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AIBU to expect air freshener in toilets when visiting friends?

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HangryBrickShark · 09/09/2026 23:11

Is there an expectation that people's toilets should have an air freshener in? Like a spray air freshener?

We always have air freshener in both our toilets in case friends or family get caught short when visiting us or even to freshen the bathroom after having a wee if necessary, so I hate it if I go to a friend/family members house and they have none.

I get some people may be affected by asthma but surely if you had asthma you wouldn't use it?

We have a glade air freshener at work that sprays into the space where the wash handbasins are for example.

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shhblackbag · 09/09/2026 23:45

Those things give me an almost instant headache. YABU.

PartoftheBand · 09/09/2026 23:44

I've never bought air freshener for anywhere in the house tbh. I wouldn't expect it in a friend's toilet, although I wouldn't be horrified by it either.

But in general, Mumsnet HATES air fresheners (and fabric conditioner) so your vote is definitely not going to go the way you expected!

queenofthebongo · 09/09/2026 23:43

Light a candle. If we have friends over I light a big candle in the loo.

MyGirlJ · 09/09/2026 23:43

YABU. I don't keep air freshener in my toilet for a few reasons. Firstly, spraying air freshener in my loo makes the floor tiles a slipping hazard. Secondly, it doesn't actually get rid of the poo smell, instead it intermingles and becomes a disgusting jasmine-poo cocktail. Thirdly, we just open the window.

TheEdgyMoose · 09/09/2026 23:42

"I get some people may be affected by asthma but surely if you had asthma you wouldn't use it?"
Are you saying people with asthma should have air fresheners in their homes for guests to use and just ignore the risks to their own health?

I suffer from migraines and spray air fresheners are a nightmare for me so I wouldn't have them. I find bathroom smells dissipate pretty quickly whereas air freshener stink lingers on for ages so I really don't see the appeal.

Meteorite87 · 09/09/2026 23:42

BabblingBiddy · 09/09/2026 23:18

You're weird. I'm allergic to them, so I don't want them being sprayed in my house. I do have a reed diffuser and the window is always open.

Your experience links back to @HangryBrickShark saying about asthmatics "not using sprays".

I use basic gel air fresheners for a pleasant scent. A quite "earthy" lavender seems to smell better than artificially sweet versions.

The window can be opened and standard cleaning items are next to the loo.

NolanChanceJustLikeTheWeatherNSoul · 09/09/2026 23:40

Air freshener after a pee...why??
And at your work nothing says natural more
Than glade freshener.

WindsorGreatPark · 09/09/2026 23:39

HangryBrickShark · 09/09/2026 23:36

We're on holiday at the moment and stopping in a large caravan with two loos, and not having anyone visit. But we have an air freshener in each toilet that we brought from home. I hate toilet smells.

For those that say their shit doesn't smell, are you serious??? Of course it does! 😅

Edited

This is definitely a you problem.

Gentlework · 09/09/2026 23:38

Dozer · 09/09/2026 23:23

WTF is poopouri? Is it a real product or is it a new form of 💩 trollerie

It's real! I was given a bottle by a friend as a joke gift for my honeymoon!

WindsorGreatPark · 09/09/2026 23:37

Morry15 · 09/09/2026 23:34

Ditto. Cant stand a toilet brush. Uurrggghh. Bleach all the way.

Bleach is terrible for the environment. Bring on the brush!

Whoops75 · 09/09/2026 23:37

I have a press under the sink with toilet cleaner that could be used to mask a smell I suppose.
In friends homes I would poop, flush and then wipe and flush again. It only smells if it’s left hanging around too long.

Waitingfordoggo · 09/09/2026 23:37

Oh no, I hate all that. I’ve never bought an air freshener in my life. Nor those plastic or jelly things that people stick in their toilets. I don’t like synthetic scents and I think they’re bad for the environment, plus often involving plastic packaging which I try to avoid. I hate fabric conditioner, perfume and body spray too. I would just open the window if I was worried about something like that.

Denim4ever · 09/09/2026 23:37

I have asthma, I don't like air fresheners. When I go to local John Lewis the entrance is a third of a shop floor of cosmetics and scent. I try not to breathe in through my nose 😳

HangryBrickShark · 09/09/2026 23:36

We're on holiday at the moment and stopping in a large caravan with two loos, and not having anyone visit. But we have an air freshener in each toilet that we brought from home. I hate toilet smells.

For those that say their shit doesn't smell, are you serious??? Of course it does! 😅

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Morry15 · 09/09/2026 23:34

Happyjoe · 09/09/2026 23:22

Hate toilet brushes, hideous things.
Bleach and toilet paper - flush then job done.

Ditto. Cant stand a toilet brush. Uurrggghh. Bleach all the way.

mymswashing · 09/09/2026 23:30

Dozer · 09/09/2026 23:23

WTF is poopouri? Is it a real product or is it a new form of 💩 trollerie

No it’s a real thing. We have it at work and it’s great

https://amzn.eu/d/00HmWlOd

Hayley1256 · 09/09/2026 23:30

I have one in our bathroom but we don't use it ourselves, it's purely for guests if they do get caught out and don't want to be embarrassed.

Edit to add that all my friends and family have them in the bathroom too!

ThisAutumnTown · 09/09/2026 23:30

In each of my bathrooms, I have little baskets on the windowsills. In the baskets I have 3 loo rolls, flushable wipes, poo-pouri (spray in the loo before you poop to trap the smell) and air freshener.
All set up neatly!
I don’t know a single other person that does this so I think I might be the weird one 😂

TripleSulko · 09/09/2026 23:29

isitfridayyetttt · 09/09/2026 23:20

Some people love the smell of their own poo it seems.

Weird thing to say. But - air fresheners amplify it to me, the fake flowery smell mixed with the poo smell is stronger and usually you can then smell the whole concoction outside the bathroom 🤢

ReadingSoManyThreads · 09/09/2026 23:28

YABU

I detest air fresheners with a passion. They cause a burning sensation up my nose and headaches if exposed to them for longer periods. I had to unplug one at work and hide it in a drawer. Then the fuckers put in those awful ones that squirt out the synthetic chemical crap every X amount of minutes in the toilets that had no windows. I ended up leaving as I struggled to breathe in the toilets, not the sole reason, but still a reason.

We keep our bathroom windows open all day, the smell is gone within 2 minutes of flushing, and if your toilet doesn't have a window, it should have an extractor fan.

Happyjoe · 09/09/2026 23:27

Dozer · 09/09/2026 23:23

WTF is poopouri? Is it a real product or is it a new form of 💩 trollerie

It may be that stuff that does a film on the surface of the water? Something like that. No idea if works tho!

OneOpalOwl · 09/09/2026 23:27

I’ve never ever bought air freshener, and I’ve never noticed any in the bathrooms of my family and friends!

Happyjoe · 09/09/2026 23:26

I have a cat, no air fresheners here. There's really bad for animal health, really bad.

Years ago I babysat next doors dog for a week when they got let down last mo for a sitter, I felt so sorry for that dog though. Plug in air freshener in every room. I turned them all off, bloomin stank, was choking me and far worse than the smell of a dog.

Mandarinaduck · 09/09/2026 23:25

Don't think I've ever bought an air freshener in my life. Never occurred to me. I think that kind of thing is a waste of money and not very eco friendly or healthy.

Dozer · 09/09/2026 23:23

WTF is poopouri? Is it a real product or is it a new form of 💩 trollerie

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