Now normally if im ill my DH is amazing. We have an almost 4yo who is basically non verbal and very likely sen. So if im severely ill, my dh will take time off work to look after ds because he knows if im completely on my arsenal, there's no way I could handle ds alone. So for the past 2 weeks we've been having a major issue with flies and wasps getting in the flat and no matter what I do they just keep popping back up. Its been making my life a misery because im constantly on edge worrying that my sons going to get stung. Also being dive bombed by flies every time you're trying to do something is obviously a pain in the arse anyway. So for the past couple of weeks I've been getting more and more tense until finally yesterday my mind and body couldn't take it any more. I was having a panic attack because I just felt the buzzing in my head was relentless. I haven't had a panic attack for more than 10 years so it's not like my husband has ever seen me have one or like im constantly having them. And his reaction to it absolutely stunned me. He was so dismissive and basically had a go at me for being so ridiculous about a few flies. People, if it was just a few flies I wouldn't have got to that stage. Its been ridiculous amounts all day long, but as hes at work all day he hasn't seen them so much. Its made me see him in a different light almost. I'm under so much stress anyway dealing with everything to do with my ds and his needs and the fact that I never get a break at all. I think the pressure from it all just put my body into panic mode and my dh just doesn't seem to get it. So aibu to be quite fucking angry and severely hurt by his dismissive as fuck attitude?