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Would you hang this in your house?

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Floofparty · 13/09/2026 14:41

My DH has inherited a framed certificate and medal which was presented to a relative in 1937 when she was a British army nurse. She was stationed in Spain when a German battleship was bombed and she helped care for the injured.

The medal was awarded to her by the German Red Cross with the approval of Adolf Hitler, and his name is very prominent on the certificate - it stands out more than any of the other text. Do you think it’s bad taste to hang this in our house, or is it merely an interesting piece of historical memorabilia?

YABU - guests may take offence or think it odd
YANBU - hang the frame

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Floofparty · 13/09/2026 18:49

ginasevern · 13/09/2026 18:13

It's a fascinating piece of history and the relative wasn't helping Nazi Germany, she was saving lives as was her calling as a nurse. But I don't think many people would get past the prominent signature of Adolph Hitler. I mean, you know. It would be like a certificate with Jimmy Saville's signature on it. It might be for the most virtuous of deeds but few people are going to consider that. It also depends how many visitors you have and how much time you want to devote to explanations.

It’s not signed by him. He’s just named as the approver. It’s signed by the head of the German Red Cross who was one of Queen Victoria’s grandsons.

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mtobrokeme · 13/09/2026 18:29

Well, actually if I was so inclined to hang this sort of thing in my home (which I’m not!) then yes I would. It is family history, I’m assuming she didn’t offer CPR to Hitler himself sending him on his way with a ‘high five’ and telling him to ‘go get em’, and was, as you’ve written, offering first aid to injured enemy soldiers. No, different to medics giving treatment to terrorists/murderers/rapists.

I love history, and this medal and certificate is history whether people like it or not.

Happyjoe · 13/09/2026 18:28

No, never on the wall but then not much makes it onto my walls. Family history is interesting, the Hitler stuff, well but I'd just not hang a medal on the wall regardless.

LovelyLassie · 13/09/2026 18:26

Yes I’d hang it up, she saved lives

Monty36 · 13/09/2026 18:24

Thegirlwhowent · 13/09/2026 18:18

I'd hang it. It's interesting and could lead to some good conversations. It's not showing support for Hitler or the Nazis and I don't understand why anyone would be offended.

It does. Everyone should know the history of Hitler and the Nazi party.
The only people who would hang such memorabilia would be supporters of both. And that assumption and impression given would be strong.
To say you do not understand why anyone would be offended is a joke surely? Or are you very ignorant ? Or a Nazi sympathiser. To man who murdered millions, gassed children, tortured many, experimented on them, disabled people of all nationalities and religions.
But you cannot understand why anyone would be offended. Such attitudes in themselves offend.

BeSharpHelper · 13/09/2026 18:24

A nurse shouldn’t discriminate or deny medical treatment for moral reasons. She was a good nurse and it’s an amazing piece of history . I would hang it somewhere , but maybe not anywhere where people could see it without knowing the context.

Theunamedcat · 13/09/2026 18:24

Its kind of like a thank you certificate? Historically fascinating

she saved Germans not all Germans were nazis and not all nazis are German

Sunbringer · 13/09/2026 18:20

I’d offer it to a museum or something. It’s neither of your medal to hang no matter whether it’s to taste or not

Annoyedbyhusband · 13/09/2026 18:20

No, there’s lots of things you can hang and display in your home but this one is a little too contentious. I would keep it, but not display it. I don’t display things like that anyway tbh. Maybe if I did collect and display lots of things all together then I might display it with all the other things. But as a standalone show piece then no.

Monty36 · 13/09/2026 18:19

Not something I would hang anywhere. By doing so it will give the impression you are fans of Hitler.
So no. Many would find it distasteful. I am putting that politely.
And would not need to even ask.

Thegirlwhowent · 13/09/2026 18:18

I'd hang it. It's interesting and could lead to some good conversations. It's not showing support for Hitler or the Nazis and I don't understand why anyone would be offended.

DailyPlanner · 13/09/2026 18:16

Crispsandcola · 13/09/2026 18:11

Why on earth would you want to display your family's recent affiliation with N*zis? I'm genuinely surprised that you're asking. I would literally never speak to my friend again if I found this kind of thing displayed in their house 😳

I am sure they would be distraught to loose someone with your attitude 😂

LorenzoCalzone · 13/09/2026 18:15

I'd not want to read that name every day. You could maybe cover the name part with a photo of the relative?

DailyPlanner · 13/09/2026 18:14

DolefullySingingMotherfucka · 13/09/2026 18:11

Certificates on display in a home usually relate to someone who lives in that home, or has done in the past. Where is the point of displaying the achievement of someone who is presumably no longer alive and has never lived there?

Certificates on display in a home usually relate to someone who lives in that home I am not sure that's true at all?
some people like history.

Some families display achievements and memories going back hundred of years. It's not a modern concept.

If you prefer a clean and minimalist home, nothing wrong with that at all, but (speaking in general) it's can't be that surprising that any others have a lot of family history in their home.

ElefantAndCastle · 13/09/2026 18:14

She helped injured people? Yes. I would put it up. And explain the history for guedts.

ginasevern · 13/09/2026 18:13

It's a fascinating piece of history and the relative wasn't helping Nazi Germany, she was saving lives as was her calling as a nurse. But I don't think many people would get past the prominent signature of Adolph Hitler. I mean, you know. It would be like a certificate with Jimmy Saville's signature on it. It might be for the most virtuous of deeds but few people are going to consider that. It also depends how many visitors you have and how much time you want to devote to explanations.

Crispsandcola · 13/09/2026 18:11

Why on earth would you want to display your family's recent affiliation with N*zis? I'm genuinely surprised that you're asking. I would literally never speak to my friend again if I found this kind of thing displayed in their house 😳

DolefullySingingMotherfucka · 13/09/2026 18:11

Certificates on display in a home usually relate to someone who lives in that home, or has done in the past. Where is the point of displaying the achievement of someone who is presumably no longer alive and has never lived there?

Dontlletmedownbruce · 13/09/2026 18:10

growinguptobreakingdown · 13/09/2026 15:51

No I wouldn't hang it.I have several Jewish friends who feel very unsafe at the moment and can't imagine how they would feel seeing that hanging on my wall.I wouldn't even want it - I'd ask a museum if they want it or stick it in the attic.

Perhaps British people should stop wearing the poppy publicly then, to avoid causing offence to their historical enemies?

DailyPlanner · 13/09/2026 18:09

I think it's bizarre that some people are so frightened of "what will people say" they make it the only thing that matters in their life.

Thinking about it, I have seen war artefact in many houses (more older than younger people to be fair), and I don't believe they created any outrage. Surely they attract curiosity and a discussion, it's just a part of history. In many countries, most families have family members who were victims of the nazis. It doesn't mean it's a provocation or an insult not to hide something like the OP's frame.

You'd think someone put a framed selfie with Putin in their living room before inviting Ukrainien friends. Not exactly the same is it

godmum56 · 13/09/2026 18:07

Floofparty · 13/09/2026 17:31

This is how I feel about it tbh. It’s an interesting artefact from history.

if you have an opinion then just do what you want to do.

godmum56 · 13/09/2026 18:05

yes I agree with the needing to explain thing and that could just get tedious. I'd offer it to either the London War Museum or is there a museum local to where she lived who might like it? Failing that I'd put it away carefully. If you are going to dispaly it, do keep it out of direct sunlight as that can damage such things.

Seajaye · 13/09/2026 17:58

I might but in in downstairs loo aas a conversation point provided I had no likely guest who relatives were prisoners of war or slaughtered by the Nazis. But in preference I would maybe donate it to a war museum or your local museum where you DH relative came from.. Museums often have ' Xxx town at war exhibitions, so this might make an nteresting item

OriginalSkang · 13/09/2026 17:53

DailyPlanner · 13/09/2026 17:52

did you even read my post?

First my jewish friends are a lot smarter than many posters on here, and don't get randomly offended.

It takes very narrow-minded people to be frightened like that or feel the need to hide anything that could be remotely "embarrassing'. How is a nurse saving people embarrassing exactly?

I also said that I would obviously not make it a focal point above their bed if they were staying.

No jewish friends confirmed.

DailyPlanner · 13/09/2026 17:52

OriginalSkang · 13/09/2026 17:45

I'm guessing you are someone who has no jewish friends. I hope so, anyway, if you think they are just "terminally offended"!

did you even read my post?

First my jewish friends are a lot smarter than many posters on here, and don't get randomly offended.

It takes very narrow-minded people to be frightened like that or feel the need to hide anything that could be remotely "embarrassing'. How is a nurse saving people embarrassing exactly?

I also said that I would obviously not make it a focal point above their bed if they were staying.

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