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AIBU to expect air freshener in toilets when visiting friends?

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HangryBrickShark · 09/09/2026 23:11

Is there an expectation that people's toilets should have an air freshener in? Like a spray air freshener?

We always have air freshener in both our toilets in case friends or family get caught short when visiting us or even to freshen the bathroom after having a wee if necessary, so I hate it if I go to a friend/family members house and they have none.

I get some people may be affected by asthma but surely if you had asthma you wouldn't use it?

We have a glade air freshener at work that sprays into the space where the wash handbasins are for example.

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FeralFucker · 12/09/2026 18:38

Wonder how all those medieval types coped with their poop pongs. Bet they weren't demanding air freshener.

Confusedbytheworld · 12/09/2026 18:33

I'm sorry but you absolutely are.
As someone who is made quite badly ill by air fresheners I absolutely welcome homes that have none. I really don't understand why everything nowadays has to be highly scented. Or actually I do ... its because of advertising trying to make us believe that natural smells are undesirable so companies can make money off selling us products that contain carcogenic chemicals and hormone disrupters and neurotoxins. Air fresheners have stickly molecules specifically designed to cling, so they mask the smell by coating your nose and airways with chemicals. Think about that.

DrNo007 · 12/09/2026 18:33

I can't bear air fresheners - the smell makes me nauseous and that applies to many people who have chemical sensitivity. They contain toxic, including carcinogenic, chemicals and pollute the environment.

Ireallycantthinkofagoodone · 12/09/2026 18:33

HangryBrickShark · 09/09/2026 23:36

We're on holiday at the moment and stopping in a large caravan with two loos, and not having anyone visit. But we have an air freshener in each toilet that we brought from home. I hate toilet smells.

For those that say their shit doesn't smell, are you serious??? Of course it does! 😅

Edited

For goodness sake - just strike a match, and it eradicates the cause of the smell. It immediately burns the methane.

I don’t understand how people don’t know this!

House12 · 12/09/2026 18:32

Get a life.

NimbleTaupeTiger · 12/09/2026 18:31

Yep, air freshener and bleach in all toilets. I think you're totally normal.

MrsSlocombesCat · 12/09/2026 18:30

hotmumshit · 09/09/2026 23:13

Yanbu tbh

Theres this tiktokker who i love and think is amazing, but she refuses to have a toilet brush! I'm like, what if someone (usually a man) has no choice but to poop in your toilet and finds he cant clean it?! 😩😩😩

Toilet brushes are vile. Just wipe the poop off with toilet paper.

Ireallycantthinkofagoodone · 12/09/2026 18:30

grumpygrape · 09/09/2026 23:16

Carry a box of matches with you. Brilliant for neutralising any nasty nifs.

I agree. I have mentioned this on numerous posts where people have talked about what they allow in various bathrooms in their homes.

No-one seems to take any notice. They would rather spray nasty chemicals into the atmosphere.

Bonkers!

havingoneofthosedays · 12/09/2026 18:29

Only on MN ‘my shit doesn’t smell’
Love this batshittery

Vse500 · 12/09/2026 18:28

HangryBrickShark · 09/09/2026 23:17

Why? It actually annoys me to not see one if I'm honest.

My house, my choice, my rules. If it angers you that much don’t visit other people.

ChampagneLassie · 12/09/2026 18:25

i hate areal sprays I think they’re way more nauseating than the smell of poo. I’ve got a friend who is very sensitive to chemical compounds like this and can’t go near them such that it really made me think about what I put in my home.

HouseBee · 12/09/2026 18:24

TinaBeliever · 10/09/2026 00:14

Just have your big smelly shit before you leave home.

You can time your poos for when you leave? 😵‍💫😵‍💫

CocksBolingey · 12/09/2026 18:22

I think it’s quite normal. I always have one in my bathroom.

EH1768 · 12/09/2026 18:13

HangryBrickShark · 09/09/2026 23:11

Is there an expectation that people's toilets should have an air freshener in? Like a spray air freshener?

We always have air freshener in both our toilets in case friends or family get caught short when visiting us or even to freshen the bathroom after having a wee if necessary, so I hate it if I go to a friend/family members house and they have none.

I get some people may be affected by asthma but surely if you had asthma you wouldn't use it?

We have a glade air freshener at work that sprays into the space where the wash handbasins are for example.

I understand your actions but personally hate the smell of commercial air fresheners. We leave a spray deodorant and modest spray fragrance in each bathroom which can be used for their intended purpose as well as to spray the bathroom to cover any major smells. I also try to make sure the windows are easily opened in case any guests want to clear the air!

BeAquaTiger · 12/09/2026 18:11

Would not want to use a toilet if there is no air freshener? You have a choice? When I need to go I have to go

BeAquaTiger · 12/09/2026 18:08

Only men shit?
You think women only shit at home?
Even more bizarre you think men would clean a toilet! I can barely get the men in my house to flush

Lizchapman · 12/09/2026 18:04

Why on earth should I buy an air freshener just in case a visitor is offended because I don’t have one? 😂😂😂😂

ThePurpleShark · 12/09/2026 14:18

Cherrytree86 · 12/09/2026 11:15

@ThePurpleShark

its everywhere on the pavements. You might not walk in it but plenty of people do meaning there are traces of it all over.

I don't put my shoes on furniture or lick the floor, so am good anyway 😂

I am yet to find a study showing that people who keep their shoes indoors are more likely to suffer from Toxoplasmosis or the black plague, or that kids have a higher absence rate at school

I don't care if people keep or take off their shoes at home, I just find the outrage amusing.

MaggieMop · 12/09/2026 11:31

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BrezhnevsLuxuriantEyebrows · 12/09/2026 11:19

Anarchy99 · 12/09/2026 08:28

Nor me 😬 And we keep our shoes on in the house 🤣

Do you mean you keep them on when visiting others, or if you're popping home quickly to pick something up; or do you actively wear them in the house all the time?

My DF used to wear shoes all the time when at home, even when he hadn't been out and wasn't going out anywhere - I always found that really odd (DM, DSis and I never did that). Maybe the home he grew up in had carpets that were even more minging than the pavement outside?!

BrezhnevsLuxuriantEyebrows · 12/09/2026 11:15

she broke up with a very lovely man the first time she went to his house because he had an air freshener in his bathroom

I presume she's pointedly never dated any taxi drivers, with their obligatory 'magic tree' hanging over the rear view mirror just next to the furry dice, then...?!

Cherrytree86 · 12/09/2026 11:15

ThePurpleShark · 12/09/2026 11:01

why do you have to walk in dog shit? Even my kids knew not to do that before they even started primary school

@ThePurpleShark

its everywhere on the pavements. You might not walk in it but plenty of people do meaning there are traces of it all over.

BrezhnevsLuxuriantEyebrows · 12/09/2026 11:10

UnNiddeRides · 12/09/2026 01:47

I'm not sure which is worse for the environment. A spray or putting bleach down the toilet. In terms of smell they’re both quite unpleasant.
On a tangent, ‘poop’ really annoys me. Not a word I’ve ever used & when my kids were young it wasn’t a word we’d have used then.

You would have hated Mr Toad Grin

ThePurpleShark · 12/09/2026 11:01

Cherrytree86 · 12/09/2026 10:46

@Anarchy99

trailing remnants of dog shit around my house? Not for me. But you do you

why do you have to walk in dog shit? Even my kids knew not to do that before they even started primary school

isitfridayyetttt · 12/09/2026 10:57

I always thought many Mumnsnetters walked around like their shit don’t stink. This thread confirms it.