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Why hasn’t Michael Jackson been cancelled??

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PoliteSquid · 12/09/2026 19:56

I’ve been out at a 80s day disco today… loads of fun. But it struck me that people were still delighted by MJ… why? He was a wrong ‘un of the very worst kind. How come he hasn’t been cancelled?!

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Doidothis · 13/09/2026 08:58

I was having this conversation with my husband the other day. We both agree that it is shocking he has not been cancelled!! He was a horrible human being and people get cancelled for a lot less than people are claiming he did. He wasn’t found guilty because he paid people off!

MonteStory · 13/09/2026 08:57

Limeandfigs · 12/09/2026 23:39

How does he benefit from it though? He's dead. He's not making any money off anyone.

He's long dead. He can't hurt anyone from the grave.

His family benefit. His family are culpable in his crimes - they knew what he was doing, he was warned about his behaviour several times. They defended him because he was breadwinner for the entire family - mum, dad, his adult siblings and dozens of nephews and nieces.

Listening to his songs, impressionists and going to the musical is actively contributing to the “he wasn’t convicted, his accusers lied before, his accusers were gold diggers’ narrative which in turn contributes to current victims of powerful predators being not believed. You don’t care about the 10-15 young men who e had their lives ruined, fine. But do you not care at all about children in 2026, faced with powerful and well-liked abusers, knowing they won’t believed?

i can’t believe the naivety here. He knew was he was doing. He painted himself as innocent and childlike and chose poor, badly educated victims on purpose.

Palomiino · 13/09/2026 08:57

SayWhatty · 13/09/2026 08:50

He especially liked being around aesthetically pleasing boys aged 7-13.

No girls for sleepovers.
No younger boys.
No older boys.
No siblings pairs.
No groups.
No disabled kids.
No fat kids.
No kids with facial differences.

Open your eyes.

Exactly.

Perfect28 · 13/09/2026 08:55

He should be.

Gateappreciation · 13/09/2026 08:54

Fizbosshoes · 13/09/2026 08:47

I cant buy the argument he was like the boy who never grew up, and was like a child himself....

He was an adult man surrounding himself with, being "best friends" with and sleeping with unrelated pre pubescent boys. If this was literally any other man - your neighbour, your BIL, your kids scout leader , no one would shrug and say, "oh bless, he loves kids, hes just like a 10 year old himself" or think it was fine because the person in question had an abusive childhood.

They would think it was wrong, and inappropriate on every level. Because it is.

This.

jinxyminxy · 13/09/2026 08:52

Rock and Roll Part 1 is an absolute banger! For me it's entirely dependent on whether I like the music. I don't necessarily play it at home or own it, but will dance or sing along to it if it's played. Nothing is cancelled or censored in my house. We don't smash albums and we don't burn books. We certainly don't tell others what they should or should not listen to, read or look at. When there's only one 'correct' opinion then ideas, art, science and human progression and development stagnates and dies. "I don't want comfort. I want God, I want poetry, I want real danger, I want freedom, I want goodness. I want sin." It's messier and people will get hurt, but better than a world with 'wrong think'.

thefeetarefirst · 13/09/2026 08:51

MyLimeGuide · 13/09/2026 08:49

Yes agree, but the autistic traits of having different social wants/behaviours are relevant in the argument that he enjoyed the company of children and animals over adults.

You seem to have misunderstood what you were saying. You were using him being autistic to say he was an innocent and not an abuser. I was responding to that utterly false logic.

SayWhatty · 13/09/2026 08:50

MyLimeGuide · 13/09/2026 08:37

I find it offensive that you are making things up about him, really sick. He did NOT rape children. He liked being around children, also animals he was autistic and unique, not a rapist.

He especially liked being around aesthetically pleasing boys aged 7-13.

No girls for sleepovers.
No younger boys.
No older boys.
No siblings pairs.
No groups.
No disabled kids.
No fat kids.
No kids with facial differences.

Open your eyes.

Greenseacat · 13/09/2026 08:49

I can no longer listen to his music, no matter how good it might be, because I believe the accusations that were made against him.

Nor would I pay to see the recent film about his life in the cinema.

People like to delude themselves with 'nothing was proven' although he paid millions out of court to alleged victims.

His music still makes a lot of money for record companies, his family and so on so a lot of people have a vested interest in keeping that going and trying to pretend nothing was wrong with him...

MyLimeGuide · 13/09/2026 08:49

thefeetarefirst · 13/09/2026 08:46

Autistic men are disproportionately likely to be in a whole host of extremist and dangerous movements. BeIng autistic is certainly not evidence of innocence of anything.

Yes agree, but the autistic traits of having different social wants/behaviours are relevant in the argument that he enjoyed the company of children and animals over adults.

thefeetarefirst · 13/09/2026 08:49

MyLimeGuide · 13/09/2026 08:46

Rubbish? Explain? Im a SEN specialist so I am fully capable of diagnosing autism thank you, and Im not the only one that thinks this about MJ.

Firstly, if you were a psychologist who diagnoses autism you would know better than to say this.

Secondly, if you work in SEN ypu have a dangerously incompetent understanding of safeguarding.

Fizbosshoes · 13/09/2026 08:47

I cant buy the argument he was like the boy who never grew up, and was like a child himself....

He was an adult man surrounding himself with, being "best friends" with and sleeping with unrelated pre pubescent boys. If this was literally any other man - your neighbour, your BIL, your kids scout leader , no one would shrug and say, "oh bless, he loves kids, hes just like a 10 year old himself" or think it was fine because the person in question had an abusive childhood.

They would think it was wrong, and inappropriate on every level. Because it is.

thefeetarefirst · 13/09/2026 08:46

MyLimeGuide · 13/09/2026 08:37

I find it offensive that you are making things up about him, really sick. He did NOT rape children. He liked being around children, also animals he was autistic and unique, not a rapist.

Autistic men are disproportionately likely to be in a whole host of extremist and dangerous movements. BeIng autistic is certainly not evidence of innocence of anything.

MyLimeGuide · 13/09/2026 08:46

Palomiino · 13/09/2026 08:39

And I find it offensive that you’ve decided to diagnose him with autism. What rubbish.

Rubbish? Explain? Im a SEN specialist so I am fully capable of diagnosing autism thank you, and Im not the only one that thinks this about MJ.

MyLimeGuide · 13/09/2026 08:44

Sakura7 · 13/09/2026 08:41

Does that argument actually make sense in your head?

He was minted and saw a way to keep himself out of jail.

If you had been wrongly accused of the most heinous crime, you'd move heaven and earth to clear your name.

Yes I would, but he is not me.

Aluna · 13/09/2026 08:42

MyLimeGuide · 13/09/2026 08:37

I find it offensive that you are making things up about him, really sick. He did NOT rape children. He liked being around children, also animals he was autistic and unique, not a rapist.

Good grief.

Sakura7 · 13/09/2026 08:41

MyLimeGuide · 13/09/2026 08:38

Because he was minted and just wanted a quiet life.

Does that argument actually make sense in your head?

He was minted and saw a way to keep himself out of jail.

If you had been wrongly accused of the most heinous crime, you'd move heaven and earth to clear your name.

Palomiino · 13/09/2026 08:39

MyLimeGuide · 13/09/2026 08:37

I find it offensive that you are making things up about him, really sick. He did NOT rape children. He liked being around children, also animals he was autistic and unique, not a rapist.

And I find it offensive that you’ve decided to diagnose him with autism. What rubbish.

Palomiino · 13/09/2026 08:38

everyoldsock · 13/09/2026 08:24

And I suggest that you should wake up and do some research about him and Safechuck.

Oh dear.

MyLimeGuide · 13/09/2026 08:38

Sakura7 · 13/09/2026 08:37

Or that kid's family was offered a life-changing amount of money to revoke the allegations.

If Jackson was so innocent, why did he pay out these enormous settlements? Wouldn't he want to clear his name?

Because he was minted and just wanted a quiet life.

Aluna · 13/09/2026 08:38

Ethelspagetti · 13/09/2026 08:35

It’s because he was never convicted of anything and the original boy whose parents made allegations, already admitted that nothing happened. His parents wanted money, which they got. Another person who grew up as a child visiting his home, already came forward and said he wasn’t like that with him or the kids at his home. He genuinely wanted to behave like a kid and have fun. Yes it was strange of him to invite boys over to play but no one has actually said that he abused them and it should be much easier to do now he’s dead.

Jordy Chandler has never said any such thing. Gavin Arviso, James Safechuck, Wade Robson and now the Cascio family all said he abused them.

MyLimeGuide · 13/09/2026 08:37

Sakura7 · 13/09/2026 08:34

I find that kind of excuse so offensive. Most children who grow up in abusive situations don't go on to rape children.

I find it offensive that you are making things up about him, really sick. He did NOT rape children. He liked being around children, also animals he was autistic and unique, not a rapist.

Sakura7 · 13/09/2026 08:37

Ethelspagetti · 13/09/2026 08:35

It’s because he was never convicted of anything and the original boy whose parents made allegations, already admitted that nothing happened. His parents wanted money, which they got. Another person who grew up as a child visiting his home, already came forward and said he wasn’t like that with him or the kids at his home. He genuinely wanted to behave like a kid and have fun. Yes it was strange of him to invite boys over to play but no one has actually said that he abused them and it should be much easier to do now he’s dead.

Or that kid's family was offered a life-changing amount of money to revoke the allegations.

If Jackson was so innocent, why did he pay out these enormous settlements? Wouldn't he want to clear his name?

Palomiino · 13/09/2026 08:36

Ethelspagetti · 13/09/2026 08:35

It’s because he was never convicted of anything and the original boy whose parents made allegations, already admitted that nothing happened. His parents wanted money, which they got. Another person who grew up as a child visiting his home, already came forward and said he wasn’t like that with him or the kids at his home. He genuinely wanted to behave like a kid and have fun. Yes it was strange of him to invite boys over to play but no one has actually said that he abused them and it should be much easier to do now he’s dead.

That is not true - Jordan Chandlers parents never did that.

People on here really need to educate themselves about what happened instead of regurgitating false information.

thefeetarefirst · 13/09/2026 08:36

TheLurpackYears · 13/09/2026 08:27

When I ask my kids about this, and also other mums, the consensus is that MJ was a vulnerable adult and an abused child himself and not responsible for his actions, he is a figure of pity.
DDs school played MJ and Rolf Hassis songs t sports day this year.

When you looK at the back stories of nearly all abusers, murderers and serious criminals they have tragic childhoods and histories. They are still normally vilified. I was recently at an exhibition of some the UKs worst murderers, including mass murderers. Nearly all had horrific childhoods. The public still despise them.

The only difference with MJ is that people like his music. So somehow being a prolific child abuser, who somehow couldn’t help it, despite all his planning and orchestration to be able to abuse, doesn’t make him a bad man but an excusable and sympathetic victim.

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