Not sure if this has been brought up but....
I was a DV advisor for a long time and also a survivor of child abuse. I have heard tons of disclosures, like other support workers, sadly.
At first, having watched MJ say that yes he slept with the boys, watching the documentaries etc, saw Oprah interview the men - I believed them. I believe survivors and they do not need to jump through hoops for me to advocate for them.
BUT I will always remember this.
The moment of disclosure. The bit on the documentary where the man said, 'and then he...'
I just frowned and thought, hang on a minute, this doesn't sound right.....
Then I saw a thread somewhere online from other support workers, all saying 'Hey did anyone feel that disclosure was a bit off? Everyone thinks he did it, but the way he said it didn't feel right.'
This is why I am not sure MJ did it.