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AIBU to expect air freshener in toilets when visiting friends?

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HangryBrickShark · 09/09/2026 23:11

Is there an expectation that people's toilets should have an air freshener in? Like a spray air freshener?

We always have air freshener in both our toilets in case friends or family get caught short when visiting us or even to freshen the bathroom after having a wee if necessary, so I hate it if I go to a friend/family members house and they have none.

I get some people may be affected by asthma but surely if you had asthma you wouldn't use it?

We have a glade air freshener at work that sprays into the space where the wash handbasins are for example.

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Autumnallaround · 10/09/2026 07:58

Tallestone · 10/09/2026 07:57

i can't be around sprays I can't breathe. Dp has to go in a different room to spray his deodorant.I can't think of anything worse than that an air freshener spray in the bathroom

My DH after many years of my moaning, switched to a roll on. And the house smells much better!

bananaobama · 10/09/2026 07:58

Nope: i hate the stuff

the window is usually open

Tallestone · 10/09/2026 07:57

i can't be around sprays I can't breathe. Dp has to go in a different room to spray his deodorant.I can't think of anything worse than that an air freshener spray in the bathroom

NancyThompson · 10/09/2026 07:57

Air fresheners smell worse than shit and give me a headache, so no. Plus with an open window, the whole thing can be relatively discreet, spraying that stuff announces to the world "I have just done a massive stinky shit".

Keeptoiletssafe · 10/09/2026 07:57

To be honest, after researching toilet safety for the last few years, if I saw an old fashioned air freshener unit pointing in my direction, I would be checking to see if it had a hidden camera in it.

Don’t know anyone who uses them.

EmeraldShamrock000 · 10/09/2026 07:56

I don’t know how much people are shitting or what kind of food you’re eating needing a toilet brush after using the toilet, is it really necessary after use? I have a toilet brush that was used for cleaning the bathroom on its weekly deep clean.
If so, put a layer on tissue into the toilet before using it.

queenofsky · 10/09/2026 07:54

honestly, it's so weird that people prefer to risk their health with synthetic chemicals vs put up with a temporary bad smell.

Alwayswonderedwhy · 10/09/2026 07:54

Yabu. Air fresheners smell horrible and are bad for us & the environment. Just open the window.

TheSunIsAlwaysThere · 10/09/2026 07:53

My son insisted I buy a toilet brush when we moved house. I'd always just put bleach down. My then husband said that wasn't cleaning the loo, just covering the poo.

I also have asthma and pets so wouldn't have any sprays. I did try the coloured tablets in the cistern but it's too much faff to take the lid off and I wouldn't bother again. I used diffusers as my bathroom is tiny and I wanted the house to smell nice but they are finished and the hose smells fine now. For those saying they just use bleach and when it's mentioned as for health and environmental reasons, isn't bleach as bad?

Sassylovesbooks · 10/09/2026 07:52

I don't use spray air fresheners simply because we have a cat, and some can be toxic. The plugin ones can be even more toxic for animals.

MurkyMo · 10/09/2026 07:50

I'd be hoping they'd remove the revolting toxic chemical "air fresheners". Air destroyers more like.

beAsensible1 · 10/09/2026 07:48

No, just open the window and close the door

Bryonny84 · 10/09/2026 07:46

hotmumshit · 09/09/2026 23:13

Yanbu tbh

Theres this tiktokker who i love and think is amazing, but she refuses to have a toilet brush! I'm like, what if someone (usually a man) has no choice but to poop in your toilet and finds he cant clean it?! 😩😩😩

Men clean toilets? Dates and times please🤣

DrumsPleaseFab · 10/09/2026 07:46

I do not know what is in them but they are a migraine trigger for me

our toilet has a large window which w open to freshen the air

that way you get actual fresh air 😁😁😁

SleepingisanArt · 10/09/2026 07:45

OP would hate my house! No air freshener, no reed diffusers, no bowls of pot pourri, no scented candles - nothing that will affect my breathing or give my husband a migraine. We have managed almost 40 years of marriage without having any of the above in our home. Never needed it despite having raised children and had cats who became very elderly!

Londonrach1 · 10/09/2026 07:45

Yabu. Some people don't like the chemicals in the air. Their toilet their choice.

ItsAlwaysTwins · 10/09/2026 07:40

Frequency · 10/09/2026 06:49

Off topic, but do people often shit in other people's loos? If so, I envy you. I have shy bowels. I physically cannot poo anywhere but my own loo; even if I really need to go, it just refuses to come out. It makes for some very uncomfortable workdays if I don't manage my morning poo.

Never! I don’t have shy bowels, I have incredibly polite ones. Unless you have bowel issues, and I feel incredibly sorry for anyone who does, there’s just no need.

MassivelyOverstimulated · 10/09/2026 07:38

Air fresheners, scented candles, diffusers are essentially chemicals. It’s thought they can interfere with your hormones and cause health issues. Once I read that it even made me question perfume. And I honestly wish I hadn’t read it, because I bloody love a scented candle.

Sartre · 10/09/2026 07:36

Frequency · 10/09/2026 06:49

Off topic, but do people often shit in other people's loos? If so, I envy you. I have shy bowels. I physically cannot poo anywhere but my own loo; even if I really need to go, it just refuses to come out. It makes for some very uncomfortable workdays if I don't manage my morning poo.

Same but some people have conditions so can’t help it. Not having a window in a bathroom is disgusting.

ItsAlwaysTwins · 10/09/2026 07:36

Shit plus noxious air freshener results in a terrible, noisome pong. I know this from growing up with a dad who’d have a long a stinky dump, then liberally spray the downstairs loo with Glade or the like.

I have never bought a spray air freshener in my life.

TheOccupier · 10/09/2026 07:35

Air freshener is frightfully common/non-U so you won't find much support for it on Mumsnet! I don't know anyone who has it in their home. Open the window, make sure the extractor fan works, and in extremis, light a match.

isitfridayyetttt · 10/09/2026 07:34

Whenthecriwdsayno · 10/09/2026 07:29

Some peoples poo doesn’t smell. It hits the water quick and is flushed away.

You couldn’t tell that I have done a poo there is no after smell unless I’m ill with the runs or something.

There are some people who leave clouds of poo smell in the toilet but it’s normally men or women with bowel issues.

Trust Mumsnetters to have perfect poos

Whenthecriwdsayno · 10/09/2026 07:31

Also not every family leaves skid marks going down the toilet. I also have no toilet brush and there doesn’t seem to be marks.

Whenthecriwdsayno · 10/09/2026 07:29

Some peoples poo doesn’t smell. It hits the water quick and is flushed away.

You couldn’t tell that I have done a poo there is no after smell unless I’m ill with the runs or something.

There are some people who leave clouds of poo smell in the toilet but it’s normally men or women with bowel issues.

EgregiouslyOverdressed · 10/09/2026 07:28

I've never bought a spray air freshener in my forty-three years and I'm not going to start now. Open the window.

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