AIBU to suspect a colleague’s behaviour may relate to my nationality?

Just keep records, as suggested.
You always know when a colleague is trying to undermine you in some way, for whatever reason. It doesn't matter, the work colleague is out of order.
If there is anyway of ensuring things are copied to both her and you are the same time, that would be a way to remove some of her power. Or flag up with others that you need to be copied into everything, to ensure info gets to you in time.

You aren't imagining it. It's a form of racism and as you say, micro aggression.

Keep a log and raise it with a union rep/ manager etc.

Are you Muslim by any chance? Just wondering why you felt you had to anonymise your nationality!

Sounds more like conscious and unconscious bias. HR need to provide the offender with some "advice" and get her to do a training course!

I’m not sure why you are troubling yourself about the reason. The problem is you are being left out of loops you need to be in - speak to your manager if it continues. Why really isn’t your problem.

Goady

You will drive yourself mad trying to figure out the why.
I have the same thing my union have advised the informal route first diarise everything for formal.
I ended up going off midway through the day one day this week when I was excluded yet again and he was silly enough to write a email that's tone was obvious.

@oneofthems
Give her a taste of her own poisonous medicine and very cleverly do it back to the bitch.

I'd be very surprised if someone was going with unprofessional conduct because of nationality.

You say youre all first generation immigrants which leads me to think its Israel / Palestine or Ukraine/Russia. Only because they are the only two countries where there is sufficient back story for the conspiracy elements.

I really feel for you but I'm not sure what the answer is. If it is one of those two national groups, I'd maybe even suggest recording the behaviours, then raising it with management purely to get it on the record.

Oh, I think not. I’m well-versed in the basic facts. The UK Parliamentary Foreign Affairs Committee report on the Israeli-Palestinian Conflict states -

On 7 October 2023, Hamas launched by far the biggest surprise attack against Israel that had ever been experienced, in violation of the May 2021 ceasefire agreement between Israel and Hamas.

Sadly I think they lack the ability to learn from this.

Sadly, I think you do, too.

Is that you Bibi?

You think Gaza invaded Israel? I’m intrigued.

Hi OP. It really isn’t relevant what reason she has for this behaviour, the only thing you can reasonably do is keep a record as previously suggested to illustrate any pattern or trend in behaviour. Micro aggression can take so many forms from eye rolling, tutting, casual low level lack of civility, usually things that on their own don’t seem like much. Added all together they can really impact someone’s life. It’s always about the impact not the intent. It may be that you need to gather some concrete incidents and ask her if she is available to have a conversation to clarify whether something is wrong, and make sure you are able to approach it from a professional perspective. Keeping quiet is allowing the behaviour to continue Avoid saying “you have done x, y, z” but it may be that she needs to hear how her actions are being perceived and impacting your joint efforts. Things like- I want to make sure there is no issues between us that I need to be aware of, or I want to ensure we are aligned with x task, puts the ball in her court and makes clear you are willing to address it and have an uncomfortable conversation. If it goes badly, you can escalate. If it goes well, then you have had a result. Good luck with it all.

The UN Independent International Commission of Inquiry: This independent panel concluded that the State of Israel has committed and continues to commit acts of genocide.

Isrsel is responsible for the etchnic cleansing of Palestine , they are committing genocide and most of the world agrees on this though they are doing fuck all about it . To say it’s not genocode is like saying the holocaust didn’t happen …..Denial in the face of truth .

Its not antisemitic to denounce what the Israeli government are doing .

Tetchy. I just wondered.

That’s not how racists operate.

Most racists know their views are socially unacceptable and if they openly come out with racist views in the workplace they will face disciplinary action. They’re not stupid.

So most racism outside of anonymous internet posts is insidious. It’s micro aggressions. Sly comments and small behaviours that you can’t quite pin down.

And until you’ve been on the receiving end you can’t empathise because it’s horrible and leaves you second guessing yourself.

I shall comment as I see fit.

I don't think you will ever know for sure what is behind her behaviour. It could be she dislikes you because of your nationality or because she just doesn't like you. And then her actions or inactions could be directly because of this dislike. Alternatively she could just be useless. You just have to go with your gut/intuition.

You need to go to your manager and HR and give them a list of all the “oops I forgot to send you this work/ let you know about a meeting etc” plus then a screenshot of the partners views on your country. Don’t say anything else just allow them to add 2+2 together

Israel’s government isn’t committing genocide. It’s a lie which been disproved but is very effectively serving its purpose in demonising Israel, Israelis and Jews worldwide.

As the thread has been derailed already, I can’t let this go. The assertion that the Israeli Government is committing genocide has only been disproved by the Israeli Government, which finds itself and the IDF innocent of any wrongdoing with monotonous regularity.
No-one needs to demonise the Israeli Government. It’s done a great job of that by its own actions, past and current. Of course it should go without saying that Israeli citizens and Jewish people worldwide are not to be held collectively responsible for the sins of the Israeli Government. Just as the people of Gaza should not have been held collectively responsible for the sins of Hamas. Yet they were…