To be hurt that I was called racist over trivial parking incident?

Nobody uses racism for no reason. If he said you were racist then you obviously commited some sort of microagrression that you weren't consciously aware of. My advice would be to have a bit of introspection and ask yourself what you would do next time in order to not make someone feel like they are being racially attacked over a normal disagreement.

Basically, do better.

😂😂😂 are you being serious?

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KatieHouse · Yesterday 20:36

Or how about, when a person of colour tells you that you are being racist, you apologise and ask them what you can do to make them feel better? It's called being a decent human being, I know that's hard for many white people but honestly, just try it some time.

So you're white and another person called you racist. So far you haven't mentioned anything about the other person being non white. That's quite an important part of the story.

Oi oi, that's a bit ageist. I'm campaigning to get adjectives removed from language, they're all so hateful.

Or how about, when a person of colour tells you that you are being racist, you apologise and ask them what you can do to make them feel better? It's called being a decent human being, I know that's hard for many white people but honestly, just try it some time.

Nobody uses racism for no reason. If he said you were racist then you obviously commited some sort of microagrression that you weren't consciously aware of. My advice would be to have a bit of introspection and ask yourself what you would do next time in order to not make someone feel like they are being racially attacked over a normal disagreement.

Basically, do better.

But based on the interaction as relayed she did nothing any sane person could construe as racist, sounds like the stupid old man DP was looking for a fight- he’s probably a misogynist ( is that ok?)

My baby was called a ‘racist baby’ when he was in a trolley, because a random black man pulled a weird face at him and he just stared wide eyed 🤣 instead of laughing or whatever reaction the man was expecting.

Or how about, when a person of colour tells you that you are being racist, you apologise and ask them what you can do to make them feel better? It's called being a decent human being, I know that's hard for many white people but honestly, just try it some time.

Or how about, when a person of colour tells you that you are being racist, you apologise and ask them what you can do to make them feel better? It's called being a decent human being, I know that's hard for many white people but honestly, just try it some time.

Whatever. I will not interact with someone who uses the racialised insult 'coconut' as an internet pseudonym.

Op said nothing about him personally in the interaction, so how was she racist?

So it's fine for you to call him a weirdo but not fine for him to call you a racist?

I don't think either of you covered yourselves in glory so I'd pay it no more thought.

Nobody uses racism for no reason. If he said you were racist then you obviously commited some sort of microagrression that you weren't consciously aware of. My advice would be to have a bit of introspection and ask yourself what you would do next time in order to not make someone feel like they are being racially attacked over a normal disagreement.

Basically, do better.

I just carried on parking in the empty normal spot got out, locked up and he said quite aggressively 'you shouldn't be parking in the disabled spot' I looked back at my car and said "I wasn't" you weirdo

"Well I hope it isn't you driving because if you cannot see I;m parking a Regular Car in a Regular Space then I don't trust your eyesight matey "

Do better 🤣 Basically OP, just don’t exist