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AIBU to expect air freshener in toilets when visiting friends?

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HangryBrickShark · 09/09/2026 23:11

Is there an expectation that people's toilets should have an air freshener in? Like a spray air freshener?

We always have air freshener in both our toilets in case friends or family get caught short when visiting us or even to freshen the bathroom after having a wee if necessary, so I hate it if I go to a friend/family members house and they have none.

I get some people may be affected by asthma but surely if you had asthma you wouldn't use it?

We have a glade air freshener at work that sprays into the space where the wash handbasins are for example.

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FarmersBlonde · 11/09/2026 18:24

TheThirteenthFairy · 11/09/2026 16:05

It really does depend on what you eat or drink. Entirely breast fed babies' poo is odourless, then as foods are added the smells begin, and if you pay attention you will find the odour alters with what they eat. I was amazed to know a person who didn't stink the place out but they walk among us, they really do. I wish there were more of them.

I could smell both of my children’s poos when they were breastfed but I have a very keen sense of smell. It smells a bit oaty. YMMV. It really does depend on the person as my husband could never smell it even when I could. Where I work currently I have been told my sense of smell is amazing (unfortunately for me!). I’m also one of them super taster people if it’s at all linked. 🤷🏼‍♀️

Anarchy99 · 11/09/2026 17:31

Pedant61 · 11/09/2026 17:18

Air fresheners of any type are vile, and smell far worse than the natural aromas they are intended to disguise. I never buy them, and I won't buy them.
A window can be opened, if necessary.

Not if there isn’t one…

And given the way most MNers react to the smell of anything, I’m surprised that they would rather have the smell of shit in their home

Pedant61 · 11/09/2026 17:18

Air fresheners of any type are vile, and smell far worse than the natural aromas they are intended to disguise. I never buy them, and I won't buy them.
A window can be opened, if necessary.

TheThirteenthFairy · 11/09/2026 17:16

Seajaye · 11/09/2026 08:19

Put the extractor fan on. Ventilation is a requirement under building regs so all windowless bathrooms should have one.

Some extractor fans are realy loud, too loud for talking to be heard, So you sit there, waiting for it to stop . . . Not a lot of fun.

aterriblemiddleclassfanny · 11/09/2026 17:10

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I am really hoping that this is a take on the great quote often attributed to Churchill 😆

suburburban · 11/09/2026 16:13

We use old perfume or aftershave as air freshener in the bathroom but always open the window

TheThirteenthFairy · 11/09/2026 16:05

FarmersBlonde · 10/09/2026 07:59

You can’t smell your own shit. It’s a thing.

It really does depend on what you eat or drink. Entirely breast fed babies' poo is odourless, then as foods are added the smells begin, and if you pay attention you will find the odour alters with what they eat. I was amazed to know a person who didn't stink the place out but they walk among us, they really do. I wish there were more of them.

Anarchy99 · 11/09/2026 16:01

TheThirteenthFairy · 11/09/2026 15:54

Wipes are flushable the way a watch or necklace is flushable. It will vanish round the bend but will not dissolve.

Exactly - a huge blockage in the sewer is exactly what the environment needs.

TheThirteenthFairy · 11/09/2026 15:54

Enigma54 · 10/09/2026 06:45

Agree with @NibliaBiblia even said
“ flushable” wipes, are not. Be prepared to call DynoRod, in the future, if you keep chucking wipes down your loo!

Wipes are flushable the way a watch or necklace is flushable. It will vanish round the bend but will not dissolve.

TheThirteenthFairy · 11/09/2026 15:52

Frequency · 10/09/2026 06:38

You might be allergic if they give you headaches. I'm allergic to some fragrances (and all aerosols), and one of the symptoms is migraines. We do use some fragranced things because I know what I will react to and what I won't. Floral scents affect me more than things like linen, cotton, or vanilla. I can't be around any of those plug-in things, but some reed diffusers, candles, and some Zoflora fragrances are fine.

To the person who sprays poo pouri, I'd be really pissed off if you did that in my house. If you need to shit in my loo fine, it's natural, we all do it, but please refrain from trying to kill me in my own home. And some fragrances are really bad for pets. I'd much rather smell your shit than have you poison my cat.

You don't spray it into the air, silly ~ it's no good there!. You hold it close to the water and spray.

FairLemonNewt · 11/09/2026 15:48

Yuk. Air fresheners are revolting, and make a bathroom that smells of poo just smell like poo with air freshener. I've never seen one in anyone's bathroom.

BewareOfTheFakes · 11/09/2026 15:10

Sickly sweet flowery shit smells worse than just shit.

Our bathroom window is permanently open until the deep depths of winter. At which point a splash of bleach round the loo afterwards does the job of neutralising the smell.

Whaaaatszuuup · 11/09/2026 14:54

I can’t remember the last time I even saw an air freshener. I don’t know anybody who has them.

BrezhnevsLuxuriantEyebrows · 11/09/2026 14:46

Woodfiresareamazing2 · 11/09/2026 12:57

Not going to RTFT so apologies if this is a repeat...

Top tip is to flush the loo after pooping, before wiping/getting up. Most of the smell will have gone. Flush again to get rid of loo paper.

Obviously I only do this when using public loos, or in others' houses, before people have a go at me for wasting water...

But if you flush whilst you're still sitting down, you experience the 'Poseidon's Kiss' effect!

TheThirteenthFairy · 11/09/2026 14:45

HangryBrickShark · 09/09/2026 23:36

We're on holiday at the moment and stopping in a large caravan with two loos, and not having anyone visit. But we have an air freshener in each toilet that we brought from home. I hate toilet smells.

For those that say their shit doesn't smell, are you serious??? Of course it does! 😅

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I can assure you that shit doesn't always smell ~ or doesn't smell much. I've noticed that those who eat red meat are very whiffy; and people whose diet includes a lot of processed meat, or drink spirits. A diet heavy in fast food will produce strong smelling poops. Also some illnesses, like food poisoning, produce identifiable odours.

AlwaysExtraHot · 11/09/2026 14:43

Happyjoe · 09/09/2026 23:27

It may be that stuff that does a film on the surface of the water? Something like that. No idea if works tho!

That's what it is. I do think it makes a difference, although wouldn't say it eliminates niffs.

TheThirteenthFairy · 11/09/2026 14:35

Happyjoe · 09/09/2026 23:27

It may be that stuff that does a film on the surface of the water? Something like that. No idea if works tho!

It works very well indeed!

TheThirteenthFairy · 11/09/2026 14:31

Air fresheners do not 'freshen' the air. Use one and you'll still be smelling shit ~ plus a sickly, cloying artificial 'fragrance'. You're doomed, folks.

Zimunya · 11/09/2026 13:43

hotmumshit · 09/09/2026 23:13

Yanbu tbh

Theres this tiktokker who i love and think is amazing, but she refuses to have a toilet brush! I'm like, what if someone (usually a man) has no choice but to poop in your toilet and finds he cant clean it?! 😩😩😩

Toilet paper and bleach works well.

Anarchy99 · 11/09/2026 13:41

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As long as you don’t pretend to object to the air freshener on the basis of the environment 🤷‍♀️

MaggieMop · 11/09/2026 13:20

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Woodfiresareamazing2 · 11/09/2026 12:57

Not going to RTFT so apologies if this is a repeat...

Top tip is to flush the loo after pooping, before wiping/getting up. Most of the smell will have gone. Flush again to get rid of loo paper.

Obviously I only do this when using public loos, or in others' houses, before people have a go at me for wasting water...

SillyPiccalilli · 11/09/2026 12:33

Personally I don't like air fresheners, they're synthetic, exist to mask smells not remove them. I'd prefer just a clean house, and an open window if needed than fresheners, candles and diffusers everywhere. I therefore am not wasting my money buying air fresheners on the off chance that a guest, who doesn't live here, might want to use it.

Mainly posting though in response to all those saying they'd rather have a toilet brush to clean up...this horrifies me. To me the toilet brush is for general cleaning, not for scraping up your skid marks - the water will literally wash them away, just leave it. I would find it absolutely grim if I found my toilet brush caked in a guests shit next time I came to clean my bathroom.

Lentilcakes · 11/09/2026 12:06

No I don’t.

BrezhnevsLuxuriantEyebrows · 11/09/2026 12:06

teraculum29 · 11/09/2026 11:24

Judging by the comments, all people shite smell of roses so they don't need use air freshners lol

i have ibs, you would't want to go toilet after me.
so yes air fresheners all the way

But they don't actually work - they just add the (fake) smell of Spring Meadow to the smell of honking turd!

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