09/2026 17:31

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 14/09/2026 08:45

I agree in principle but unless school meals are compulsory that isn't what will happen. Remember the mothers standing at the school railings passing burgers through to the teenagers refusing to eat Jamie Oliver's healthy school meals?

But they have to try.

illuminada · 14/09/2026 17:07

concertinacornflake · 14/09/2026 07:27

Packed lunches which are provided by parents.

Some schools police these, some don't. Speak to your school if you want a policy change.

I don’t need a policy change as my DD has a reasonably healthy lunch.
Sadly many others don’t.

Newname26 · 14/09/2026 16:00

marmitegirl01 · 14/09/2026 15:25

I don’t think a lot of parents know how poor school dinners are. Chicken drumsticks served to 4yr olds not cut off the bone, school dinners need to be at least a little child friendly and recognisable. Why can’t they have pizza or fish & chips on a Friday. Even if they do the portions are so small. 1/2 a jacket potato for an 11yr old who is bigger than some of the staff. Fruit cup was 2 slices of apple. But school can say they are having fruit!
The more restrictions put on the meals the more children ( who have to have school dinners as packed lunch has been removed) will just not eat. It’s not the right way forward.

Mine says school pizzas are disgusting.

But i do agree portions need to be appropriate, its daft giving tiny 4 year olds the same portions as an adult sized 12 year old.

Myblueclematis · 14/09/2026 16:00

We were brought up on the old traditional meals back in the 50s and 60s. Mum cooked from scratch, cottage pie, steak and kidney pie, chops, chicken roast, lots of casseroles and stews in the winter, rarely did we have anything fried. Vegetables were only ever seasonal nothing fancy and hardly any choice of what was available. I remember the first time mum bought a tin of Jolly Green Giant sweetcorn to try, we didn't like it so she never bought it again. I do eat it now though.

Our school dinners were on the same lines and vegetables were usually carrots, cabbage, butter beans (hated them at school) and brussels sprouts.

I quite liked school dinners as an infant and junior school kid but stopped having them when I was about 14 and went home for lunch instead.

Shatenoeuf · 14/09/2026 15:46

Breakfast clubs provide carby crap.

They generally offer long shelf live processed foods. Cheap cereals & bagels. Even when i need the before school childcare i give my DC breakfast at home first rather than the crap at breakfast club.

it would be much better if they offered boiled eggs, porridge. They dont as both involve cooking.

Boomer55 · 14/09/2026 15:33

CurlewKate · 14/09/2026 09:40

Isn’t it? I’ve never seen a submerged egg!

I just spray the bottom of the pan with that one cal spray for fried eggs. I cook scrambled eggs in butter, with a dash of cream. So, what’s better?

marmitegirl01 · 14/09/2026 15:25

I don’t think a lot of parents know how poor school dinners are. Chicken drumsticks served to 4yr olds not cut off the bone, school dinners need to be at least a little child friendly and recognisable. Why can’t they have pizza or fish & chips on a Friday. Even if they do the portions are so small. 1/2 a jacket potato for an 11yr old who is bigger than some of the staff. Fruit cup was 2 slices of apple. But school can say they are having fruit!
The more restrictions put on the meals the more children ( who have to have school dinners as packed lunch has been removed) will just not eat. It’s not the right way forward.

concertinacornflake · 14/09/2026 15:07

Campanulaceae · 14/09/2026 13:12

Why can't they use butter instead of oil?

Expensive, requires refrigeration plus low burning point.

Funnywonder · 14/09/2026 14:28

Call the eggs ‘pan fried’ instead of fried and all will be well😅😅

Strawberryfruitstarburst · 14/09/2026 14:06

Brightcrow · 14/09/2026 13:56

Unless the child is learning to cook, in which case great as meal planning is part and parcel of it, I don’t know what’s to be gained by asking a child to plan dinner or whatever and I think it’s good to learn that sometimes you are just given food without choice like if you’re a guest. Or if school meals were fewer but better quality choices then the child’s expectations of having choice would be less.

My child isn’t a guest though, he’s part of the family and he can be trusted to make sensible suggestions, so if I’m wondering what to cook and there is a choice and I’m not bothered about his answer then it’s perfectly fine to offer a choice.

I asked him this weekend if he wanted a roast or lamb casserole on Sunday and he chose casserole.

Brightcrow · 14/09/2026 14:04

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 14/09/2026 09:30

We were the same. However, my Mum had it easy because my brother and I would eat absolutely anything. My aunts (one on each side) cooked the same kind of things and were also producing good plain traditional Scottish food. In spite of this each of them had one child who was a very picky eater. The rest of us were baffled by it.

I would say asking your children what they want to eat is all part and parcel of saying things like 'Shall we go to the park now?' instead of 'Right, time to go to the park'. Endless questions and decisions offered, in marked contrast to the old days when parents just told children what to do.

I think you’ve expressed that very well comparing the asking and telling.