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Would you hang this in your house?

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Floofparty · 13/09/2026 14:41

My DH has inherited a framed certificate and medal which was presented to a relative in 1937 when she was a British army nurse. She was stationed in Spain when a German battleship was bombed and she helped care for the injured.

The medal was awarded to her by the German Red Cross with the approval of Adolf Hitler, and his name is very prominent on the certificate - it stands out more than any of the other text. Do you think it’s bad taste to hang this in our house, or is it merely an interesting piece of historical memorabilia?

YABU - guests may take offence or think it odd
YANBU - hang the frame

OP posts:
InterestedDad37 · 13/09/2026 16:46

It was 1937, so presumably during the Spanish Civil War - the Germans helped the Nationalists (Franco etc) but the UK was not (yet) at war with Germany. Sounds like she did a noble thing during a difficult time. I'd display it. Just cos it has Hitler's name on it doesn't imply any support from you, your husband or his ancestors. And it shows that wars are never simple A vs B affairs. Perhaps it also highlights how for some people fulfilling their role of helping those in distress transcends any political sensibilities (compare RNLI role right now)

noctilucentcloud · 13/09/2026 16:44

Why not display the medal if you'd like and keep the certificate kept away? I think displaying the certificate may cause offence and misunderstanding to visitors (including trades people etc) as their likely to clock the name from a distance but nothing else about it.

SethTrek · 13/09/2026 16:43

beaglescurleduplikebagels · 13/09/2026 16:39

Lots of things are interesting, that doesn't mean it's necessarily appropriate to display them around guests.

Do we decorate our homes for ourselves or for our guests?

Borracha · 13/09/2026 16:43

I typically love historical things of interest hanging in peoples homes but this feels a bit, I dunno, provocative? I would probably tuck it away safely in a drawer or only display it in a place that visitors wouldn’t typically go (home office etc)

Dandeloosha · 13/09/2026 16:40

I’d donate that to a museum or something. I wouldn’t have it in my house.

beaglescurleduplikebagels · 13/09/2026 16:39

giraffesandpigeonstoo · 13/09/2026 16:37

Surprised so many people are saying no.

It’s an interesting piece of history. If I saw this hanging in someone’s house I would be intrigued and ask about it.

I wouldn’t immediately assume they were fans of Hitler.

Lots of things are interesting, that doesn't mean it's necessarily appropriate to display them around guests.

giraffesandpigeonstoo · 13/09/2026 16:37

Surprised so many people are saying no.

It’s an interesting piece of history. If I saw this hanging in someone’s house I would be intrigued and ask about it.

I wouldn’t immediately assume they were fans of Hitler.

beaglescurleduplikebagels · 13/09/2026 16:37

Floofparty · 13/09/2026 16:28

We won’t be giving it away.

Then I would put it in a box in the attic and try and forget about it.

If you do hang it on your walls, be prepared for people to be offended and to say as much.

Ashmoleum · 13/09/2026 16:36

Donate it to a relevant history society or museum of the Spanish Civil War. It is an historical artefact, treat it as such and get it out of the house! Take a pic of it for future generations maybe, but that's it.

YankSplaining · 13/09/2026 16:36

I wouldn’t hang it up, but I’d definitely keep it for the historical value.

P00hsticks · 13/09/2026 16:34

blanketsnuggler · 13/09/2026 14:43

I voted YABU, but actually, I might hang it somewhere discreet like in a downstairs loo, or a spare room/office.

Not sure the downstairs loo is necessarily that discrete - it's one room that potentially any visitor to the house could ask to use.

Flamingojune · 13/09/2026 16:32

Sounds like the beginning of a horror film

Sartre · 13/09/2026 16:31

I wouldn’t hang anything bearing Hitler’s name in my home, no. I’m half Jewish so it would probably upset my relatives for one…

Floofparty · 13/09/2026 16:28

We won’t be giving it away.

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Ansjovis · 13/09/2026 16:26

100% not in any circumstances. The name of one of the most evil people to have ever lived is not something I'd be comfortable seeing as a guest either.

beaglescurleduplikebagels · 13/09/2026 16:24

No, but I find war stuff in general bloody depressing. Not something to be celebrated and hung on walls.

Give it to a museum.

Nookistheplacetobe · 13/09/2026 16:21

Nocameltoeleggingsplease · 13/09/2026 16:08

We were trying to appease Hitler from around 1936 because we didn’t want another war and we thought, in retrospect, Germany had been treated badly after WW1.
Germany were persecuting Jews in 1937, yes.

100% you are right about the persecution of Jews, that had been happening for some years by then. My point was more that to a British army nurse Germans (nor Hitler) would not have been considered the enemy? I genuinely don't know. I know Chamberlain was trying appeasement but what was the view of the British public. Had public opinion turned against Germany?

SethTrek · 13/09/2026 16:21

Nookistheplacetobe · 13/09/2026 16:03

@SethTrek I agree with your sentiments and I too would display the item for its historic interest and celebration of my relatives actions. But just a question. It is dated 1937, were Germany considered the enemy then?

Edited

I'd misread the date there as 39, my apologies. No Germany wasn't considered the UKs enemy in 37. They were a fascist state by that point and had past a whole sweep of legislation to persecute the groups of their society they targeted. The UK at that point feared the potential of another war with them. The government went with apeasement as a strategy to avoid war. A fair amount of people (Churchill notably) thought that was the wrong strategy and showed weakness that contributed to the start of the war.

thinkfast · 13/09/2026 16:20

If I saw that in your house OP, I wouldn’t be returning to your home and our friendship would cease. I wouldn’t remain friends with anyone who displayed Hitler’s signature in their home. I’d say it should be donated to a museum or kept in a drawer in your home.

MellowSubmarine · 13/09/2026 16:15

SethTrek · 13/09/2026 15:07

It's history, which is not in itself offensive. There were two sides in the war which most people understand in fairy black and white terms. But this relative was acted in an exceptionally humane way. She cared for the injured enemy. And the enemy recognised her work and compassion. That does deserve respect. I would display it alongside a framed explanation of why she was awarded the medal

Germany wasn’t a military enemy in 1937 (in the sense that Britain was not at war with them, I’m not saying it was a good regime!)

Maybe not the same incident, but a German ship bombed in Spain in 1937 was there enforcing an arms embargo fully supported by Britain, in relation to the Spanish civil war. I’d guess this is the incident OP’s medal refers to, as injured German soldiers were treated in Gibraltar.
(Germany was actively violating the embargo in other ways which were ignored due to appeasement, but still, this ship wasn’t viewed as enemy soldiers).

But to answer your question OP, no I wouldn’t display it. Partly because I wouldn’t display something like that without Hitler’s name on it. But even if I would, I’d feel like I had to explain it to everyone.

Nocameltoeleggingsplease · 13/09/2026 16:08

Nookistheplacetobe · 13/09/2026 16:03

@SethTrek I agree with your sentiments and I too would display the item for its historic interest and celebration of my relatives actions. But just a question. It is dated 1937, were Germany considered the enemy then?

Edited

We were trying to appease Hitler from around 1936 because we didn’t want another war and we thought, in retrospect, Germany had been treated badly after WW1.
Germany were persecuting Jews in 1937, yes.

RanniTheWitch · 13/09/2026 16:08

I wouldn’t hang it regardless of what guests might think. I prefer to look at peaceful things in my home.

Thewalrusandthecarpenter · 13/09/2026 16:06

No, I wouldn’t. My mother still has my father’s iron cross from the last war (which has a swastika on it). It’s in a drawer.

Nookistheplacetobe · 13/09/2026 16:03

@SethTrek I agree with your sentiments and I too would display the item for its historic interest and celebration of my relatives actions. But just a question. It is dated 1937, were Germany considered the enemy then?

user1476613140 · 13/09/2026 16:01

Everyinch · 13/09/2026 14:52

I'd offer it to a War Museum.

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