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What has JK Rowling said or done that’s transphobic

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Ducketta · 08/09/2026 13:26

Another thread has said that they don’t want their thread to be derailed. Y HK Rowling and morals, so I’ll start one. Can anyone please tell me what JK Rowling has ever said or done that’s transphobic? Please be specific and outline how she has been offensive to trans people and not just been protective women and girls hard fought right to separate single sex spaces.

I cannot find anything whatsoever that she has done wrong. Nothing. Nada. And yet this JK Rowling = queen of transphobia myth persists. And it’s bloody tiresome.

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AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 10/09/2026 20:52

It seems that for the hypersensitive, mention of anything that they are not or for whatever reason cannot have is triggering and cruel and nasty, even if the conversation in which the mention is made has nothing whatever to do with them.

In the same way, referring to them in their absence in any way they have not dictated as acceptable is triggering and cruel and nasty. ("Oh, you know, the bloke in sales with brown hair, what's his name?" would be right out if he wanted to think of himself as a blond, for instance.)

When I was small, my mother would look at me if I started to be that way and gently remind me that I was not the only person in the world, and that nobody really cared about my feelings except me, and her if what I felt wasn't an unreasonable demand.

Rollingpinofdoom · 10/09/2026 20:53

FlirtsWithRhinos · 10/09/2026 20:51

Ooo. It's very superficial and has nasty little sets of scare quotes (you just couldn't help yourself could you?), but it's actually better than I expected. I mean, the AI helped of course, but kudos for sort of trying.

Of course, you've missed the fundmentals out, without which it really doesn't stand up as a good representaion.

For example

The Second Wave Feminist analysis of Gender vs Sex and the repressive action of Gender upon women's social experiences and self knowledge which is critical to understanding the GC position - remember, GC isn't anti trans, it's anti gender. Trans people only get the flack because the TRA movement wants to reify Gender when really any progressive society should be challenging it as something that serves no purpose other than to limit human potential.

You've listed "fairness, service provision, accurate data collection, dignity, safety, and protections against discrimination and violence" as "sex-based rights" but completely failed to mention the historic and indeed contemporay treatment of female-bodied people by male that caused these rights to exist in the first place, leaving the impression that there is no real basis for them to exist, which is hardly accurate.

You haven't mentioned the injustice of having no name at all for the female (and indeed male) half of humanity, nor the injustice of disconnecting us from our history and from each other.

You haven't mentioned that many women simply don't see themselves as part of an identity/personality-based group of female-bodies so-called "cis" women and male-bodied so-called "trans" women, finding this to be a more sexist and reductive way to think about women than simply as female people with a full range of diversity of mind and identity, and that these women find having an identity imposed upon them for the benefit of male-bodied trans women an act of sexist aggression and marginalising of the embodied female experience.

These are all signficant foundations of the Gender Critical Feminist position. I'm quite surprised you did not realise that.

But now I know that you don't understand the GC perpsective well enough to describe it, no wonder your arguments against us are so, well, poorly made!

Poorly made is very generous. Absolute bollocks with as much coherence as someone who’s downed a bottle of Johnnie Walker is my take on the TRA “arguments” being posited

BackToLurk · 10/09/2026 20:56

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 20:36

I don’t think it’s a question of whether something is “correct” or “incorrect”. Why are you so determined that trans people must be "wrong"?

It’s no more “incorrect” to be trans than it is to be gay or to have a disorder of sex development — they are simply varieties of human diversity.

A trans person can be fully aware of their physical anatomy while still having a persistent sense of themselves as male or female that does not correspond to the sex associated with that anatomy. That is a neurocognitive and psychological experience; it is not the same thing as being factually mistaken about what body parts they have. it's not a proposition that can meaningfully be marked as right or wrong, it's simply an cognitive reality that some people have to live with.

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I’m using the examples you introduced. I presumed you thought they were relevant. They are examples of the brain telling the person something ‘incorrect’ about their body ie a limb that is theirs does not belong to them or a missing limb is in fact present. Which begs the question why is so controversial to suggest the brain of a transperson is also telling them something that isn’t true?

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 10/09/2026 21:01

BackToLurk
Which begs the question why is so controversial to suggest the brain of a transperson is also telling them something that isn’t true?

I think you might find it is heresy. Or simony or barratry or something. Bad form, anyway.

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 21:05

BackToLurk · 10/09/2026 20:56

I’m using the examples you introduced. I presumed you thought they were relevant. They are examples of the brain telling the person something ‘incorrect’ about their body ie a limb that is theirs does not belong to them or a missing limb is in fact present. Which begs the question why is so controversial to suggest the brain of a transperson is also telling them something that isn’t true?

The examples were relevant because they demonstrate that the brain’s representation of the body and self is not simply a passive read-out of anatomy ( as so many people on this thread are repeatedly insisting). That does not mean the person is “deluded” about their anatomy.

Someone with a phantom limb, or phantom limb pain, can know perfectly well that the limb has been amputated while still experiencing it / the pain as present. Someone with a disturbance of body ownership can see and understand that a limb is physically attached to them while nevertheless experiencing it as not belonging to them. These things can coexist at the same time.

Similarly a trans person can know perfectly well what physical sex characteristics they have while persistently experiencing themselves as the other sex. They are not necessarily making the factual claim “my anatomy is different from what it actually is”. Nor is that experience "wrong" , deluded or necessarily indicative of a mental illness.

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 10/09/2026 21:08

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 20:18

Well then you are not addressing the only point I was making 💁🏼‍♀️. I was trying to explain that the brain can represent the body in ways that do not necessarily map directly onto physical anatomy without the issue being mental illness.

But that’s the result of a brain injury, an abnormality.

Are you suggesting that trans people are produced by brain injury?

Rollingpinofdoom · 10/09/2026 21:09

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 21:05

The examples were relevant because they demonstrate that the brain’s representation of the body and self is not simply a passive read-out of anatomy ( as so many people on this thread are repeatedly insisting). That does not mean the person is “deluded” about their anatomy.

Someone with a phantom limb, or phantom limb pain, can know perfectly well that the limb has been amputated while still experiencing it / the pain as present. Someone with a disturbance of body ownership can see and understand that a limb is physically attached to them while nevertheless experiencing it as not belonging to them. These things can coexist at the same time.

Similarly a trans person can know perfectly well what physical sex characteristics they have while persistently experiencing themselves as the other sex. They are not necessarily making the factual claim “my anatomy is different from what it actually is”. Nor is that experience "wrong" , deluded or necessarily indicative of a mental illness.

But how do they know they are experiencing themselves as the other sex? What criteria are they using to determine this? Not that it matters. As long as they use the spaces and facilities relevant to their sexed body, there is no problem with them “experiencing” themselves in any way they please.

Rollingpinofdoom · 10/09/2026 21:09

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 10/09/2026 21:08

But that’s the result of a brain injury, an abnormality.

Are you suggesting that trans people are produced by brain injury?

Apparently so…. Slightly worrying.

moderate · 10/09/2026 21:12

moderate · 10/09/2026 20:01

If it’s not delusional, answer me this without resorting to circularity or regressive stereotypes.

What does it mean to feel like a woman?

Hey @Lacksie! You keep forgetting to answer this question! It’s a mystery why your forgetfulness is so selective!

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 21:17

Rollingpinofdoom · 10/09/2026 21:09

But how do they know they are experiencing themselves as the other sex? What criteria are they using to determine this? Not that it matters. As long as they use the spaces and facilities relevant to their sexed body, there is no problem with them “experiencing” themselves in any way they please.

How many times can I explain this? There aren’t “criteria” in the sense you keep asking for, because not every aspect of self-perception is arrived at by consciously comparing yourself with an external checklist.

Think about body ownership. How do you know your hand is your hand? You don’t examine it against a set of criteria for what “my hand” is supposed to feel like and then reach a conclusion. Your brain simply represents it as belonging to you. And we know from neurological conditions that this representation can sometimes diverge from the anatomy itself.

Or take handedness. A left-handed person does not first establish what “being left-handed feels like” by studying other left-handed people. They discover that their own nervous system has a stable preference for using one side of the body.
Even pain works this way. You don’t need an external benchmark telling you what somebody else’s pain feels like before you can know that you are in pain. It is directly experienced.

Similarly a trans woman is not working through a checklist of supposedly female traits and concluding “therefore I must be a woman”. She experiences a persistent incongruence between her sexed anatomy and her internal representation of herself as female. “What external criteria is she using?” assumes that all self-recognition must arise through comparison with other people. It simply doesn’t.

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 10/09/2026 21:19

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 20:36

I don’t think it’s a question of whether something is “correct” or “incorrect”. Why are you so determined that trans people must be "wrong"?

It’s no more “incorrect” to be trans than it is to be gay or to have a disorder of sex development — they are simply varieties of human diversity.

A trans person can be fully aware of their physical anatomy while still having a persistent sense of themselves as male or female that does not correspond to the sex associated with that anatomy. That is a neurocognitive and psychological experience; it is not the same thing as being factually mistaken about what body parts they have. it's not a proposition that can meaningfully be marked as right or wrong, it's simply an cognitive reality that some people have to live with.

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They can be ‘trans’ to their hearts content. However, if they claim to be the opposite sex in any capacity, they are wrong and need to respect women’s rights to women only spaces.

If some men want spaces away from some other men they can campaign to create their own.

Redsofacushionsandsnacks · 10/09/2026 21:20

Well, firstly, she’s wealthy, really wealthy. Most people don’t like that.
Secondly, she’s believes women have an actual vagina that they were born with.
And that “woman” should be a protected characteristic. She’s not wrong. “Identifying” as a woman, believing you are a woman, living your life as a woman, does not, in fact, make you a woman. We all know that, despite what some might wish to believe.
You do you, you can “identify” as whatever you like and I absolutely respect your right to do so. Does it make it factually or biologically true? No.

Rollingpinofdoom · 10/09/2026 21:21

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 21:17

How many times can I explain this? There aren’t “criteria” in the sense you keep asking for, because not every aspect of self-perception is arrived at by consciously comparing yourself with an external checklist.

Think about body ownership. How do you know your hand is your hand? You don’t examine it against a set of criteria for what “my hand” is supposed to feel like and then reach a conclusion. Your brain simply represents it as belonging to you. And we know from neurological conditions that this representation can sometimes diverge from the anatomy itself.

Or take handedness. A left-handed person does not first establish what “being left-handed feels like” by studying other left-handed people. They discover that their own nervous system has a stable preference for using one side of the body.
Even pain works this way. You don’t need an external benchmark telling you what somebody else’s pain feels like before you can know that you are in pain. It is directly experienced.

Similarly a trans woman is not working through a checklist of supposedly female traits and concluding “therefore I must be a woman”. She experiences a persistent incongruence between her sexed anatomy and her internal representation of herself as female. “What external criteria is she using?” assumes that all self-recognition must arise through comparison with other people. It simply doesn’t.

But criteria can also be internal. What internal checklist is a TIM using to determine he “feels female”? But then again, his body is male so he uses male spaces. Might make him sad but that’s his problem to solve. Never will be a woman, or female.

BackToLurk · 10/09/2026 21:24

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 21:05

The examples were relevant because they demonstrate that the brain’s representation of the body and self is not simply a passive read-out of anatomy ( as so many people on this thread are repeatedly insisting). That does not mean the person is “deluded” about their anatomy.

Someone with a phantom limb, or phantom limb pain, can know perfectly well that the limb has been amputated while still experiencing it / the pain as present. Someone with a disturbance of body ownership can see and understand that a limb is physically attached to them while nevertheless experiencing it as not belonging to them. These things can coexist at the same time.

Similarly a trans person can know perfectly well what physical sex characteristics they have while persistently experiencing themselves as the other sex. They are not necessarily making the factual claim “my anatomy is different from what it actually is”. Nor is that experience "wrong" , deluded or necessarily indicative of a mental illness.

Your examples demonstrate that the brain’s representation of the body can be false. The brain can tell the person something that is patently untrue. The person may truly believe it, but it still doesn’t make it true. Very few people would argue that there are no people who experience gender dysphoria (although trans activists have attempted to decouple the notion of gd from ‘being trans’). You could characterise that as the brain telling them something that is untrue, and them believing it.

What trans activists (and possibly you) are suggesting though is that rather than acknowledging that the brain is misrepresenting the body, we should give primacy to the ‘sex’ or ‘gender’ or ‘identity’ or whatever you want to call it that the brain is presenting as reality. As you have amply demonstrated, we don’t do that with any other disconnect between the brain and the body. Which brings us back to why does this uniquely apply to sex?

LVPLVT · 10/09/2026 21:27

Does no one else have an innate feeling that they are a woman? I know I’m a woman because I menstruate, get pregnant, have the anatomy etc. I adhere to some of the female stereotypes in that i occasionally wear make up, take care of my appearance etc. But I genuinely “feel like a woman” aside from that. If I woke up tomorrow with a penis and no memory I still think I would feel like a woman. I suppose it’s possible that it’s just so ingrained in me from the physical and social attributes. I can’t really verbalise why I have that feeling or what makes me feel that way (besides the obvious).

localnotail · 10/09/2026 21:29

"Female brain" does not exist unless you believe all females think the same. Any unified traits females have are body biology, hormones and a healthy dose or societal conditioning.

akkakk · 10/09/2026 21:33

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 20:46

Hmmm
actually your use of these words is doing more work than you acknowledge.

“Correct” can mean factually accurate, but when you apply it to a person’s identity or way of being it also easily takes on a normative — even moral or religious — sense of being the “right” or “proper” kind of person.

My point is that being trans is not usefully understood as either a factual mistake or a moral error. A trans person can understand their physical anatomy perfectly well while still recognised/ perceive themselves as the other sex.

That experience is not a false proposition about anatomy; it is a neurocognitive reality that they have to live with everyday. So I don’t think that whether a trans person is “correct” or “incorrect” about who they are is a meaningful or relevant question.

A trans person can understand their physical anatomy perfectly well while still recognised/ perceive themselves as the other sex.

No

they can perceive themselves as whatever they want but when there is a clear contradiction between the sex they are and the sex they claim - society will label that as delusional, or perverted, or nefarious

they won’t be recognised as the other sex with the wrong physical anatomy for the simple reason that they are not the other sex

but we keep on mentioning this and you keep ignoring the inconvenient truths of biology and fact…

born man remains man
born woman remains woman

localnotail · 10/09/2026 21:34

LVPLVT · 10/09/2026 21:27

Does no one else have an innate feeling that they are a woman? I know I’m a woman because I menstruate, get pregnant, have the anatomy etc. I adhere to some of the female stereotypes in that i occasionally wear make up, take care of my appearance etc. But I genuinely “feel like a woman” aside from that. If I woke up tomorrow with a penis and no memory I still think I would feel like a woman. I suppose it’s possible that it’s just so ingrained in me from the physical and social attributes. I can’t really verbalise why I have that feeling or what makes me feel that way (besides the obvious).

As someone who gone through menopause I cant even begin to tell you how much of what have you described disappeared once I my periods stopped and my hormones changed. I still like to look good but now it has zero connection to wanting to be attractive to anyone. If I woke up a male I would just start wearing suits etc )) would also be quite pleased as males in my profession generally get 10-20k/year more than females.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 10/09/2026 21:34

backformoreofthesame · 10/09/2026 16:12

So you are saying that there is some as yet missing piece of science that will prove that transgender women are women and that I am a man in denial ?

edit even though I act like a female ( the result of decade of training ) and most transgender males don’t ?

Edited

Still doesn't work.

There could be a bit of science in future that explains why some men feel internally they are "women".

It might even be a thing newly discovered that most women recognise to be true about themselves, a genuine new understanding of gender that does indeed exist and does indeed cut across the sexes.

We might, because of that, decide that "woman" and "girl" should now mean something other than simply the female half of humanity.

But there can never, never be a thing that is found that makes the male body "actually" the female body in the sense of the thing those words mean today, because it just is not that thing. The very defintion of that thing itself is what excludes it, in the same way that the definition of standing up excludes sitting down, or the definition of swimming excludes skiing.

So no matter what science may or may not find in future, it will never change the truth that the only way a trans woman can ever be actually, objectively a "woman", or a trans man actually, objectively a "man" is to change what those words mean. To impose a redefinition of self onto every single human on the planet.

And at the end of the day, if you have to change a thing before you can prove you are that thing - then you ain't in fact that thing.

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 21:35

BackToLurk · 10/09/2026 21:24

Your examples demonstrate that the brain’s representation of the body can be false. The brain can tell the person something that is patently untrue. The person may truly believe it, but it still doesn’t make it true. Very few people would argue that there are no people who experience gender dysphoria (although trans activists have attempted to decouple the notion of gd from ‘being trans’). You could characterise that as the brain telling them something that is untrue, and them believing it.

What trans activists (and possibly you) are suggesting though is that rather than acknowledging that the brain is misrepresenting the body, we should give primacy to the ‘sex’ or ‘gender’ or ‘identity’ or whatever you want to call it that the brain is presenting as reality. As you have amply demonstrated, we don’t do that with any other disconnect between the brain and the body. Which brings us back to why does this uniquely apply to sex?

No — this is the same leap again.

The examples demonstrate that the brain’s representation of the body is not simply a passive readout from anatomy. They do not demonstrate that every divergence between that representation and anatomy is therefore a “false belief”, still less a delusion or mental illness.

You are also assuming that whenever internal experience and anatomy diverge, medicine must give primacy to anatomy and somehow train the brain out of the experience. But that is not a general principle of medicine at all. Treatment depends on the nature of the phenomenon and on what actually reduces distress and improves functioning. Different conditions are treated differently.

Indeed, modern diagnostic medicine specifically does not classify transgender identity as a mental disorder. The WHO moved gender incongruence out of the mental-disorders chapter of ICD-11 because the evidence does not support understanding trans identity itself as mental illness.

So the question “why does this uniquely apply to sex?” has a fairly straightforward answer: because different neuropsychological phenomena are different phenomena. We do not decide how to understand or treat one condition by analogy alone; we look at its actual characteristics and the empirical evidence about what helps.

sanityisamyth · 10/09/2026 21:37

Lacksie · 08/09/2026 13:37

Rowling holds gender-critical beliefs under which sex is immutable and trans women remain male, campaigns to ensure that law and institutions treat sex rather than gender identity as decisive in all contexts, and repeatedly has used language that portrays trans female identity as false, performative or male intrusion. People who define transphobia as including systematic invalidation or denigration of transgender identities therefore have substantial direct evidence for calling her transphobic.

So, she’s correct then? Not transphobic.

Rollingpinofdoom · 10/09/2026 21:38

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 21:35

No — this is the same leap again.

The examples demonstrate that the brain’s representation of the body is not simply a passive readout from anatomy. They do not demonstrate that every divergence between that representation and anatomy is therefore a “false belief”, still less a delusion or mental illness.

You are also assuming that whenever internal experience and anatomy diverge, medicine must give primacy to anatomy and somehow train the brain out of the experience. But that is not a general principle of medicine at all. Treatment depends on the nature of the phenomenon and on what actually reduces distress and improves functioning. Different conditions are treated differently.

Indeed, modern diagnostic medicine specifically does not classify transgender identity as a mental disorder. The WHO moved gender incongruence out of the mental-disorders chapter of ICD-11 because the evidence does not support understanding trans identity itself as mental illness.

So the question “why does this uniquely apply to sex?” has a fairly straightforward answer: because different neuropsychological phenomena are different phenomena. We do not decide how to understand or treat one condition by analogy alone; we look at its actual characteristics and the empirical evidence about what helps.

Still doesn’t matter. Men cannot become women, they will never know how it feels to be female and they must use spaces relevant to their sex. Whatever they claim to feel inside.

backformoreofthesame · 10/09/2026 21:45

Medicine doesn’t have to do anything for those transgender individuals especially if they have no illness like you insist

Other than acknowledge their sex to ensure the get the correct treatment and are not killed by treating them as the sex they think they are

moderate · 10/09/2026 21:49

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 21:35

No — this is the same leap again.

The examples demonstrate that the brain’s representation of the body is not simply a passive readout from anatomy. They do not demonstrate that every divergence between that representation and anatomy is therefore a “false belief”, still less a delusion or mental illness.

You are also assuming that whenever internal experience and anatomy diverge, medicine must give primacy to anatomy and somehow train the brain out of the experience. But that is not a general principle of medicine at all. Treatment depends on the nature of the phenomenon and on what actually reduces distress and improves functioning. Different conditions are treated differently.

Indeed, modern diagnostic medicine specifically does not classify transgender identity as a mental disorder. The WHO moved gender incongruence out of the mental-disorders chapter of ICD-11 because the evidence does not support understanding trans identity itself as mental illness.

So the question “why does this uniquely apply to sex?” has a fairly straightforward answer: because different neuropsychological phenomena are different phenomena. We do not decide how to understand or treat one condition by analogy alone; we look at its actual characteristics and the empirical evidence about what helps.

“The examples demonstrate that the brain’s representation whether or not a person is Jesus Christ not simply a passive readout from reality. They do not demonstrate that every divergence between that representation and reality is therefore a “false belief”, still less a delusion or mental illness.”

STOP. TALKING. SHITE.

BackToLurk · 10/09/2026 21:53

Lacksie · 10/09/2026 21:35

No — this is the same leap again.

The examples demonstrate that the brain’s representation of the body is not simply a passive readout from anatomy. They do not demonstrate that every divergence between that representation and anatomy is therefore a “false belief”, still less a delusion or mental illness.

You are also assuming that whenever internal experience and anatomy diverge, medicine must give primacy to anatomy and somehow train the brain out of the experience. But that is not a general principle of medicine at all. Treatment depends on the nature of the phenomenon and on what actually reduces distress and improves functioning. Different conditions are treated differently.

Indeed, modern diagnostic medicine specifically does not classify transgender identity as a mental disorder. The WHO moved gender incongruence out of the mental-disorders chapter of ICD-11 because the evidence does not support understanding trans identity itself as mental illness.

So the question “why does this uniquely apply to sex?” has a fairly straightforward answer: because different neuropsychological phenomena are different phenomena. We do not decide how to understand or treat one condition by analogy alone; we look at its actual characteristics and the empirical evidence about what helps.

So the question “why does this uniquely apply to sex?” has a fairly straightforward answer: because different neuropsychological phenomena are different phenomena.

Well no. That doesn’t explain why sex uniquely is treated in this way. We’d expect other examples.

There is no leap. People believe things to be true about themselves that are demonstrably untrue. You’ve shown that. Some people believe their missing limbs are still present and some men believe they are women. Neither are true. Only one declares people are hateful if they don’t play along.

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