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To call in sick?

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iminpain · 09/09/2026 07:50

I’m on my first day back at work after 10 days annual leave.

I was walking down the road this morning when I rolled my ankle and fell, I have horrific grazes on my knee and elbow, and my ankle is swelling up hugely and is painful even at rest.

AIBU to turn up, explain what’s happened and go home? When I’m cleaned up I could probably work but I’m in so much pain at the moment I feel sick, I have two fresh grazes that are about to bleed through my clothes and I don’t know whether the adrenaline carried me to the bus or if I can walk.

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MatriarchCaz · 09/09/2026 15:37

Glad you went, I thought as much with the swelling etc. I had a fractured fibula and avulsion fracture caused by virtually the same thing. I had to have a cast for 6 weeks.

I would see if you can get a fracture boot at least to give it a rest when you need to walk. Take care x

Washingupdone · 09/09/2026 15:33

Back in the 60s when I broke my big toe, my company sent a car to collect me because I had agreed to work instead of staying at home

Xkk · 09/09/2026 15:31

I rolled up my ankle once (I was at work) and got very swollen and painfull. Boss sent me home but I could't see what good would do as I was desk based. It hurt driving as I comute but with Ibuprofen I was ok even if I looked ridiculous with my swollen ankle. So I stayed at work but not 2 injuries are the same so will not compare. Do what you think is right, if your gut tells you to stay or go home you go home. Don't listen to the tough keyboard warriors, listen to your body.

iminpain · 09/09/2026 15:31

Thirteenblackcats · 09/09/2026 15:14

Was twit a typo?

Nah, twat felt a bit mean 🤣

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iminpain · 09/09/2026 15:30

WattThreeWords · 09/09/2026 15:26

My sister wasn’t allowed to drive her automatic even though it was also her left ankle. She wasn’t allowed to drive for 6 weeks by order of the doc.

Argh! He didn’t mention not driving so I’m hoping it’s okay?

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WattThreeWords · 09/09/2026 15:26

iminpain · 09/09/2026 15:13

What’s with all the questions?

Yes my manager is aware. I’ll have to see about work, I may well borrow my mum’s car as it’s my left leg and the car is automatic!

My sister wasn’t allowed to drive her automatic even though it was also her left ankle. She wasn’t allowed to drive for 6 weeks by order of the doc.

WattThreeWords · 09/09/2026 15:25

iminpain · 09/09/2026 14:59

I have no idea. It’s called an avulsion fracture and treatment is like a severe sprain, so rest and ice.

Ha! I diagnosed you correctly! Go me!

spiderlight · 09/09/2026 15:23

Sorry it's fractured but I'm glad you've been seen and given advice. Make sure you let your boss know it's fractured and go really easy on it while it's healing - ankles are fickle beasts. Have they given you a boot or anything?

Frostynoman · 09/09/2026 15:19

Glad that you got it checked out. It sounded nasty

Dontmentionitlove · 09/09/2026 15:19

iminpain · 09/09/2026 15:13

What’s with all the questions?

Yes my manager is aware. I’ll have to see about work, I may well borrow my mum’s car as it’s my left leg and the car is automatic!

Because you were very concerned about work
so now you have news I was just asking about thoughts re work
how did your manager respond?

Yogafiend · 09/09/2026 15:18

iminpain · 09/09/2026 08:50

A man wouldn’t come in and would be in bed for a week resting the sprain!

🤣🤣. Not sure what man you’re taking about. Years ago my husband did a similar injury to yours and he’s ankle was all swollen and black and blue and he didn’t take any time off work. Went to work in London (q hour commute) however I would say it never did heal properly and it gives him some trouble now and again.

edited to say - just seen your update my husband had a fracture too! It is really painful. I hope you heal.

Thirteenblackcats · 09/09/2026 15:14

iminpain · 09/09/2026 15:11

I’ve got a fracture you twit

Was twit a typo?

RampantIvy · 09/09/2026 15:13

iminpain · 09/09/2026 15:11

I’ve got a fracture you twit

The twit should have read your update. I hope you heal quickly 💐

Thirteenblackcats · 09/09/2026 15:13

iminpain · 09/09/2026 14:53

Well I’ve never been seen that quickly in all my life! I arrived at 2, I’ve been x-rayed and discharged. I’ve got a very small fracture and need to rest for 4 weeks

Thank goodness you were seen so quickly but sorry to hear you have fractured it. Some people on this thread (and your boss) should hang their heads in shame

iminpain · 09/09/2026 15:13

Dontmentionitlove · 09/09/2026 15:12

Have you told your manager yet? How will you get to work??

What’s with all the questions?

Yes my manager is aware. I’ll have to see about work, I may well borrow my mum’s car as it’s my left leg and the car is automatic!

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Patriciastaser · 09/09/2026 15:12

iminpain · 09/09/2026 15:11

I’ve got a fracture you twit

Great response! I hope you feel better soon.

Dontmentionitlove · 09/09/2026 15:12

iminpain · 09/09/2026 15:11

He said basically weight baring to what is comfortable, sensible shoes and no running or hiking (I had actually had a hike planned 😢) and to keep it elevated at work for a week

Have you told your manager yet? How will you get to work??

iminpain · 09/09/2026 15:11

thicklysettled · 09/09/2026 15:05

Truthfully, I think you need to pull yourself together and get on with your day. Have a cup of tea and a paracetamol. And move on.

I’ve got a fracture you twit

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iminpain · 09/09/2026 15:11

Dontmentionitlove · 09/09/2026 15:01

But you need to know presumably ? Otherwise what will happen tomorrow? Did they mean you need to keep weight off it as much as possible?

Or just not engage in any sport?

He said basically weight baring to what is comfortable, sensible shoes and no running or hiking (I had actually had a hike planned 😢) and to keep it elevated at work for a week

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Brighton2019 · 09/09/2026 15:07

thicklysettled · 09/09/2026 15:05

Truthfully, I think you need to pull yourself together and get on with your day. Have a cup of tea and a paracetamol. And move on.

Op has just been seen at A&E and has a fracture so...

thicklysettled · 09/09/2026 15:05

Truthfully, I think you need to pull yourself together and get on with your day. Have a cup of tea and a paracetamol. And move on.

ruethewhirl · 09/09/2026 15:02

iminpain · 09/09/2026 10:45

It’s already coming up like a balloon!!! I’m a bit more worried now but we’re so understaffed, I can’t go to a&e now!

I'm glad you did go! There are times when we just need to put our personal wellbeing first even if work aren't happy. Hopefully your manager will wind their neck in now you know it's a fracture.

Rest up, and I hope you've got some decent pain relief now!

Dontmentionitlove · 09/09/2026 15:01

iminpain · 09/09/2026 14:59

I have no idea. It’s called an avulsion fracture and treatment is like a severe sprain, so rest and ice.

But you need to know presumably ? Otherwise what will happen tomorrow? Did they mean you need to keep weight off it as much as possible?

Or just not engage in any sport?

iminpain · 09/09/2026 14:59

Dontmentionitlove · 09/09/2026 14:54

What does that mean for work? Can you WFH?

I have no idea. It’s called an avulsion fracture and treatment is like a severe sprain, so rest and ice.

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Dontmentionitlove · 09/09/2026 14:54

iminpain · 09/09/2026 14:53

Well I’ve never been seen that quickly in all my life! I arrived at 2, I’ve been x-rayed and discharged. I’ve got a very small fracture and need to rest for 4 weeks

What does that mean for work? Can you WFH?