To ask if my boyfriend doing this last night is ‘normal’?

There was a clip on Holly's insta/podcast the guy got out of the bath took a * and then back in the bath. Why are women putting up with this. Super gross!! They must be zero respect in these relationships. Its disgusting.

I've only ever crapped in front of my husband of 25 years once and that's when I was giving birth!

Is that not an Ick ?

• wonders how many poo stories are on this thread.

This is terminal in my book.

This happened to me. I never got over it. We’re not together anymore.

Blurgh

Gross

With two alternative toilets available? He's trying to mark his territory, like an animal. Please tell us you have ditched this disgusting creature.
p.s. What will be next I wonder: Dutch Ovens, Scratch and Sniff, Snot Rockets, Belching the Alphabet?

It was a test. Been with my partner 15 yes and not needed to do this. If he was apologetic, omg, need to go, that's one thing. Nah, he wants to normalise it

Wouldn't chose I meant!

Did I read some where you have 3 toilets? My bf will use the toilet when I'm in the bath however he has ibs and I'm okay with it (discussion we've had) we live in a flat and have one toilet. It's taken us a couple of years to get to this stage. If we had 3 toilets he definitely would chose to go on the one I'm having a bath in!

What a vile man - and I’d there were other toilets available then this is 10x worse - I hope you dump him.

It's not normal, don't see him this Friday.

Ewww no. My husband and I are very open and relaxed about our bodily functions but even after 20 years together, this would be a hard no. If he was really that desperate, I would expect him to tell me so I could get out the bath and leave the room.

Been with my husband for 26 years, married for 20, never ever has he come in the bathroom whilst im in there for a shit. There have been times when h has knocked on the door and asked if he could have a wee but he doesn’t want to shit in front of me any more than I want him to. Gross!!

I agree that that's much more practical, but at the time we lived in a terraced built before WWI so a sole bathroom with bath, toilet and sink was all that we - and millions of other people - had. I now live in a thirties semi which also only has one bathroom with the toilet in it. DH and I have raised our three DC in this house. So long as everyone respects each other's privacy and is considerate, it's fine. It's when people aren't respectful and considerate that problems arise.

My DH grew up in a 60s semi with the same toilet and bathroom arrangement as you describe. Like you, I remember thinking when I visited that they could have done with having a little washbasin in the toilet room.

There's a reason these people are exs 😂😅 absolutely revolting 🤢😂

When I was a kid we lived in one of those houses that had the toilet in a separate little room to the bathroom. I can never understand why that's not a more common arrangement, much more practical. (Although tbf the toilet room needed a sink in it for hand-washing, there wasn't one so you still needed to go into the bathroom to wash your hands, bit of a design flaw there!)

DH's ex apparently used to leave the door open when she was taking a dump in their ensuite and expect him to chat to her while she was doing it! Apparently he was 'uptight' for wanting her to close the door... 😣

He Chose to have a poo next to you in the bath despite other toilets in the house.

100% LTB

This

Extremely unpleasant. Lock the door, tell him that’ll be the first & last time he does that.

I don't think any animal feels shame - that's just us anthropomorphizing. We can train some of them to do it in a certain place and not in others.

Goats don't. Female goats do what is called a submission urination where they pee right in front of you with eye contact followed by a poo and tail upright. This means they trust you and respect your position in the herd. They will wag their tail of they really like you.
Maybe this is what he was doing. Indicating he really likes OP.😅

Eugh! no no from me!