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To wonder how people can cope with smells worse than this!?

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DurhamDime · 11/09/2026 15:30

Just got home from being out for the day.

As I entered the dining room I was hit by an awful smell. Immediately started looking around for a mess. Maybe the cat had thrown up etc. Nothing.

So shone a torch under the side table/cabinet. Tiny dead mouse.

Have got it out and thrown it away. It wasn’t badly decomposed or anything, not actually decomposing visibly yet thank goodness.

But the smell was awful. Like a food bin in hot weather. I disinfected the floor and I’m now sat in another room, outside doors open in both rooms, and I can still smell it (or feel like I can….)

Not the first time we’ve had it. (Aren’t cats great 🤣)

Every time this happens though I can’t help but think how awful those houses you see where everything they move there are dead mice/rats etc. Or worse, how awful it must be for people who have to find (and smell) dead bodies.

Just crazy how bad one teeny mouse can smell.

OP posts:
EatingCelery · 11/09/2026 18:11

Waitingfordoggo · 11/09/2026 16:29

Sorry, bit of a darker example but I often wonder about the woman in Essex who killed her parents and then lived with the bodies for four years.

This?!?

We had to rip out built in cupboards due a dead mouse!

Nameshavebeenchangedtoprotect · 11/09/2026 18:33

I can confirm durian tastes as bad as it smells. I bought some because everyone said it was delicious. Er no.

Periperi2025 · 11/09/2026 18:53

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 11/09/2026 16:48

I'm all right with the smell of death - I can cope with that, and muckspreading - living in the countryside those smells are common. The one that gets me is stale wee. When I worked in the supermarket we had one customer, an otherwise very well turned out older man, who smelled so strongly of urine that customers in the queue would back off and I had to breathe through my mouth to serve him over the counter. He clearly had no idea how bad he smelled and I can only conclude that he was drying out and rewearing incontinence underwear.

I (Paramedic) went to a mentally ill alcoholic who had urine of various ages in bowls, glasses and bottles throughout the house, the floor, walls and toilet were covered with diarrohea. There was a lovely community first responder at scene who prewarned me, but even so I walked in, walked out again, took a deep breath, composed myself and went back in, my eyes where literally stinging and watering.

We had a regular caller 'the reverand' who was a chronic alcoholic and wholey unpleasent man, but to his credit he did try to make healthy dietary choices when he was soberish, the problem was he'd always pick up alcohol at the same time, and depending how desperate he was for the drink would determine how far past the front door his shopping made it, and therefore there would be food in various states of decomposition throughout the downstairs. He was particularly fond of brassicas.

But in 20 years the longest deceased person I've been to is only 5 days, so I think I'm doing well there!

Muffsies · 11/09/2026 19:15

Phineyj · 11/09/2026 16:28

I worked in a place where a mouse died under the stairs in a completely inaccessible place and had to smell it for MONTHS!

We had that in my old workplace, too. It was a very old building with lots of little gaps, we couldn't work out where it was. Once the smell finally went the flies all hatched. How many flies can emerge from a dead mouse? The answer is way more than you are thinking.

Foolish1984 · 11/09/2026 19:34

Judystilldreamsofhorses · 11/09/2026 16:04

I teach a student who smells like this. I described their smell as the vegetable drawer in the fridge when you’ve forgotten about something and it turns putrid, but abandoned mouse (we also have a cat) also works.

It’s a long way between “I can’t be arsed washing my hair today so I’ll stretch it until tomorrow” or “I’ve cycled in and smell a bit sweaty” to smelling of actual decomposition and my mind actually boggles.

Do you not think you have a duty of care to report this? Or are they an adult?

BoogieVoogieAllNightLong · 11/09/2026 19:43

In the early 80s we lived in a place with a working tannery.

Now I will admit I gave not smelled gangrene so I don't know about that but I have smelled various kinds of dead and decomposing things, including a dead rat in the house and a manky potato. None of it comes close to the smell of that tannery. I can only assume people who work in them quickly lose their sense of smell otherwise I have no idea how they do it.

Icecreammonster · 11/09/2026 21:47

Next door we have an elderly lady who has carers, lets just say that the ‘waste’ wasn’t emptied in a timely manner. I assumed adult nappies, wet wipes etc.
This was during one of the heatwaves. Awfully sad situation, eventually one of her relatives cleaned the bin. Obviously couldn’t say anything but couldn’t have the front windows open for a few days.

VanillaImpulse · 11/09/2026 21:57

Lentilcakes · 11/09/2026 16:39

The worst smell for me is extremely unwashed person (being polite here). I just can’t bear that smell - it makes me want to 🤢 unf due to a health issue I can’t drive and it seems to be rife on the buses.
Weirdly never smelled dead mouse considering I’ve had cats for most of my life!

I had this when I was on the skyline at Alton towers. Young girl was sharing the same pod who absolutely reeked of BO. Then it broke down and we were suspended over the lake for 15 mins with this intense smell in a hot glass box. Was never so relieved to smell fresh air when we got out!

RafaFan · 11/09/2026 22:01

Nasty smells get trapped in your sinuses or something, which is why you can still smell them hours later.
Living in Canada I'd give a vote for skunk being the worst smell ever. It's so bad my DOG threw up when she got sprayed.

MitheredNotDead · 11/09/2026 22:12

I thought I was pretty robust when it comes to smells: faced pressure sores with a smile, people who’ve shit themselves etc. and looked after the deceased.

The worst one was opening a lead lined coffin that contained the purifying remains of someone who’d been repatriated to the UK after passing away on holiday.
Dealt with lots of bodies in varying stages of decay but that was something else.

At least with smells like that at work you can leave them behind, a dead rodent in your house is inescapable and horrible!

DurhamDime · 12/09/2026 09:03

MitheredNotDead · 11/09/2026 22:12

I thought I was pretty robust when it comes to smells: faced pressure sores with a smile, people who’ve shit themselves etc. and looked after the deceased.

The worst one was opening a lead lined coffin that contained the purifying remains of someone who’d been repatriated to the UK after passing away on holiday.
Dealt with lots of bodies in varying stages of decay but that was something else.

At least with smells like that at work you can leave them behind, a dead rodent in your house is inescapable and horrible!

Wow. That is some hardcore stuff and I definitely do not think I’m cut out for any of that.

Huge thanks to anyone who can deal with such things. I’m a weakling city girl for sure!

OP posts:
Grumpyoldcat · 12/09/2026 09:07

My dining room stank for ages. After hunting around found a sprout decomposing. Must have rolled off the table and under a bookcase.

Muffsies · 12/09/2026 09:08

MitheredNotDead · 11/09/2026 22:12

I thought I was pretty robust when it comes to smells: faced pressure sores with a smile, people who’ve shit themselves etc. and looked after the deceased.

The worst one was opening a lead lined coffin that contained the purifying remains of someone who’d been repatriated to the UK after passing away on holiday.
Dealt with lots of bodies in varying stages of decay but that was something else.

At least with smells like that at work you can leave them behind, a dead rodent in your house is inescapable and horrible!

Had the poor soul not been embalmed?

APC303 · 12/09/2026 09:34

Last year we had loads of bluebottle type flies in our conservatory every morning for at least a week. I thought was a drain so cleaned those yet still they persisted. Eventually, I pulled everything out to get to the inspection covers, lifting the loose carpet to do so. Utterly riddled with maggots. And a single dead mouse that had somehow got under it and probably been trapped and squashed. Sorted all that and all was well. But christ, the single dead mouse had a lot of fans after it had died.

Whosthetabbynow · 12/09/2026 09:58

There was a youngish woman in Tesco yesterday. Nicely dressed etc but she had this really odd smell coming from her. Can’t define it but it hit me so that I had to step away. Weird.

TheThirteenthFairy · 12/09/2026 10:42

Muffsies · 12/09/2026 09:08

Had the poor soul not been embalmed?

I'd be inclined to say No.

Waitingfordoggo · 12/09/2026 12:28

Far TMI, but anyone who has ever lost or forgotten a tampon in situ will know that those create quite an aroma after a while 🤢 (It happened to me many decades ago, and I certainly never let it happen again!)

BillieWiper · 12/09/2026 12:32

Muffsies · 11/09/2026 15:46

Yesterday I was sat in front of a man on the bus that reeked of stale beer and cigarettes, with some BO thrown in. It wasn't just a whiff, it was as if he'd bathed in old lager dregs and ashtrays. There were people moving seats.

That on it's own might not be that surprising, but this guy was wearing work gear and a hi-vis jacket, and he was on the phone to a friend or colleague talking about work. It made me wonder how on earth he could hold down a job and smell like that? He must've worked outside on his own! He didn't appear drunk at all, the beer smell was old and stale (might even have been in his sweat). I felt utterly sick for a couple of hours after that journey. I have no idea how someone could smell that bad, but i'm guessing his home smells worse.

Edited

He could have been a bar back or brewery worker? The bar backs at my work always used to reek of stake beer but they weren't drinking it.

Coupled with him being a smoker and he's just finished a shift?

MabelAnderson · 12/09/2026 12:38

BrilliantBetty · 11/09/2026 16:43

Growing up there was a dead rat inaccessible in the wall in our loft (bedroom) no one was able to get it out. I stank for over a year.

Yes, my Mum had rats come into a work building, she called the pest control people who used poison, but a rat die under the floor in a place that was totally inaccessible. They couldn’t take the floor up. It stank for ages, over a year, and even a couple of years later there was this faint smell.
We sometimes get bank voles coming in, we had one die seemingly under our floorboards, DH took up large sections of floor, it happens now and again and he always locates the corpse, there is glass fibre insulation under there and they nest in it and then it kills them 😥 but it had died inside the actual wall, in a gap in the mortar. 200 year old walls. So we just had to close the door and not use the room for a month.

MitheredNotDead · 12/09/2026 14:41

Muffsies · 12/09/2026 09:08

Had the poor soul not been embalmed?

Nope.

It was about 7 years ago and I remember there was a massive faff over how the deceased had been handled after death and it was from a country that wasn’t a ‘normal’ holiday destination.

MitheredNotDead · 12/09/2026 14:43

DurhamDime · 12/09/2026 09:03

Wow. That is some hardcore stuff and I definitely do not think I’m cut out for any of that.

Huge thanks to anyone who can deal with such things. I’m a weakling city girl for sure!

At least I could escape the various smells, I had a rat die under the floorboards in one of my bathrooms and that was worse cos I couldn’t go home and leave it behind!

Took ages to find it 🤢

gabsdot45 · 12/09/2026 15:21

Something died in the back of our airing cupboard. But it was behind the wall so we couldn't remove it. The smell lasted for weeks.

CustardySergeant · 12/09/2026 15:43

Sartre · 11/09/2026 16:24

Uni lecturer or school teacher? If school age this sounds like neglect. Uni age and I can relate, I’ve found history students smell the worst for some reason!

Once had the misfortune of the same stinky man sitting in front of me twice on the train in a week. I was shocked someone could smell so bad and not care. His hair was thick with grease and he just generally looked unkempt, the smell was like shit and death and foist mixed together. I had to move both times.

Re your penultimate sentence "the smell was like shit and death and foist mixed together." What is foist? If it's a typo for something I haven't been able to work out what.

minisunday · 12/09/2026 16:24

I was in the hospital on plastic surgery outpatients last week and suddenly the room we were in was filled with the most sickening stench. It was like a combination of faeces and vomit. The nurse explained that a patient in the next room was having dressings changed and the wound had become necrotic. The smell was travelling through the air vents.
No wonder Covid spread so easily in hospitals if air can move between rooms so easily!

ReleaseTheDucksOfWar · 12/09/2026 16:51

40andwingingit · 11/09/2026 16:09

I take your dead mouse and raise you a toasted bluebottle fly that hit the electric bug zapper. The sound is satisfying, the smell is not. Absolutely grim!!

I raise you a corneal surface ablation.

You get that smell of fried bluebottle coming from your own eye.

The pain is ..... considerable ... once the anasthetic wears off but the smell was shocking.