Yes! Yes! By Georgina, 27 pages in and I think you finally get it!
Yes! It doesn't matter to anyone other than the trans person and those who love them how genuinely the trans person "recognises" their "sex" in their own self perception.
Yes! The only way that a trans woman can ever be considered a woman, or a trans man a man, in the reality they share outside their head, a woman/a man in society and in law is to change the meaning of the words themselves! To change our shared understanding of "man" and "woman" from the two physical sexes to something else.
And that has consequences and impacts far beyond the mental easing of trans distress. Consequences and impacts for every single human being on the planet.
Deciding to ignore the fact of the body and the physical and social consequences it brings, to make it so unworthy of consideration it doesn't even get a name, let alone rights and protections, in favour of some as-yet-to-be-defined commonality of mind, behaviour or self-image that we don't even know to be universally felt or particularly aligned to one sex or the other is a huge huge thing to do, and even from here we can immediately see the detrimental impact it will have on the female half of humanity especially. Should humanity ever decide that is somehow the right thing to do, that's got to have come from everyone not just the handful who stand to benefit from it.
So please. Let's stop this stupid charade of TWAW, TMAM and refocus the TRAs efforts into supporting those who live with gender dysphoria to live well in the reality they share with others, where others needs, rights and self knowledge also matter.