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AIBU to think my friend is overdoing emergency stockpiling?

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bagpuss90 · 10/09/2026 08:52

I get that we have been advised to stock up on essentials, though I think it will encourage panic buying. I will probably get a few days worth of stuff at some point . My friend however has, at least in my opinion gone ott about it. She’s stocking up a six month supply of food. She’s bought head torches, a camping gas stove and various other stuff. She thinks I’m being naive …Am I missing something here ?

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HeckYeah · 11/09/2026 14:45

DecoratingDiva · 11/09/2026 14:38

Clearly I live under a rock but what exactly is it we are supposed to be stockpiling for?

Try reading this thread?

Letsnotupsettheapplecart · 11/09/2026 14:45

Is this UK? I seem to have missed this completely if that’s the case 😳

DecoratingDiva · 11/09/2026 14:38

Clearly I live under a rock but what exactly is it we are supposed to be stockpiling for?

Lizchapman · 11/09/2026 14:32

Well I’d say it’s quite predictable we’ll lose water or power for a few days sometime over this winter but I’m not convinced we need six months of food. I have water, tinned and dried food and a couple of charged power banks. I cook on gas so chances are high I’ll still have that anyway.

HelpMeGetThrough · 11/09/2026 13:57

Era · 11/09/2026 12:55

Oh good plan. Are you going out and stealing and killing cows the minute the power goes off, after day three or day five?

Just before, I’m using my car charger to zap it.

Asmallburp · 11/09/2026 13:51

The OP’s friend is a single woman. Stockpiling for 1 person I imagine isn’t that big a deal.

Asmallburp · 11/09/2026 13:49

mulberrymilk · 10/09/2026 23:06

And those people had no toilet paper.

I was fine for toilet paper and I sure as heck didn’t panic buy. It came close to the wire a couple of times! But just got up early and joined a queue somewhere and got more 🤷‍♀️
no biggie

Era · 11/09/2026 12:55

HelpMeGetThrough · 11/09/2026 11:58

I’m stockpiling nothing. There’s a field of cows at the bottom of our road. One of those buggers will keep us going for a week or two.

Oh good plan. Are you going out and stealing and killing cows the minute the power goes off, after day three or day five?

HelpMeGetThrough · 11/09/2026 11:58

I’m stockpiling nothing. There’s a field of cows at the bottom of our road. One of those buggers will keep us going for a week or two.

HeckYeah · 11/09/2026 08:49

Madamefroufrou · 11/09/2026 08:35

wanted to add, in case anyone believed I might have gone soft,
requests were denied on all occasions, first neighbour firm No
gas ring bandit summarily dealt with by OH

We are resolved now to be much more neighbour aware with our
stored goods, taking our own advice and from this thread, thanks

I’m gobsmacked..is this really true?!? A wake up call if it is.

Madamefroufrou · 11/09/2026 08:35

Madamefroufrou · 10/09/2026 11:27

It’s a good idea to keep quiet about storing food water and equipment

We have a well stocked cupboard, freezer in cool storeroom with shelves
for toilet paper shampoo, cat and dog food, water etc. and an old but
serviceable fridge for drinks and drugs (animals) lotions and potions.
See, organised, as we used to live in the middle of nowhere so well trained.

A neighbour came round as I was putting away a large monthly delivery,
tins, rice, lentils, pasta, etc. and remarked on my ‘Armaggedon supplies’
I had promised her 6tins for the Harvest Festival hence the one and only
and for her, well timed visit. She is ‘active in the community’ a retired
person I have always instinctively kept at arms length.

that very weekend I had a text from her asking could I let her have a bag
of pasta and two cans of chopped tomatoes until she could shop on
Monday and if I could spare a pack of bacon that would be grand

the next week two other people commented that they would know where
to come in the event of shortages, said with a laugh

then! said neighbour texted to say she was in the village hall for the
Harvest lunch - they had run out of vegetables so could I go around there
with tins of veg, as they were waiting but frozen would be better

A friend brings us toilet paper/kitchen roll/useful stuff from Costco occasionally
in heavy duty non see through black plastic bags, even backs his car up to the garage doors, for security reasons, he says, making this a furtive exercise

In summer a friend loaded up her capacious car boot with (empty) boxes,
12 pack of toilet paper in the back seats, all left on view.

Neighbour asked where we going camping?? Friend on cue says no we are
emptying the storeroom at last, there is too much, I’m taking it all to the BHF
so Fru Fru can have a walk in closet. Essential lies told for my peace of mind.
Friend drives off, dumps boxes at recycling centre, flings Andrex in the boot.
Under cover of darkness, brought it back in the house in a black dustbin bag

We felt this pantomime well played when another neihbour asked me was I
enjoying my freshly painted dressing room now I have too many clothes?!?
Apparently her husband who has never even said hello in 7 years, asked OH
was he getting rid of gas rings and spare gas refills as he could take them off
our hands

This is life in a cul de sac

HTH

wanted to add, in case anyone believed I might have gone soft,
requests were denied on all occasions, first neighbour firm No
gas ring bandit summarily dealt with by OH

We are resolved now to be much more neighbour aware with our
stored goods, taking our own advice and from this thread, thanks

FedUpCelery · 11/09/2026 07:48

If your friend is stockpiling now it takes the pressure off the shops when the shit hits the fan for those of us that haven't. I've will be one less person buying toilet paper and pasta as they have organised themselves in good time without affecting supply levels in shops.

Gqqkkq · 11/09/2026 00:00

I have enough bottled drinking water for a week. None for cleaning/washing. I think that's the sort of thing that the govt. wants. So that if there is some sort of emergency, every household having some water to keep them alive gives them time to sort the problem out/help. I also have a few tins. They're just in my kitchen so no mega supply, I would just eat directly out of them in an emergency. I don't have a camping stove or anything like that as I don't camp. So, I'd be eating cold from tins and I don't care about that. I have also got very thick arctic type trousers and coat so I would wear that if there was no heating in winter.

If we get nuked or something, I will just be nuked. I live in a cookie cutter on a modern estate so no underground shelter etc. That would be quite a project to organise and maintain, even if I did have the possibility.

I do try not to let my petrol tank get too low before refilling. I do also have a radio.

If your friend wants 8 months of food, just let her crack on and probably discuss something else. I think that is extreme, but if a family of 4 had the same amount, it'd only last them 2 months. Perhaps she feels worried about being alone in an emergency.

Foolish1984 · 10/09/2026 23:21

HumbleStumble · 10/09/2026 09:02

I have around 8 months supply of food and water and underground facilities off
-grid if needed. I think it's just being prudent and hope others prepare similarly. Good luck to everyone!

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 You wish!

whatcanthematterbe81 · 10/09/2026 23:14

LilyBunch25 · 10/09/2026 23:13

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cp931m8n3p5o

There is also up to date guidance on gov.uk (prepare)
Some people - myself included - also feel this is being publicised more because of possible cyber attacks, which happen all the time but are usually managed.

Edited

Thank you :-)

LilyBunch25 · 10/09/2026 23:13

whatcanthematterbe81 · 10/09/2026 22:42

I know I could google so apologies…. But what exactly are we prepping for?

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cp931m8n3p5o

There is also up to date guidance on gov.uk (prepare)
Some people - myself included - also feel this is being publicised more because of possible cyber attacks, which happen all the time but are usually managed.

Stock photo shows jarred food and household pantry items stacked on a shelf in close up.

Stock up on food to prepare for extreme El Niño weather, minister says

Dame Angela Eagle warns the weather event could lead to extreme storms this winter.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cp931m8n3p5o

mulberrymilk · 10/09/2026 23:06

nomas · 10/09/2026 14:00

I think there was a middleground of people who didn't have food stores at home and who also didn't panic buy.

And those people had no toilet paper.

boxtop · 10/09/2026 22:51

Madamefroufrou · 10/09/2026 15:08

what does ‘goes rank’ mean? how does this manifest itself?
as in degrades?
because it is in plastic? does it smell badly?
I have a couple of 5l flagons from Tesco when it was 99p, now
something like 1.50£ so do you think I should open it?
We had nowhere cool to store anything like water, even the
solid garage floor was warm.
I will be miffed if its gone off, I could have been watering salad
and fruit bushes with it in the drought!

the water itself is fine but the plastic degrades after about a year iirc

whatcanthematterbe81 · 10/09/2026 22:42

I know I could google so apologies…. But what exactly are we prepping for?

IAmInTheHouseSidney · 10/09/2026 22:21

ViciousCurrentBun · 10/09/2026 22:05

@OriginalUsername2 We have a hedgehog that visits, you can cover them in mud apparently and bake them underground. There is a huge Maine Coon a few doors down he could feed us for a week but I like him so I think the Sparrow killing dick of a cat across the road can go first.

Cats apparently taste like rabbits so... Why not🙈

LilyBunch25 · 10/09/2026 22:16

RikthePoet · 10/09/2026 22:15

And what are you planning to do after eight months? Kill and eat your neighbours?

I think if it went on for that long anything would be possible..

RikthePoet · 10/09/2026 22:15

HumbleStumble · 10/09/2026 09:02

I have around 8 months supply of food and water and underground facilities off
-grid if needed. I think it's just being prudent and hope others prepare similarly. Good luck to everyone!

And what are you planning to do after eight months? Kill and eat your neighbours?

LilyBunch25 · 10/09/2026 22:12

ViciousCurrentBun · 10/09/2026 22:05

@OriginalUsername2 We have a hedgehog that visits, you can cover them in mud apparently and bake them underground. There is a huge Maine Coon a few doors down he could feed us for a week but I like him so I think the Sparrow killing dick of a cat across the road can go first.

Nooo not the hedgehogs! Also, not the cats (please) 🙈😅

LilyBunch25 · 10/09/2026 22:11

cloudbabies · 10/09/2026 21:28

I was asking what the goverment had said and why, I can’t see that answer clearly

There are links on several threads on this topic on MN atm to bbc articles and thr latest government guidance on gov.uk

ViciousCurrentBun · 10/09/2026 22:05

@OriginalUsername2 We have a hedgehog that visits, you can cover them in mud apparently and bake them underground. There is a huge Maine Coon a few doors down he could feed us for a week but I like him so I think the Sparrow killing dick of a cat across the road can go first.