AIBU to be utterly fed up. Late forties’ menopause happened, getting fatter by the day, affectionless and stuck marriage, 2 adopted children 12 and 13, with a lot of issues going on which are mid diagnoses. No local family support. I have a full time and stressful job. Husband who also works full time and is away 1 night a week, also stressful job. Lots of anger in the household, usually triggered by the kids. Health issues myself and massive risk of more health issues which is like a cloud hanging over me. I feel like I’m followed by constant bad luck with everything that happens. Just really down on everything. I guess my AIBU is: is this normal at this age and stage of life? Do I need to just get on with it and better times will come?