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Would you hang this in your house?

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Floofparty · 13/09/2026 14:41

My DH has inherited a framed certificate and medal which was presented to a relative in 1937 when she was a British army nurse. She was stationed in Spain when a German battleship was bombed and she helped care for the injured.

The medal was awarded to her by the German Red Cross with the approval of Adolf Hitler, and his name is very prominent on the certificate - it stands out more than any of the other text. Do you think it’s bad taste to hang this in our house, or is it merely an interesting piece of historical memorabilia?

YABU - guests may take offence or think it odd
YANBU - hang the frame

OP posts:
HexInductionHour · 21/09/2026 11:17

Floofparty · 21/09/2026 10:38

It’s behind glass and seems to have been preserved remarkably well.

i stand corrected - in answer to your question though no, it may give visitors or the casual observer the wrong idea

AlwaysExtraHot · 21/09/2026 10:51

HexInductionHour · 21/09/2026 09:56

Old paper is always foxed and smelly, plus it has Shitlers name on it.

See the OP's reply below.

Floofparty · 21/09/2026 10:38

HexInductionHour · 21/09/2026 09:56

Old paper is always foxed and smelly, plus it has Shitlers name on it.

It’s behind glass and seems to have been preserved remarkably well.

OP posts:
HexInductionHour · 21/09/2026 09:56

AlwaysExtraHot · 20/09/2026 19:20

Is it mouldy and smelly? Confused

Old paper is always foxed and smelly, plus it has Shitlers name on it.

mathanxiety · 20/09/2026 20:15

I would not hang anything with the name or signature of Adolf Hitler (or any other Nazi) anywhere in my house.

If there's a photo of your relative, I'd hang that, maybe with a blurb about her bravery and sense of duty as a nurse.

As a PP suggested, I'd offer the document to the War Museum or to the Red Cross or any memorial to nurses who served their fellow humans in the wars of the 20th century.

twosmallaxolotls · 20/09/2026 19:21

I'm guessing this is the Deutschland incident? The following day, the Germans bombed the city of Almeria in retaliation. A taste of things to come.
Your choice, the nurse did a humanitarian act of course.

AlwaysExtraHot · 20/09/2026 19:20

HexInductionHour · 20/09/2026 19:10

It’s mouldy and smelly old tat and of no use just throw it away

Is it mouldy and smelly? Confused

LastNightMyPJsSavedMyLife · 20/09/2026 19:13

I’d hang it. It’s about the relative not Hitler. A very interesting historical piece. My FIL was in a camp before anyone comes for me.

HexInductionHour · 20/09/2026 19:10

It’s mouldy and smelly old tat and of no use just throw it away

AlwaysExtraHot · 20/09/2026 19:05

Crispsandcola · 20/09/2026 18:16

IMO it is not socially or emotionally intelligent to feel that people should be forced to make that reconciliation.
If they were proud of their relative to the point where they wanted to initiate discussions with the people visiting their house about her amazing bravery and undiscriminating compassion then a picture of her or a medal or nursing certificate awarded by the British Army or medical school would be a more appropriate way to do this.

‘forced’ is an interesting choice of word. I tend to feel that anyone I know well enough to have in my house, that would be their response, rather than to accuse me of harbouring Nazi memorabilia/being a neo-Nazi.

In this case, the OP doesn’t have a picture of the relative or another certificate.

Crispsandcola · 20/09/2026 18:16

AlwaysExtraHot · 20/09/2026 12:14

On social and emotional intelligence, I’d refer back to a comment early in this thread about the nurse who this certificate brings to mind: that, in acting with undiscriminating compassion, she was doing what the Nazis couldn’t.
IMO it takes a great deal of social and emotional intelligence to reconcile the presence of Hitler’s name with the knowledge of what this nurse did and was commemorated for.

IMO it is not socially or emotionally intelligent to feel that people should be forced to make that reconciliation.
If they were proud of their relative to the point where they wanted to initiate discussions with the people visiting their house about her amazing bravery and undiscriminating compassion then a picture of her or a medal or nursing certificate awarded by the British Army or medical school would be a more appropriate way to do this.

AlwaysExtraHot · 20/09/2026 12:14

Crispsandcola · 19/09/2026 22:01

This is a certificate approved by one of the most evil people in history. The certificate may have been stamped prominently with his name as a bureaucratic seal of approval at a time before he had gained sufficient power to enact his genocide and acts of war but that isn't the point.
If something brings a particular person, era or period in history to mind, it's memorabilia. I stand by my assertion that I would not want to remain on friendly terms with someone who chose to display memorabilia relating to Adolf Hitler no matter what the reason. At best, it demonstrates a lack of social and emotional intelligence.

On social and emotional intelligence, I’d refer back to a comment early in this thread about the nurse who this certificate brings to mind: that, in acting with undiscriminating compassion, she was doing what the Nazis couldn’t.
IMO it takes a great deal of social and emotional intelligence to reconcile the presence of Hitler’s name with the knowledge of what this nurse did and was commemorated for.

Notsosweetcaroline · 20/09/2026 10:40

HelpMeGetThrough · 20/09/2026 09:07

Ooops!! I’ve got a cartoon poster in the hallway with Hitler on it. Guess I’d be heavily judged by quite a few on this thread.

Yes, most people do not find Hitler funny or joke worthy. He is one of the most heinous individuals in history, responsible for the deaths of up to 50 million people at a high level, and that’s before you start to delve into the holocaust.

HelpMeGetThrough · 20/09/2026 09:07

Ooops!! I’ve got a cartoon poster in the hallway with Hitler on it. Guess I’d be heavily judged by quite a few on this thread.

Crispsandcola · 19/09/2026 22:01

AlwaysExtraHot · 19/09/2026 14:47

LOL, no, I’m an English monoglot.
I mean that the name (not signature; the signature is someone else’s) is there to show that Hitler was the leader of the organisation in question at the time.
That seems to me to be an administrative thing, but maybe I should have said ‘bureaucratic’?

I am also interested to hear what qualifies a nursing certificate as Nazi memorabilia.

This is a certificate approved by one of the most evil people in history. The certificate may have been stamped prominently with his name as a bureaucratic seal of approval at a time before he had gained sufficient power to enact his genocide and acts of war but that isn't the point.
If something brings a particular person, era or period in history to mind, it's memorabilia. I stand by my assertion that I would not want to remain on friendly terms with someone who chose to display memorabilia relating to Adolf Hitler no matter what the reason. At best, it demonstrates a lack of social and emotional intelligence.

Duckduckgander · 19/09/2026 18:30

AlwaysExtraHot · 19/09/2026 18:20

I know, but hope springs eternal!

😆

AlwaysExtraHot · 19/09/2026 18:20

Duckduckgander · 19/09/2026 16:39

Good luck getting that explanation! 😏

I know, but hope springs eternal!

Duckduckgander · 19/09/2026 16:39

AlwaysExtraHot · 19/09/2026 14:47

LOL, no, I’m an English monoglot.
I mean that the name (not signature; the signature is someone else’s) is there to show that Hitler was the leader of the organisation in question at the time.
That seems to me to be an administrative thing, but maybe I should have said ‘bureaucratic’?

I am also interested to hear what qualifies a nursing certificate as Nazi memorabilia.

Good luck getting that explanation! 😏

DemonsandMosquitoes · 19/09/2026 16:18

I’d probably sell it. Someone will at some point anyway.

ChequerToRed · 19/09/2026 16:05

WW2 was complicated and messy, as war tends to be. My DHs family have recently regained their German citizenship after 80 years, it was stripped from my DHs paternal grandfather when he and his family had to flee. His job gave him travel exemptions many didn’t enjoy under the nazi regime, and he used this to secretly courier information for the German resistance, at great personal risk. Because of all this DH likes to collect German ephemera from the period such as maps, cigarette cards and things like that, not because he has any sympathies to the regime at that time, but because it gives him a small insight into life for his grandfather before it all went to shit for him and his family. Your medal and certificate are very similar, a snapshot of a particular time and your relative’s involvement. It’s not something to be ashamed of. Maybe don’t hang it in the hallway, but certainly don’t get rid of it.

Dontlletmedownbruce · 19/09/2026 15:36

@ShutupLwrenyou sound like a wonderful person! Thank you for your post, what you say about compassion is so true.

AlwaysExtraHot · 19/09/2026 14:47

Crispsandcola · 16/09/2026 20:40

I'm guessing that English is your second language @AlwaysExtraHot ? I don't understand what you mean by 'administrative context'? To be clear; hanging a certificate which was presented to a member of your family on the wall of your home where visitors can see and admire it and the presenter is not what I would describe as 'administrative'. It is demonstrating pride in the certificate and it's meaning. Whilst the OP's family may be proud of the relative and her work, I am at a loss as to why she or her family would be proud to receive something with Adolf Hitler's prominent seal of approval on it or why they would be happy to display it in their home.

LOL, no, I’m an English monoglot.
I mean that the name (not signature; the signature is someone else’s) is there to show that Hitler was the leader of the organisation in question at the time.
That seems to me to be an administrative thing, but maybe I should have said ‘bureaucratic’?

I am also interested to hear what qualifies a nursing certificate as Nazi memorabilia.

Crispsandcola · 19/09/2026 12:20

Duckduckgander · 16/09/2026 22:20

Oh no, I totally agree collecting Nazi memorabilia just for display in a private home is highly questionable and offensive.

I just I don't think the document in question is in anyway an example of such a thing. It's an acknowledgement of the actions of a nurse carrying out her duty.

I appreciate you are offended by the fact it is printed with Hitler's name, but I haven't seen any explanation as to how that qualifies it as Nazi memorabilia.

What I find offensive, is that you brand people as collectors of Nazi memorabilia, accuse people of glorifying the Nazis, because unlike you they see worth in a historic document that marks the compassionate actions of a nurse.

I fully accept that just the name Hitler makes some people uncomfortable, but what is to be gained by trying to eradicate him from history?

As uncomfortable as it may be, we should all remember the darkest points in history. If for nothing else but as an attempt to prevent the same horrors happening again.

I have made my views very clear and you obviously understand them so I'm not sure what you think your repeated attempts to try to force me to change my position by accusing me of being offensive and having the wrong opinion because it's not the same as yours is achieving. If you find my revulsion at displaying endorsed by Adolf Hitler offensive rather than what he and his party represent then that's for you and your conscience to sit with and I think this interaction should end here.

Wallywobbles · 16/09/2026 22:48

I’d sell it I think.

Duckduckgander · 16/09/2026 22:20

Crispsandcola · 16/09/2026 20:49

I have already explained my views throughout this thread and you are welcome to read them. I will absolutely judge people who think is is acceptable to collect/display n*zi memorabilia. If you find that offensive then maybe you could explain why?

Oh no, I totally agree collecting Nazi memorabilia just for display in a private home is highly questionable and offensive.

I just I don't think the document in question is in anyway an example of such a thing. It's an acknowledgement of the actions of a nurse carrying out her duty.

I appreciate you are offended by the fact it is printed with Hitler's name, but I haven't seen any explanation as to how that qualifies it as Nazi memorabilia.

What I find offensive, is that you brand people as collectors of Nazi memorabilia, accuse people of glorifying the Nazis, because unlike you they see worth in a historic document that marks the compassionate actions of a nurse.

I fully accept that just the name Hitler makes some people uncomfortable, but what is to be gained by trying to eradicate him from history?

As uncomfortable as it may be, we should all remember the darkest points in history. If for nothing else but as an attempt to prevent the same horrors happening again.

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