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AIBU to want to express support for women who were assaulted at a political conference?

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Warmlight1 · 08/09/2026 21:41

To want to send out support to the two women visibly assaulted at a political conference.
I am concerned about the other protesters too and actually anyone who was hurt. But having to listen to jeering from the podium plus the crowd chanting in live TV at the same time must have been so traumatic and the publicity will die down and coverage move on but that can't be easy. Just want to send love and support.

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Fortheloveoffrogs · 11/09/2026 19:24

Warmlight1 · 11/09/2026 19:21

Can one e mail if he isn't your MP? Also applies to Farage.? I do feel Jenrick is diverting us a bit. There have got to be networks in Newark and Clacton who can take this up

Well. I did. I felt I needed to voice my views. But yes. People in Newark and Clacton are best placed.

Warmlight1 · 11/09/2026 19:22

sunintheeast · 10/09/2026 16:42

Did anyone else think they looked like the zombie apocalypse from Shaun of the dead? Deranged cult the lots of them.
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It wasn't a good look that's for sure.

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Warmlight1 · 11/09/2026 19:21

Fortheloveoffrogs · 11/09/2026 17:32

His email is easy to obtain. I have emailed him to complain. Anyone in his constituency should do so as he has to read and respond then.

His constituency is Newark.

He represents you in parliament so if his actions do not represent you then he needs to hear, from as many of you as possible.

Can one e mail if he isn't your MP? Also applies to Farage.? I do feel Jenrick is diverting us a bit. There have got to be networks in Newark and Clacton who can take this up

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Fortheloveoffrogs · 11/09/2026 17:33

pointythings · 10/09/2026 16:41

They're revolting. And so is every poster on this thread who has condoned the attack on this woman. Vile, vile people.

Agree. 100%

Whatever your politics and beliefs, there is no place for intimidation or violence or condoning it. Especially male violence towards women.

Fortheloveoffrogs · 11/09/2026 17:32

Warmlight1 · 10/09/2026 15:53

More of the same - presume Jenrick is trying to divert attention from Farage' s arrest and also from Farage's cultish behaviour which seemed to lead supporters towards perpetrating to the assaults, instead of away from
Gaslighting in the extreme
Reform UK member who hit female protester with crutch 'should get a medal' says Jenrick - The Mirror share.google/iIUE5bFb5M0qi3kBE

His email is easy to obtain. I have emailed him to complain. Anyone in his constituency should do so as he has to read and respond then.

His constituency is Newark.

He represents you in parliament so if his actions do not represent you then he needs to hear, from as many of you as possible.

Raydaye · 11/09/2026 06:58

pointythings · 10/09/2026 16:41

They're revolting. And so is every poster on this thread who has condoned the attack on this woman. Vile, vile people.

Absolutely. It’s shameful.

sunintheeast · 10/09/2026 16:42

hattie43 · 09/09/2026 06:06

Well here’s the thing . Don’t disrupt and enrage people and the chances are you won’t get your hair pulled .

Did anyone else think they looked like the zombie apocalypse from Shaun of the dead? Deranged cult the lots of them.
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pointythings · 10/09/2026 16:41

Warmlight1 · 10/09/2026 15:53

More of the same - presume Jenrick is trying to divert attention from Farage' s arrest and also from Farage's cultish behaviour which seemed to lead supporters towards perpetrating to the assaults, instead of away from
Gaslighting in the extreme
Reform UK member who hit female protester with crutch 'should get a medal' says Jenrick - The Mirror share.google/iIUE5bFb5M0qi3kBE

They're revolting. And so is every poster on this thread who has condoned the attack on this woman. Vile, vile people.

Warmlight1 · 10/09/2026 15:53

More of the same - presume Jenrick is trying to divert attention from Farage' s arrest and also from Farage's cultish behaviour which seemed to lead supporters towards perpetrating to the assaults, instead of away from
Gaslighting in the extreme
Reform UK member who hit female protester with crutch 'should get a medal' says Jenrick - The Mirror share.google/iIUE5bFb5M0qi3kBE

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Fortheloveoffrogs · 10/09/2026 11:17

Warmlight1 · 09/09/2026 20:05

Also immediately allege she ' hurt herself' to try I assume to manage any liability
Could there be liability? At a corporate level?

It’s gaslighting and DARVO on another level. And reminds me of women in the past being labelled insane and put into secure psychiatric hospitals if they reacted to the abuse they were experiencing.

Men with fragile egos, with nothing much of value to bring to the world, reacting to being called out on their own shit behaviour.

Fortheloveoffrogs · 10/09/2026 11:10

BackToLurk · 09/09/2026 20:34

I’m not sure we should assume that the alleged [sic] victims have anything to hide. Maybe they took a glimpse at what the RNLI got a bit of just for doing their job and, having already been on the end of one Reform beating, didn’t fancy any more punishment. But yes, let’s hope the law takes its course and no one feels too intimidated to let that happen.

And the police have enough for an arrest without the victim. The footage and witnesses would be enough.

LuckyHazelFox · 10/09/2026 07:13

Shakeoffyourchains · 09/09/2026 18:20

Didn't ask for your life story, thanks. Also don't know why you'd be embarrassed by your own posting history?

Again, it not that your views are unpopular, it's that you refuse to defend them. I've asked questions of you in various threads of late and you've either deflected or ignored them.

One thing you seem to be missing here. I was quoted by different posters in quick succession. Make your mind up, do you want me to reply or not? The reason I don't normally acknowledge your questions is because quite frankly, when I see certain usernames tagging me, I know from past experience, not to bother going there. The mistake I made was acknowledging your latest indirect attempt at trying to insinuate there was something suspect about me. I won't be doing that again, you will be ignored.

11AndCounting · 09/09/2026 23:21

This shouldn't happen but, realistically, a woman protesting at an event attended by hourdes of woman-beaters risks being beaten.

Not victim blaming - the protesters are brave doing what they did.

Anyway, hopefully the treasonous scumbags who've been operating the Reform "UK" scam/party will be sharing a cell with their old mate, Nathan Gill, before too long.

Maybe they'll get beaten in prison 🤗

BackToLurk · 09/09/2026 23:13

Clavinova · 09/09/2026 22:01

The heckler has said he was removed by security

The neck-grabbing man looked more like a steward to me rather than security.

Stewarding is contracted out. Maybe you mean delegate.

Its admirable though that you’ve spent so much time highlighting variously a 25-year old case, an MP who was suspended and a young man who may possibly have been grabbed at some point by a party member (although he complained about his treatment by security and the police) to try and minimise a woman being beaten by Reform members, action which failed to be condemned by the leadership (quite the reverse indeed).

Raydaye · 09/09/2026 22:38

Bit off topic but times like this I glad I don’t live in the US.

If a protester/ citizen/politician gets angry or feels threatened the worst thing that’s going to happen is usually going to be fisticuffs which yeah can be fatal - but not as bad as everyone having access to guns which can kill a large number of people very quickly

Clavinova · 09/09/2026 22:28

BackToLurk · 09/09/2026 20:41

The horse is dead. You can stop flogging it now.

The horse revived and set off at a canter Grin

Raydaye · 09/09/2026 22:27

Goldenbear · 09/09/2026 22:26

Apologies, referring to Farmworker and Prescott.

Ah okay no worries! Thanks for clarifying :)

Goldenbear · 09/09/2026 22:26

Raydaye · 09/09/2026 22:25

What? The reform men aren’t getting charged?!

Why ever not?

* Heads to Google to find out what the heck is going on. * 😂

Apologies, referring to Farmworker and Prescott.

SevenYellowHammers · 09/09/2026 22:25

In the interests of accuracy, Prescott’s punch wasn’t the big disgrace for Labour in my view. That came in 2012 when Eric Joyce head butted a conservative MP in the Strangers Bar because thee were “too many Tories in here”. A very poor day for Labour and a good reason to limit the boozing in the H of C.

Raydaye · 09/09/2026 22:25

Goldenbear · 09/09/2026 22:23

Neither one of them was charged with a criminal offence.

What? The reform men aren’t getting charged?!

Why ever not?

* Heads to Google to find out what the heck is going on. * 😂

Goldenbear · 09/09/2026 22:25

Raydaye · 09/09/2026 22:24

I agree about Prescott, but just to be clear I was talking about Amesy in that post.

Oh sorry

Goldenbear · 09/09/2026 22:25

Clavinova · 09/09/2026 22:22

To be fair, you said the Torygraph - which rather confirms they support the Conservative Party.

Well they are both very right wing and Tice's girlfriend writes for the Telegraph so I don't think it's that clear cut anymore. I stated that out of habit.

Raydaye · 09/09/2026 22:24

Goldenbear · 09/09/2026 22:18

Still, Prescott was 63, egged by a muscular 29 year old farm worker!

I agree about Prescott, but just to be clear I was talking about Amesy in that post.

Goldenbear · 09/09/2026 22:23

Raydaye · 09/09/2026 22:19

Ah really! I do admit only skimread a few articles on this.

As I said it’s a terrible situation regardless - but even more so if it actually was due to uncontrollable anger at something he said rather than fear.

I am glad he was convicted! And so should all of the men guilty of violence at the reform conference.

ETA: I’ve just read Amesy was drunk 😣 to be clear drunkenness doesn’t make it better. Makes it worse if anything.

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Neither one of them was charged with a criminal offence.

Clavinova · 09/09/2026 22:22

Goldenbear · 09/09/2026 22:16

It wasn't surprise, I was highlighting confirmation from the Telegraph that they don't align themselves with the Reform voter.

To be fair, you said the Torygraph - which rather confirms they support the Conservative Party.