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AIBU to think Bonnie Blue should be arrested?

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BellesAndGraces · 11/09/2026 10:40

Bonnie Blue’s latest stunt is to post a video holding her newborn, surrounded by masked men while talking about getting back to making sexual content after having a c-section. Her baby’s onesie matches the colour of the mask worn by the men.

How this is not using a baby to promote sexual content, I do not know. It’s sickening.

I know all she wants is publicity but I sincerely hope this time she gets all the attention she deserves and her baby is taken away from her and placed with a family that can give the child the love, care and protection a child needs. The Tories have reported her to the NSPCC but why has she not been reported to the police??

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Collaborate · 11/09/2026 17:12

As much as most of us (me included) think the way she lives her life is morally repugnant I don't want to live in a society where people get arrested for that. Where will it end?

user1464187087 · 11/09/2026 16:41

marlboro · 11/09/2026 15:54

Are we going after the men enabling this too? Surely they should be reported as well!

Reported for what exactly. I mean under The Police and Criminal Evidence Act?
What law has anyone committed?
What do you expect the police and CPS to do?

cloudbabies · 11/09/2026 16:38

She’s obviously one vile individual, and it concerns me she’s making out women are healed enough to have sex so soon after birth. Isn’t she still bleeding? These men are disgusting too.
I’m not sure if she’s had a baby or not but I would hope it’s removed from her and given a chance at a normal childhood.

Ihateboris · 11/09/2026 16:20

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www.dailystar.co.uk/news/latest-news/adult-star-bonnie-blue-reported-37645837

OonaStubbs · 11/09/2026 16:15

I would quite happily ban smoking, alcohol and unhealthy foods or at least restrict them far more than they are already. I don't think supermarkets should be able to sell them for instance. They should all have to be sold in specialist stores, off-licenses, tobacconists etc.

MaggieMop · 11/09/2026 16:14

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MidnightPatrol · 11/09/2026 16:09

I agree that I don’t think it’s a real baby, but also that the kind of content she’s creating / implying is… extremely dark?

I have heard a lot of ‘get social services involved’ but I suppose there’s nothing to be involved in if she hadn’t actually had a baby.

So then - there is nothing that can be done, other than her be ostracised as gross.

Ihateboris · 11/09/2026 16:03

marlboro · 11/09/2026 15:54

Are we going after the men enabling this too? Surely they should be reported as well!

I agree 👍

Ihateboris · 11/09/2026 16:02

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Again, we can all make a personal choice to stop buying clothes etc to help the planet (although personally I think it'd too late). However, the children thar end up being abused by paedophiles who've been watching the likes of Bonnie Blue et al, dud not and cannot make rhar choice. These horrific videos are being shared amongst pervs and paedos, whether they like it or not.

marlboro · 11/09/2026 15:54

Are we going after the men enabling this too? Surely they should be reported as well!

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Ihateboris · 11/09/2026 15:49

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Most of the things you suggest banning due to being harmful are generally only harmful to the person partaking. However, a lot of porn can and does cease harn to other people, including children.

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SodaPopBop · 11/09/2026 15:22

OonaStubbs · 11/09/2026 15:04

If the government can restrict porn to over 18s they can just as easily ban it entirely.

They didn’t manage to do that though, people just downloaded free VPNs.

Pedallleur · 11/09/2026 15:04

Ihateboris · 11/09/2026 14:38

I think the fact she's telling the world she gave birth there, may be enough to put other women off

Good enough for the RF and as long as the bill gets paid the facility will treat its customers without prejudice I would hope. But no doubt other Private and reassuringly expensive maternity facilities are available.

OonaStubbs · 11/09/2026 15:04

If the government can restrict porn to over 18s they can just as easily ban it entirely.

Somethinggg · 11/09/2026 14:57

Ihateboris · 11/09/2026 14:38

I think the fact she's telling the world she gave birth there, may be enough to put other women off

I'm not sure how likely that is, but even so it would have to be weighed against higher profile women who particularly value privacy and discretion, and would be put off by the Lindo engaging with public speculation about whether someone's given birth there.

Ihateboris · 11/09/2026 14:38

Pedallleur · 11/09/2026 14:35

Doubt they would disclose previous occupants or any conditions those persons presented with.

I think the fact she's telling the world she gave birth there, may be enough to put other women off

Pedallleur · 11/09/2026 14:35

Llamallamafruitpyjama · 11/09/2026 14:32

I’d not want to give birth in the same room she did as I’m sure she probably has herpes etc

Doubt they would disclose previous occupants or any conditions those persons presented with.

Llamallamafruitpyjama · 11/09/2026 14:32

ibsUniversalcredit · 11/09/2026 11:53

The private wing at st Mary’s is a business surely they wouldn’t not want their name dragged into all this ?

I’d not want to give birth in the same room she did as I’m sure she probably has herpes etc

Ihateboris · 11/09/2026 14:31

OonaStubbs · 11/09/2026 14:21

Why can't we just ban porn? Stop tinkering around the edges and just ban it all, with stiff sentences for those who participate or view it.

Yes!! Porn is so harmful, and it's just going to get even more extreme. What good does it do? This isn't a hypothetical question.

Pedallleur · 11/09/2026 14:27

OonaStubbs · 11/09/2026 14:21

Why can't we just ban porn? Stop tinkering around the edges and just ban it all, with stiff sentences for those who participate or view it.

Requires everyone to be on board. It can be hosted from anywhere in the world. The Roman Emperor Tiberius enjoyed pornography so it's been around a long time. MP Neil Parish was caught watching it on his phone in the HoC in 2022. If our elected representatives (male) are watching it they have zero interest in stopping it. I'll also presume it makes some people a lot of money.

TheTwerkingDuchessOfMonteshitshow · 11/09/2026 14:24

IdaGlossop · 11/09/2026 10:50

I contacted the NSPCC last week about this. The video is repugnant. And she's not just talking about sexual contact. She says explicitly that she doesn't have to heed the 'no sexual intercourse for six weeks' rule because she had a C-section ie 'here I am guys. My vagina's ready for you'. Having intercourse would put her at risk because her body is recovering from surgery. If she were injured, she may not be able to look after the baby.

To be reported to the police, she would need to have committed an offense. Has she? I don't know.

Good for you. Thank you.

Pedallleur · 11/09/2026 14:22

Dracolina · 11/09/2026 14:18

I've never watched Hellboy, is it good?

I prefer the first to the second film. It's fun but also 90 mins you won't get back. Ron Perlman is good as Hellboy and John Hurt is always watchable.

OonaStubbs · 11/09/2026 14:21

Why can't we just ban porn? Stop tinkering around the edges and just ban it all, with stiff sentences for those who participate or view it.

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