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AIBU to be concerned about young children on council-provided school bus with no adult supervision?

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Gertrudethechicken · 09/09/2026 20:31

My DD is 5 and has recently started travelling to/from school on a council-provided school bus. There is a driver, but apparently no passenger assistant/chaperone on the bus. Yesterday she told me that an older boy on the bus tried to spill his juice over her. She said he was deliberately trying to do it, rather than it being an accident.
I know children messing around on buses isn’t exactly unusual, and I’m not suggesting this particular incident is some huge safeguarding crisis. But it has made me think about the fact that she’s only 5, travelling with considerably older children, and there doesn’t appear to be anyone supervising them other than the driver.
The driver obviously needs to concentrate on driving, so realistically they can’t be watching what’s happening further back on the bus.
I’m wondering whether I’m being unreasonable to think that a bus carrying 5-year-olds alongside older children should have some form of adult supervision? She’s my first so fully prepared to be told I’m being precious or over the top.

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EugeniaVictoria · 09/09/2026 21:22

I went on a school bus from the age of 4 through to 16. there was never a chaperone, just a driver. Some days were like Lord of the Flies.

But that was the 90s…

Gertrudethechicken · 09/09/2026 21:18

BirdLandedonmyHead · 09/09/2026 20:33

Its not safe for the driver really.

I get the feeling the driver actively tries to stay out of it. I suppose it’s not his job.

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PressTheSwitch · 09/09/2026 21:09

I went in the council funded school bus for both primary and secondary school - many moons ago - and there was always an assistant sat at the front of the bus alongside the driver. I can only assume they’ve cut-costs now.

Gertrudethechicken · 09/09/2026 20:51

Timeforachange26 · 09/09/2026 20:33

Not sure why.

I can remember when the council school bus only took 5 and 6 year olds. And from 7 upwards they had to get the public bus. Even 2 years ago my dgc used to be on the school transport minibus without an adult supervisor from the age of 4 till 7

Why not just tell your dd to move?

Edited

No public bus. Very rural area.

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hopspot · 09/09/2026 20:47

I think it’s common not to have a chaperone. I guess it makes it much more expensive! Most families in my school generally take very young children themselves and they only travel in the taxi or bus when they’re a bit older

AppropriateAdult · 09/09/2026 20:36

Timeforachange26 · 09/09/2026 20:33

Not sure why.

I can remember when the council school bus only took 5 and 6 year olds. And from 7 upwards they had to get the public bus. Even 2 years ago my dgc used to be on the school transport minibus without an adult supervisor from the age of 4 till 7

Why not just tell your dd to move?

Edited

Telling a 5yo to just move away from the bully targeting her in a closed space is not the solution here. These buses should have an adult supervising.

Timeforachange26 · 09/09/2026 20:33

Not sure why.

I can remember when the council school bus only took 5 and 6 year olds. And from 7 upwards they had to get the public bus. Even 2 years ago my dgc used to be on the school transport minibus without an adult supervisor from the age of 4 till 7

Why not just tell your dd to move?

BirdLandedonmyHead · 09/09/2026 20:33

Its not safe for the driver really.