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To ask if my boyfriend doing this last night is ‘normal’?

527 replies

Helenaslide · 08/09/2026 15:45

I was having a bath last night and he came in and used the loo (no.2). I shouted and asked what he was playing at and he said he has always done this with partners and vice versa as have plenty of people he knows. He stayed for a couple of minutes until he had finished and left laughing.

For context - together 4 months, he was staying at mine last night.

He has said he won’t do it again but I feel a bit humiliated by it tbh.

OP posts:
risingup · 08/09/2026 15:49

It's done now so nothing you can do about it but yes it is revolting.

You've told him not to do it again though so it should be ok from now on.

Consider putting a lock on the bathroom door.

randomchap · 08/09/2026 15:48

Not normal to poo when someone is in the bath. Horrible to do so.

Disrespectful

Unless he's got digestive issues and he warned you beforehand that it's a possibility