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What has JK Rowling said or done that’s transphobic

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Ducketta · 08/09/2026 13:26

Another thread has said that they don’t want their thread to be derailed. Y HK Rowling and morals, so I’ll start one. Can anyone please tell me what JK Rowling has ever said or done that’s transphobic? Please be specific and outline how she has been offensive to trans people and not just been protective women and girls hard fought right to separate single sex spaces.

I cannot find anything whatsoever that she has done wrong. Nothing. Nada. And yet this JK Rowling = queen of transphobia myth persists. And it’s bloody tiresome.

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/09/2026 10:06

I’ve never read the books or seen the films, I might give this new series a watch.

JLou08 · 11/09/2026 10:09

Ducketta · 08/09/2026 13:52

This exactly. There are no examples of her being transphobic.

The belief that someone is born in the wrong body is just that - a belief. There’s no scientific backing to it. I don’t believe in gender identity just like I don’t believe in the teachings of the Catholic Church. It’s doesn’t mean I’m ‘Catholic Church-phobic’. There’s no crime in me saying I think the Catholic Church teachings are nonsense is there? Why the drama about someone thinking gender identity is made up nonsense?

Why create a thread asking what she has said that's transphobic when you've already made your mind up that she isn't? Your thread had only been up about 15 minutes before this comment so there's clearly no genuine curiosity about what she has said or how people view it.

Suchevilforebodings · 11/09/2026 10:10

Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/09/2026 10:06

I’ve never read the books or seen the films, I might give this new series a watch.

The books were great, they are so much funnier and relatable than the films. I absolutely hated those films, there was so much missed out and done completely wrong (I have never actually bothered watching them all the way through after the first two, but have seen many clips, as it's pretty much unaviodable)

sunshine244 · 11/09/2026 10:10

Medicine/Psychology should be seeking to treat underlying causes, not just symptoms without questioning properly first.

Teens with gender dysphoria are statistically significantly more likely to have been abused, be in care, be neurodivergent, have severe mental health issues, have eating disorders, suicidal ideation... Many have numerous of these issues together. The research shows that these are some of the most vulnerable children in our society.

For example, one study found 73% of trans teens had been abused. It's no wonder children who have been abused might think their body is at fault, but changing it won't remove the underlying trauma, it will just create new trauma. There isn't nearly enough support for children's mental health - it's a four year wait for CAMHS here. This is what the focus should be on improving!

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 10:11

Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/09/2026 10:06

I’ve never read the books or seen the films, I might give this new series a watch.

I tried reading the books , many years ago before JKR starting speaking publicly on trans issues. I found them very boring and promptly gave up.

Thechickenhasmypillow · 11/09/2026 10:13

LVPLVT · 11/09/2026 10:03

Do you have any robust evidence to support that claim?

I'm going to follow the general theme of the TRAs on this thread that have failed to even acknowledge my question and say

Trust me bro

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I'm not google. If you want to refute it, look it up.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/09/2026 10:14

I might find them boring too. We all have our own tastes. It doesn’t change how I feel about her amazing advocacy for women and girls, and her ability to cut through all that empty bullshit I mentioned.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 11/09/2026 10:18

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 09:40

I think this is a much more legitimate question, because it moves away from “are trans people deluded (lying, pretending, etc. etc.?)” and onto the actual policy issue: how do we accommodate trans people while also protecting privacy, dignity, safety and sex-segregated settings?

I don’t think recognising trans women as women linguistically, socially or legally requires us to say that birth sex or reproductive anatomy must become irrelevant in every context. It is perfectly possible to be inclusive of trans people while also acknowledging that birth sex and anatomy can matter too. I also don’t think “everyone who says they are a woman must therefore be admitted everywhere women are” is the only possible model. Rules can take account of behaviour, safeguarding, privacy, medical transition, individual risk assessment or the particular purpose of the space.

What I object to is the framing of trans women as inherently deluded, mentally ill, dishonest or predatory, and the idea that their identity is therefore illegitimate and should be disregarded everywhere. I also think policy is moving in a very irrational and troubling direction. I don’t think there is any sound logic or good evidence to support the idea that excluding all trans women from women’s toilets would improve women’s dignity, privacy or safety.

Recognising that trans identity is real does not settle questions about language, toilets, prisons, etc. Those are separate conversations and I think they should be answered on evidence about actual risks and harms rather than by starting from the assumption that trans people are lying, deluded or illegitimate.

You do understand that "how do we accommodate trans people while also protecting privacy, dignity, safety and sex-segregated settings?" Is pretty much exactly what all the conversations have been about? It is you, with your refusal to engage unless a subjective, unknowable and indescribable experience is referred to only in the exact language you will accept (or more accurately, your blatant avoidance of the core questions because you take exception to all the specific words that would allow the question to be clearly posed), that is blocking this real discussion from happening.

It took you 27 pages to finally express exactly what I and many others have been saying for years, because you finally realised the core of this is that female people do exist independently of trans women's self perception, so the
only way to make TWAW true is to undefine the social group of female humans. And even you, I think, finally see that can never be morally justified.

All you have been doing, and I hope you finally realise this, is throwing mud and accusations that get in the way of genuine accommodation.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 11/09/2026 10:19

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 09:40

I think this is a much more legitimate question, because it moves away from “are trans people deluded (lying, pretending, etc. etc.?)” and onto the actual policy issue: how do we accommodate trans people while also protecting privacy, dignity, safety and sex-segregated settings?

I don’t think recognising trans women as women linguistically, socially or legally requires us to say that birth sex or reproductive anatomy must become irrelevant in every context. It is perfectly possible to be inclusive of trans people while also acknowledging that birth sex and anatomy can matter too. I also don’t think “everyone who says they are a woman must therefore be admitted everywhere women are” is the only possible model. Rules can take account of behaviour, safeguarding, privacy, medical transition, individual risk assessment or the particular purpose of the space.

What I object to is the framing of trans women as inherently deluded, mentally ill, dishonest or predatory, and the idea that their identity is therefore illegitimate and should be disregarded everywhere. I also think policy is moving in a very irrational and troubling direction. I don’t think there is any sound logic or good evidence to support the idea that excluding all trans women from women’s toilets would improve women’s dignity, privacy or safety.

Recognising that trans identity is real does not settle questions about language, toilets, prisons, etc. Those are separate conversations and I think they should be answered on evidence about actual risks and harms rather than by starting from the assumption that trans people are lying, deluded or illegitimate.

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FlirtsWithRhinos · 11/09/2026 10:19

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 09:40

I think this is a much more legitimate question, because it moves away from “are trans people deluded (lying, pretending, etc. etc.?)” and onto the actual policy issue: how do we accommodate trans people while also protecting privacy, dignity, safety and sex-segregated settings?

I don’t think recognising trans women as women linguistically, socially or legally requires us to say that birth sex or reproductive anatomy must become irrelevant in every context. It is perfectly possible to be inclusive of trans people while also acknowledging that birth sex and anatomy can matter too. I also don’t think “everyone who says they are a woman must therefore be admitted everywhere women are” is the only possible model. Rules can take account of behaviour, safeguarding, privacy, medical transition, individual risk assessment or the particular purpose of the space.

What I object to is the framing of trans women as inherently deluded, mentally ill, dishonest or predatory, and the idea that their identity is therefore illegitimate and should be disregarded everywhere. I also think policy is moving in a very irrational and troubling direction. I don’t think there is any sound logic or good evidence to support the idea that excluding all trans women from women’s toilets would improve women’s dignity, privacy or safety.

Recognising that trans identity is real does not settle questions about language, toilets, prisons, etc. Those are separate conversations and I think they should be answered on evidence about actual risks and harms rather than by starting from the assumption that trans people are lying, deluded or illegitimate.

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FlirtsWithRhinos · 11/09/2026 10:19

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 09:40

I think this is a much more legitimate question, because it moves away from “are trans people deluded (lying, pretending, etc. etc.?)” and onto the actual policy issue: how do we accommodate trans people while also protecting privacy, dignity, safety and sex-segregated settings?

I don’t think recognising trans women as women linguistically, socially or legally requires us to say that birth sex or reproductive anatomy must become irrelevant in every context. It is perfectly possible to be inclusive of trans people while also acknowledging that birth sex and anatomy can matter too. I also don’t think “everyone who says they are a woman must therefore be admitted everywhere women are” is the only possible model. Rules can take account of behaviour, safeguarding, privacy, medical transition, individual risk assessment or the particular purpose of the space.

What I object to is the framing of trans women as inherently deluded, mentally ill, dishonest or predatory, and the idea that their identity is therefore illegitimate and should be disregarded everywhere. I also think policy is moving in a very irrational and troubling direction. I don’t think there is any sound logic or good evidence to support the idea that excluding all trans women from women’s toilets would improve women’s dignity, privacy or safety.

Recognising that trans identity is real does not settle questions about language, toilets, prisons, etc. Those are separate conversations and I think they should be answered on evidence about actual risks and harms rather than by starting from the assumption that trans people are lying, deluded or illegitimate.

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Lacksie · 11/09/2026 10:20

Thechickenhasmypillow · 11/09/2026 10:13

I'm going to follow the general theme of the TRAs on this thread that have failed to even acknowledge my question and say

Trust me bro

insert wall of word salad here

I'm not google. If you want to refute it, look it up.

I’m not going to be dragged into a completely separate argument about sexual offending statistics. Even if I took your claims at face value (I don't), they arent relevant to the point I was making.

My argument was simply that being trans does not logically require someone to be delusional or mentally ill, and that describing a person’s sense of themselves as “the brain telling them something false” is an oversimplified way of talking about cognition.

I certainly haven’t claimed that trans people have “female brains”. And repeatedly demanding that I explain sexual offending rates is asking me to defend a claim I didn’t make.

If you want to respond to what I actually said, that’s fine. I’m not going to keep following unrelated tangents.

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 10:21

FlirtsWithRhinos · 11/09/2026 10:19

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No I don't accept that characterisation of the general discussion or my contributions to it.

Thechickenhasmypillow · 11/09/2026 10:22

It's not unrelated.

It's taken you about 5 pages of blethering to even acknowledge the question. Several people have asked.

It's ok if you don't know.

LVPLVT · 11/09/2026 10:25

Thechickenhasmypillow · 11/09/2026 10:13

I'm going to follow the general theme of the TRAs on this thread that have failed to even acknowledge my question and say

Trust me bro

insert wall of word salad here

I'm not google. If you want to refute it, look it up.

“Do you have any robust evidence to support that claim?”

That’s a no, then.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 11/09/2026 10:26

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 09:51

Thanks for sharing the screenshot. Even taking it at face value, I don’t think there is enough context there to know exactly what she meant, and certainly not enough evidence to conclude that India Willoughby is literally deluded about her anatomy. A single remark like “show you my cervix” could be rhetorical, sarcastic or imprecise. It doesn’t establish a persistent false belief about what anatomy she has.

There also doesn’t appear to be any contemporaneous reporting or archived copy of the tweet, and it is no longer on her account. If the screenshot is genuine, we cannot know from this alone whether it was a serious literal claim, something said rhetorically or in frustration, or something she later deleted because she realised it was unhelpful.

I certainly don’t think a single unverified screenshot with no context should be relied upon as evidence on which to build a wider argument about trans people as a group.

It's very telling how much evidence you require, and how quick you are to suggest alternative explanations, for facts that don't fit your narrative compared to your absolute confidence in the veracity of trans people's subjective "recognitions" existing in their own right and your absolute rejection of alternative explanations that fit the observed facts equally well.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 11/09/2026 10:28

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 10:21

No I don't accept that characterisation of the general discussion or my contributions to it.

I don't accept your lack of acceptance.

This is my recognition of the experience of your engagement. By your own arguments this makes it a valid fact you need to accept and accomodate.

akkakk · 11/09/2026 10:31

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 10:20

I’m not going to be dragged into a completely separate argument about sexual offending statistics. Even if I took your claims at face value (I don't), they arent relevant to the point I was making.

My argument was simply that being trans does not logically require someone to be delusional or mentally ill, and that describing a person’s sense of themselves as “the brain telling them something false” is an oversimplified way of talking about cognition.

I certainly haven’t claimed that trans people have “female brains”. And repeatedly demanding that I explain sexual offending rates is asking me to defend a claim I didn’t make.

If you want to respond to what I actually said, that’s fine. I’m not going to keep following unrelated tangents.

To see your genitals and believe that you are the opposite sex is not the norm in society…

it is also damaging for the person concerned either in giving them gender incongruence and leaving them unhappy, or potentially leading to unnecessary surgery or medication- in some cases butchering their body…

therefore it is helpful for society to have a way of labelling people in that headspace to then be able to help them and whatever label you choose will be mental health related - delusional is an accurate though sometimes pejorative description - mental health issue is the generic label that society chooses…

it is good for all to have that label

  • it allows the individual to be helped
  • it allows others to see that it is not the norm which can help confirm them in being satisfied with their own body
  • it provides an umbrella under which CAMHS and similar can operate
FlirtsWithRhinos · 11/09/2026 10:31

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 10:20

I’m not going to be dragged into a completely separate argument about sexual offending statistics. Even if I took your claims at face value (I don't), they arent relevant to the point I was making.

My argument was simply that being trans does not logically require someone to be delusional or mentally ill, and that describing a person’s sense of themselves as “the brain telling them something false” is an oversimplified way of talking about cognition.

I certainly haven’t claimed that trans people have “female brains”. And repeatedly demanding that I explain sexual offending rates is asking me to defend a claim I didn’t make.

If you want to respond to what I actually said, that’s fine. I’m not going to keep following unrelated tangents.

This is only true in your recognition, because you insist on a rigid and personal definition of "delusional" that you are using to avoid dealing with the core questions.

Your personal rules around the word may be true to you but are highly debatable.

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 10:32

FlirtsWithRhinos · 11/09/2026 10:26

It's very telling how much evidence you require, and how quick you are to suggest alternative explanations, for facts that don't fit your narrative compared to your absolute confidence in the veracity of trans people's subjective "recognitions" existing in their own right and your absolute rejection of alternative explanations that fit the observed facts equally well.

How much evidence I require? You think pointing out that an unverified screenshot of a single tweet, without context, cannot reasonably be relied upon as evidence that an individual is delusional — let alone as the basis for a wider argument about trans people as a group — demonstrates an excessive standard of evidence??

BackToLurk · 11/09/2026 10:34

FlirtsWithRhinos · 11/09/2026 10:26

It's very telling how much evidence you require, and how quick you are to suggest alternative explanations, for facts that don't fit your narrative compared to your absolute confidence in the veracity of trans people's subjective "recognitions" existing in their own right and your absolute rejection of alternative explanations that fit the observed facts equally well.

The veracity of some transpeople's recognitions. Not the ones Lacksie doesn't agree with.

Thechickenhasmypillow · 11/09/2026 10:35

LVPLVT · 11/09/2026 10:25

“Do you have any robust evidence to support that claim?”

That’s a no, then.

Same for the claims being made about brains 😂

All I have to hand is an infographic (for use outside of forums in the real world for standard peaking of men with daughters, surprisingly easy because they know how men think)

You wouldn't accept that, and i really can't be arsed to go looking for peer reviewed stuff right now. You're just a post on a forum

The thread will lock soon, you won't look at anything I post in good faith, it's a waste of my time.

I use forums for entertainment and this has been a blast 😂

JKR stands for women's rights, i admire her, she is articulate and hs put up with horrendous behaviour from the "be nice" crowd.
She is not transphobic.
I can't wait for Hogwarts 2. I hope she uses the money to open another refuge.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 11/09/2026 10:38

Lacksie's position on her ever shrinking sandbank is now basically "You can't say trans people don't feel what they feel. However I'm not prepared to talk about the practical impacts of accepting it because that's all a different topic. So I have created a situation where I can deem all the objections people have to accepting TWAW/TMAM as simply unfair and irrational, because I have deemed all the wider points that make them fair and rational outside what I'm prepared to consider."

As so often on these threads, the image of Nelson holding his telescope to his eyepatch-covered eye comes to mind.

BackToLurk · 11/09/2026 10:38

Lacksie · 11/09/2026 10:32

How much evidence I require? You think pointing out that an unverified screenshot of a single tweet, without context, cannot reasonably be relied upon as evidence that an individual is delusional — let alone as the basis for a wider argument about trans people as a group — demonstrates an excessive standard of evidence??

I didn't suggest Willoughby was deluded. I suggested your use of ‘not necessarily claiming’ in relation to having female anatomy was a device to protect yourself against the examples of transwomen who claim just that. (And there was more than one tweet). IW claims to have a cervix and claims to be 'cis'. That is how they 'recognise' themselves. Your position is, therefore that is the truth that all others must affirm.

DiscoCherries · 11/09/2026 10:39

Ducketta · 10/09/2026 12:48

But you’re failing to come up with anything tangible that anyone more that you can refinish as being a thing. And that will be why I think gender identity is nonsense. And they will be why you think it’s not, cause you can see something that I can’t. So gender critical people - like JKR - take an absolute hammering for not seeing something that they’re blind to or may not even exist. Does that sound fair?

And can we agree that single sex spaces should be divided by biological sex only, as per the law? It’s they only way for women to maintain their privacy, dignity and safety.

Nope, not at all. The problem with this is that it suggests trans men should now all use women’s bathrooms and changing rooms. Trans men look like men. So what’s to stop an actual male wandering in and claiming ‘oh you can’t stop me, I’m a trans man!’ - it’s a stupid rule that in practice just makes no sense.

As others have said, if a man wants to attack a woman he’ll do it without bothering to put on a dress first.

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