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AIBU to expect air freshener in toilets when visiting friends?

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HangryBrickShark · 09/09/2026 23:11

Is there an expectation that people's toilets should have an air freshener in? Like a spray air freshener?

We always have air freshener in both our toilets in case friends or family get caught short when visiting us or even to freshen the bathroom after having a wee if necessary, so I hate it if I go to a friend/family members house and they have none.

I get some people may be affected by asthma but surely if you had asthma you wouldn't use it?

We have a glade air freshener at work that sprays into the space where the wash handbasins are for example.

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Swissmeringue · 10/09/2026 10:18

YABU, they don't mask the smell they just add an awful, cloying artificial scent over the top of the poo scent. Crack a window and get some fresh air instead. I don't think I've ever bought air freshener.

quirkychick · 10/09/2026 10:15

Another asthmatic here, aerosols are a trigger. We have a window, automatic extractor fan, ecover toilet cleaner/brush and tea tree oil (if you sprinkle a few drops in the loo it cuts through any smell).

bearbeatcheesesticks · 10/09/2026 10:15

mymswashing · 10/09/2026 00:06

Am I the only odd one that doesn’t have a window? People keep saying open one, I’ve got two bathrooms and neither have windows
none of the toilets at work have windows either

Same here - two bathrooms, neither have a window (both have extractor fans though). No air fresheners!

Tryagain26 · 10/09/2026 10:12

Many people dislike artificial air Freshers. Your expectation about other people's homes is unreasonable and a little bit strange

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 10/09/2026 10:10

grumpygrape · 09/09/2026 23:16

Carry a box of matches with you. Brilliant for neutralising any nasty nifs.

This is the best!

Purplebunnie · 10/09/2026 10:06

mymswashing · 10/09/2026 00:06

Am I the only odd one that doesn’t have a window? People keep saying open one, I’ve got two bathrooms and neither have windows
none of the toilets at work have windows either

No we don't have a window in our downstairs loo.

60sbird · 10/09/2026 10:02

I do have one of those room fresheners that spray every few minutes in my toilet but only because my cat litter tray is in there, I don’t have any in my other bathrooms, to be fair i probably wouldn’t even notice if there was an air freshener in anyone else’s toilet

Peonies12 · 10/09/2026 10:01

No we don’t have them because you are literally spraying chemical into your body. Why should anyone be embarrassed about smells it’s normal. Open the window

ThisDandyWriter · 10/09/2026 10:01

hotmumshit · 09/09/2026 23:13

Yanbu tbh

Theres this tiktokker who i love and think is amazing, but she refuses to have a toilet brush! I'm like, what if someone (usually a man) has no choice but to poop in your toilet and finds he cant clean it?! 😩😩😩

I would never, ever have a toilet brush, ever.

I think they are the most disgusting and unhygienic things ever.

If there is a skid, someone can use toilet paper to wipe off their own shit from the bowl (or aim better).

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 10/09/2026 10:00

grumpygrape · 09/09/2026 23:16

Carry a box of matches with you. Brilliant for neutralising any nasty nifs.

It's like a tip in Vizz but they suggested masking the smell by setting fire to the hand towel Grin

<Don't Try This At Home>

backformoreofthesame · 10/09/2026 10:00

Open a window and give your lungs a break
and go and read the research on how all these chemicals are harmful

venus7 · 10/09/2026 09:59

Happyjoe · 09/09/2026 23:49

So you use a brush - how do you clean the brush? How do you clean the bacteria in the loo? How do you stop dribbling bits of poopy water all over the seat while you put the brush part back in it's container?

Lift the seat, of course. What do you mean by 'clean the bacteria'. Kill it? You're not drinking it, there will be some bacteria around. The bathroom is not an operating theatre.

WaneyEdge · 10/09/2026 09:57

hotmumshit · 09/09/2026 23:13

Yanbu tbh

Theres this tiktokker who i love and think is amazing, but she refuses to have a toilet brush! I'm like, what if someone (usually a man) has no choice but to poop in your toilet and finds he cant clean it?! 😩😩😩

You can get things that fizz and foam up. Like a bath bomb for a toilet. We have them, do still have a loo brush though!

MrsShawnHatosy · 10/09/2026 09:53

Usefuladvice · 09/09/2026 23:14

YABU.
And not to be that person, air fresheners are awful for the environment.

They are not brilliant for people to inhale either. We don’t have one but we do have a window that anyone is welcome to open should they think it necessary.

BlackRowan · 10/09/2026 09:48

NerrSnerr · 10/09/2026 09:33

You know everyone poos right?

I know everyone poos but I don’t want to be smelling it

Tortephant · 10/09/2026 09:44

if your wee is that smelly then you should change your diet or speak to your doctor.

BrezhnevsLuxuriantEyebrows · 10/09/2026 09:41

Netcurtainnelly · 10/09/2026 09:36

We have air fresher. Thought everyone would. Who wants a shitty smell in the bathroom or toilet . It's kind of nice for the next person not to go in when there's a smell.
Yanbu.

Do you ever go out in the rain and become utterly astonished when you get wet? Why would anybody be surprised to go into a toilet and find that it smells like a toilet?

If the possibility of encountering a bit of a lingerer in the air bothers people so much, send your butler in first with an industrial hoover.

PramsEar · 10/09/2026 09:40

@HangryBrickShark you asked “I get some people may be affected by asthma but surely if you had asthma you wouldn't use it?”

My asthma is triggered by strong sprays like air freshers. The smell isn’t contained within the bathroom.

Even if I don’t use it, if other people do it still triggers my asthma.

Much rather people open the window, shut the loo lid and close the bathroom door.

ClearFruit · 10/09/2026 09:40

BMW58 · 09/09/2026 23:12

You are, quite frankly, weird.

FPNI

Netcurtainnelly · 10/09/2026 09:36

We have air fresher. Thought everyone would. Who wants a shitty smell in the bathroom or toilet . It's kind of nice for the next person not to go in when there's a smell.
Yanbu.

NerrSnerr · 10/09/2026 09:33

LuckyTraybake · 09/09/2026 23:14

i totally get this!!

I would not want to use a bathroom for a poo if there was no air freshener!

I don’t think it’s weird at all! More weird to not care if people smell your toilet deposits imo🤣

You know everyone poos right?

runnerducky · 10/09/2026 09:32

Nothing nicer than hearing someone liberally spray air freshener around thus announcing they have done a rancid shit, then opening the door to the fruity aroma of artificial flowers and pine mixed with faeces. Just give me the shit without the fanfare and without the chemical flowers, it’s all gross. Or stock VIPoo instead. It’s the only thing that actually works (or one of the various alternatives).

isitfridayyetttt · 10/09/2026 09:19

BrezhnevsLuxuriantEyebrows · 10/09/2026 09:13

Even more efficient, just curl it straight into a metal bucket and then light it and kill it with fire at the source.

stick the match up your bum, no smell at all then

Additup · 10/09/2026 09:17

hotmumshit · 09/09/2026 23:13

Yanbu tbh

Theres this tiktokker who i love and think is amazing, but she refuses to have a toilet brush! I'm like, what if someone (usually a man) has no choice but to poop in your toilet and finds he cant clean it?! 😩😩😩

What am I reading? Why would it be a problem if someone pooed in your loo ? It's what a loo is for. A loo is definitely my place of choice to do a poo.

As for toilet brushes, imo they're nasty and unhygienic imo. I clean the loo with my hand and a tissue/cleaning fluid.

BrezhnevsLuxuriantEyebrows · 10/09/2026 09:16

I can only assume that the people who firmly believe powerful artificial smells to be the solution to natural noxious niffs have never walked within half a mile of the entrance to a Lush shop.

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